Summary: A client reveals to me that she is a sex worker and allows me to take advantage of her skills because of red pill lessons.

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This is going to come off like a big humblebrag but I'm writing it because there are some red pill truths inside. Basically being attractive and powerful in my element opened up a door I didn't even know existed - and never would have considered a year ago.

I work as a personal trainer in my city dealing with injury rehab cases, so most of my clients are older and not even remotely attractive. I'm very good at what I do and have a private studio I work out of. In short, when I'm in my element I tell people what to do with lots of authority and have immense frame because it's my place and people pay me well for it.

Recently a girl contacted me who told me she works as a hairdresser and has a shoulder and back problem. She found my web site and we met for the first time a couple of weeks ago. She's in her late 20's, about a 7 with piercings and tats, think the typical suicide girl - very cool and we got along well. I'm very professional when i'm at my job so got down to business. No flirting, nothing overt from either side at all.

Yesterday was our fourth session together and the final one she had paid for in advance. It went as usual except that she said she had something to tell me afterwards if I had time - I did - and when we went into my office and sat down she revealed to me that besides doing hair she also worked as an escort part time. I don't judge and didn't even blink although it did interest me.

Here's the kicker: she then states that instead of paying me in the usual way she was wondering if she could pay me in trade (she knows I'm separated). She went on to tell me that she really liked my body (because I lift and I'm lean - even though I'm 41) and the fact that I was so commanding during her sessions really turned her on because she was submissive when she was with her clients.

I didn't really know what to do at that stage - torn between being professional and getting some unexpected action, but I asked what she had in mind and ended up receiving one of the best blow jobs I've ever had. She wanted sex but I didn't have any protection and I still have to consider having sex with a known sex worker which is obviously riskier than the average Tinderella even though I'm sure many of them have had more cocks than her (I know my ex girlfriend has).

We texted a bit last night and I asked her what made her make the approach - she told me it was that I have a great body and that it turned her on to have me tell her what to do. Lesson learned. We meet once a week and she's already set the expectation that I can fuck her if I want to.

Now, this girl fucks thirsty guys for a living - she could be blowing smoke up my ass, and she stated herself that she's super horny all the time. But I just got serviced by an escort for free. And will definitely get more out of her because she said she loved it and wanted to end all of our sessions that way.

So here's the lessons for red pill guys: As has been stated ad nauseum here: LIFT. My physique looks vaguely like a Men's Health guy, nothing big but well proportioned and lean. I'm 41 and get looks constantly - of course it helps that I work in a gym and have competed as a bodybuilder before.

Get them into your element. Have something you're really good at? Bring them along and let them see you doing something really well not many people can do. Tell them what to do when you're there.

Abundance also helps. I have a main girl and a couple of others I'm dating, including the 20 year old I made a FR about last week. I also have two other women who are casual sex partners I see occasionally. So this girl offering herself to me effectively in trade meant not much because I have lots of other options.

I'm sure I'll get called BS on this and I do acknowledge that this is not a usual interaction. I do have nudes of her (which she sent me last night) but really it doesn't matter. The point is that looking good, being authoritative and not stressed about women can open doors to pussy you had never even considered before. That's the lesson.

TL:DR: Be attractive, have authority and abundance and you too can have hookers giving you blow jobs for free.

My sex life since separation and learning Red Pill principles has been ridiculous.

EDIT: Very true as some pointed out - it is a barter, not free. Her time as an escort is probably worth much more per hour than mine as a trainer.