Help! Addicted to internet P***.

Morranaii · 2015-08-19T04:56:47+00:00

go to YOUR BRAIN ON PORN (google it)

there was a discussion re addiction to porn here recently where almost everybody hang dogs on me saying that it's not existing. ;-F

dfaer5 · 2015-08-19T13:59:34+00:00

If you take NoFap to its logical extreme, then you end up supporting the anti-sex feminist agenda where most men are forced into celibacy. You also increase your chances of becoming a pussy beggar because you have no other outlet. NoFap should be treated as an exercise of will-power, because most of it is actually pseudo-science.

alanwatttts · 2015-08-19T11:34:34+00:00

With great porn, comes great responsibility.

ShitfacedBatman · 2015-08-19T15:46:33+00:00

lowers my productivity, happiness, confidence and just makes me feel terrible

This has a lot to do with wanting female approval and validation, and every time you blast one off and you don't receive that (and you won't because the female isn't in the room, she's on the screen) you feel like shit. You need to work on your self-esteem.

The older you get, you'll still rub one out from time to time but you're not going to feel shitty about it. This will happen from building self-esteem, not continually rubbing one out every day to see if your feelings have changed.

To coin a phrase: "Get a life."

mr_thoughts · 2015-08-19T04:46:43+00:00

Go to /r/nofap for help on your addiction. Although, I don't think completely removing porn use is needed. It sounds like, you may need to take a break from it. Everything in moderation~

mgtowguynow · 2015-08-19T04:49:32+00:00

Become multi-orgasmic. Best decision I've ever made.

ElectricGhostD · 2015-08-19T11:35:57+00:00

All things in moderation. Make cut backs and don't binge.

squidracer · 2015-08-19T14:29:22+00:00

Have you tried working out or running.. Few years ago I got into running road races. It almost became an obsession and really have me something to focus on.. Not to mention how relaxed it made me

Trekbiker · 2015-08-19T17:31:08+00:00

not "addicted" but watched quite a bit for a couple years. Porn sure has improved since I was a kid, I mean really hot young women are everywhere. Contrast that to the '70's used up sluts that were the norm on porn films.

I stopped when all the viruses, Trojans, worms, etc that infest most porn sites destroyed my laptop. Ended having to wipe the drive clean it was so bad. Too scared to go back now with my laptop rebuilt and cleaned up. Don't miss Porn at all it turns out

abertsa · 2015-08-19T19:10:37+00:00

Pussy is a drug more powerful than cocaine. I'm about to make a post about my personal observations on this.

mydark · 2015-08-20T10:22:14+00:00

I don't know how much of the shame is really caused by porn rather than the public shame attached to it (primarily by women) in order to keep men in their roles. There is something to be said for moderation though. Might be better to try and develop more hobbies and just doing it less. As i got older I still like porn but I don't obsess over it like I did when I was younger. Try and limit your porn use to every couple of days and see how that works out.

kainmalice · 2015-08-20T13:06:43+00:00

I have a suggestion. I have also been trying to do the NoFap thing. Been going about a week so far, and I can feel the urge to fuck everything that moves very strongly. But I am only doing it for 90 days, just to see what happens. Kinda scared that my values on monogamy are probably going to falter, and I am gonna end up having sex with one of the many married women that I work with at my job. But maybe that is wishful thinking. If you can't get away from the porn, do what I did and start just masturbating to your fantasies in your head. Stop watching porn, but don't stop jerking it. I did that for almost three to four weeks, and noticed a difference when I went back to watching porn for a while. Some of the porn we watch is rather dehumanizing, but it is sometimes hard to draw the line. Probably another grey area of life I imagine.

rubifen · 2015-08-19T12:02:15+00:00

What worked for me was:

1.- Download and install K9 Web Protection: http://www1.k9webprotection.com/

2.- Have a friend, brother, father (even your GF) create a password that you can NEVER guess.

3.- If you need an excuse, say that you have been watching gore videos and you dont want to see them anymore.

And thats that.

Whenever you need to unblock a site thats nor porn, tell your password keeper to unblock it.

This helps ALLOT.

Oh, and exercise regularly ( I mean heavy exercise), dont consume irritants (coffee, chocolate, coca cola etc) and keep busy.

God bless.

rtron36 · 2015-08-19T16:33:26+00:00

I have felt this way many times and feel the same as you at the moment. I tried nofap and it just felt like shame for having biological urges, with extra shame when you inevitably "relapse." Going nofap all the way feels just as bad as how you feel now. Try this . . . when you feel an urge, watch an extremely explicit movie and get off quickly, as in, less than 2 minutes. Just get it over with. So if you fap 5 times in one day, you'll have wasted no more than 10 minutes.

tomysotomayorfuxboys · 2015-08-19T12:37:58+00:00

Do what you want, but all of the anti-porn, anti-fap stuff is bullshit. If you don't want anything to do with real women, then it would make sense to watch more porn, not less.

DarkestJ · 2015-08-19T18:11:02+00:00

Where are all these NoFap clowns coming from? Is there some myth perpetuated that MGTOW don't wack off? I sure as hell do. If I go too long without rubbing one out, the tiniest things frustrate me into wanting to choke people and I'm generally a much angrier, unhappy person.

You can be addicted to porn, but you can be addicted to anything. Not jerking off is only going to make you an even bigger pussy beggar. Do it in moderation just like anything else.

Elder_Yautja · 2015-08-19T20:18:55+00:00

Don't try to stop, that's impossible. Sex is a drive like food or air you can't quit it "cold turkey". Try to get it under control. 20 minutes a day. Do it once, get it out of your system, and get on with your day. Treat it like any other daily chore, like shaving. Get it done, and that's you until tomorrow.

Raiden8M02 · 2015-08-20T09:36:27+00:00

Why would porn make you unable to be happy? Watching Porn is one of the few things in life I have to look forward to every day.

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