The other day I was shut down by an 8. Throughout the entire interaction, she was uninterested. She didn't want to give me the time of day.

As soon as I walked up and introduced myself, she had this look on her face that I know too well. She knew my intentions and gears started turning in her head. She was thinking, "how can I get out of this without seeming like too much of a cunt?"

After approaching more women than I can remember, I noticed a trend in receptiveness. 80% of the time, the look I get upon initial approach, usually tells me something about how the interaction will go, and whether or not I've got them made, or if I am going to have to sell myself a little differently.

This girl was hot, but ironically, I have fucked more than a dozen women tiers above her. Women that make her look subpar.

Later that night, I ran into one of my frequent plates. She is a solid 9. She is 25 years old. She introduced me to 3 of her guy friends (which I assume we're gay) and 1 girl friend. Her and I have been fucking for 10 months with breaks as long as 1 month. She almost definitely won't have a boyfriend until she hits the wall around 29.

So I decided to extract some information out of her. We slowly got to talking about relationships the next morning. I didn't want to make it seem as if I was inquiring directly about her past, I just wanted her to open up about it on her own.

She explained to me how she has many guys friends, several of which she has fucked in the past, but now it's "strictly platonic." Her most recent boyfriend, a few months or so ago, was extremely attractive, but it only lasted two months. (Hmm that's weird, we haven't gone that long without fucking...)

She explained what happened.

Her: "He got really weird on me..."

Me: "Weird like rapey?"

Her: "Haha no! I mean he started to freak out about the guy friends." (don't mate guard, instead just plates these types of girls and only enter LTR's with girls who don't go out with "guy friends" 2 nights a week.)

Me: "Why?"

Her: "I don't know, one grabbed me in front of him before." (I find out later it's one of the ones she's fucked previously.) "And after that, he started to like mark his territory. Every time we were in public he was so disingenuous, he would kiss me and pull on me just so everyone else would see. It really turned me off and creeped me out. I also didn't really know we were together like that. He didn't really make it clear. But after, I kind of realized I should of known. Just during, I didn't really put it together."

Me: "Yeah."

Her: "Then he blocked me on social media. Haha that's when I knew, I win, bitch! Thanks for reminding me by blocking me."

Me: "haha."

What did I pull together from this little tid bit?

Where you are matters more than you might know. This is why cold approach during the day is extremely important... I approached this 8 at the bar, but I approached the solid 9 in the street. The 8 was the prize that night for nearly every guy in there who couldn't do better than her.

Hot girls just want to have fun. That is, until they hit the wall. I said to her, "eh I don't think you're ready for a relationship until you're 30." She somewhat "corrected" me on this. It was hard not to roll my eyes.

"Anytime I meet a guy, he always says something about plans next week or next month." (Right here she makes a cringe face, followed by a terrified face and then she laughs.)

"Next month?!?! I don't even know what I am doing tomorrow. Commitment freaks me out. I think if two people are going to date, it should just happen. No one should have to say anything, and things should just click from both sides putting the work in."

What she is saying here is that she wants space. What is an alpha male? Well, simply said, it's a guy she wants to fuck. A guy she wants to fuck, firstly. Alpha males don't chase women for commitment like most of these guys have been doing to her, they're the ones who are getting chased or getting chased to get fucked by her. Why? If they have been exhibiting good supporting traits, like a good job, self control, etc. a woman may also look to him as a source of something more than dick. If you don't want that to happen, don't exhibit the traits girls look for in a relationship. Even if you do want that to happen, understand most women who are smoke shows, don't want relationships. Why would they? They get to utilize their beauty in order to live the dualistic nature they prefer. So you better be top tier beta bucks (this girl is on VIP lists in the largest cities in America, I've seen proof. Everything paid for, guys who own clubs escorting her around.) or you better be top tier alpha fucks and have all your ducks in a row.

Perception is everything. That night I fucked a girl much hotter than the 8 in the club. The 8 had a perception that I wasn't alpha. Actually, she wasn't even interested in creating one. She didn't even give a fuck. This in part was due to location, she had the pick of the litter. If I had exhibited social proof before hand, things could of changed. Regardless, perception develops partly on its own, and the rest is up to you to generate. She knew she didn't need to rush around searching for her Prince Charming that night.