Fuck Pickup

spencers6-94 · 2016-05-27T23:38:13+00:00

Fuck 'the game' fuck 'pickup' It's a waste of the average mans time. I'm off to drink a few beers and float around my hot tub listening to pink flloyd.

Good choice man!

cariboo_j · 2016-05-28T02:41:24+00:00

If you strip away the "true love" and "companionship" narrative sex is just another drug to get high on.

PUAs allegedly aren't blue pill but they still get an ego boost from being selected by women. By getting deemed worthy of sex. I've brought this up as a criticism on TRP and some of those dudes actually told me "yes you're right I need my ego stroked".

At the end of the day they're still relying on women's opinions of them for self worth. True happiness comes from within. It's funny how a lot of them are anti drug too and look down on people who use drugs even recreationally. You could get a similar dopamine hit from snorting a line of coke. But no, you have to work and prove yourself worthy to some random woman at a bar to get that dopamine hit.

PUAs and a lot of guys on TRP are little more than trained monkeys, dancing for scraps of food from their masters.

asshole1138 · 2016-05-27T23:48:43+00:00

Indeed. Once the glasses are off, it's like, "Why am I here? This is bullshit." Unfortunately I discovered the truth a bit late. Still useful, though. If nothing else, it's surprising how much more courteous women are when you don't give a shit about them.

Raiden627 · 2016-05-27T23:50:13+00:00

Its not worth it unless its paying off. And fuck relationships.

I put in like the barest minimum of effort. Sometimes it pays off and i get laid.

I think all men should vote with our feet and stop giving women so much attention. Let them scrape and scamper competing 4:1 for chad and become bitter and regretful never-marrieds and childless or single mothers struggling in poverty.

Shrug. Im happier without them.

aanarchist · 2016-05-28T00:19:14+00:00

the meanest girl i've ever known told me i was nasty. she was a 1/10 weighing in at 200++

i didn't even hit on her, she just felt the need to try to hurt my feelings.

MaterialMaverick · 2016-05-27T23:38:52+00:00

Sadly women will never evolve to put in a single iota of effort in the dating game because of their biological privilege to be the selectors and not the pursuers.

I'm easily the shortest dude, everyone is jacked and with tattoos they all look like god damn male models, this seems to be the new average, I had a Sarte moment of absudism, why the flying fuck am I talking to these boring ugly woman who are so used to getting sex from the top 20% of guys when in the best case senario they might dump me beaucse I won't give them any money.

And the crux is that you're not just competing against all of the men in your immediate environment, but also all of the men that the particular woman has previously been with (alpha widow concept). There's a lot of stress trying to be in the 99.99th percentile of attractiveness because it's damn near impossible unless you were genetically gifted or had extraordinary luck.

Schwartzshortz · 2016-05-28T04:55:05+00:00

Amen. Fuck the game.

Live for yourself, you'll find it pleasing.

WidmerBeer · 2016-05-28T04:33:22+00:00

Last time I went to the bar scene just by pure happenstance (I'm beyond over wasting my money at those places) I saw things from a RP/MGTOW perspective rather than a chasing tail perspective. I'm much older now, many of my friends married too, so that helps.

You're right, there's a ton of dudes who are younger and way better looking than you, and many of those guys don't hit it off with women either, so what makes you think you will? That's not your realm. The only way you're going to pull the hot tail of a 22 year old at the bars is if you're a celebrity, a worker at the bar, or happen to be the talentless DJ playing that night. I have many Asian friends and they realized you have to be a diamond studded social dildo to appeal to women in that scene. Do you even enjoy those places? If you don't then you're out of your element. I sure as shit don't enjoy those places.

If you're out of your element you need to realize you're a fish trying to run on land. Go find where you excel and start there. At least you're finding this out now, because we've been fed this idea that all the 'extrovert' activities are the only sociable and fun experiences to be had, especially when you're young. You know why? You're rich, you know why. Easy profit. Young people are impressionable, they follow the crowd, the majority of customers and bar hoppers take years to figure out they don't even enjoy being there. $10.00 for a budlight so you can listen to loud music and see chicks who stroke their ego because they wouldn't give you the time of day without looking at your bank statement? No thanks.

Find what you like to do, follow your passion, if you're looking for a girl then be glad the bar isn't where you're going to meet her. Girls who go clubbing and all that bullshit aren't worth your time anyway. You're better off finding some hot tail and paying for them to leave, if you know what I mean, while you figure out the next move you want to make in your finances, etc. If you got 2mil worth of assets, then know that each girl at those clubs is a depreciating asset, and you're the fucking prize with potential to raise in price. You got it made dude.

danxmason · 2016-05-28T08:51:22+00:00

Modern dating is 90% of women fighting over 10% of men. Fuck that noise.

bonusfruit · 2016-05-28T01:42:54+00:00

Bars are cancer and the women there are high on their inflated sense of smv. But there's a vital attraction building lesson hidden in your story. When you started talking to other guys about what you do, the woman suddenly was interested in you.

On the occasions when I've gotten action I find its similar. I'm focusing on doing my thing with no interest in seeking female attention. That's when they seem yo fall in your lap. Its stupid but it works better than purposely going out hoping to start a conversation

The only thing I find value in regarding pua is the admonishion to improve yourself and engage in passions for their own sake. Its just good for you but also it draws women in naturally for some reason

cynicalsimon · 2016-05-28T01:48:06+00:00

Your fault with pursuing these bitch's

samirahmad2594 · 2016-05-28T05:13:31+00:00

I simply never did the whole dating/pick up stuff. I keep it simple, when its affordbale I stick to escorts.

the_real_chronos · 2016-05-28T09:22:08+00:00

If you're that loaded just find a good escort. Also, get off the bar scene. Pretty much all the women you'll meet there are like that. Find a good hobby that draws a lot of female attention and practice your game there. You'll get much better results (also, daygame in decent places).

AdolfSchmitler · 2016-05-27T23:18:09+00:00

I've noticed that as well about 4's and 5's. For some reason they're able to get the higher tier men. Of course this allows them to put in minimum effort to improve themselves since they can get higher men anyway.

89070708078 · 2016-05-28T00:26:11+00:00

Yeah, women are shitty in 2016.

Water is wet, sky is blue.

Another good man, gone.

PinHunter65 · 2016-05-28T03:44:54+00:00

Get stoned, have a beer, throw on Dark Side of the Moon

Noomene · 2016-05-28T05:31:46+00:00

With every new man taking the red pill, the wall that these sluts are going to hug at some point gets closer and closer and thicker and rougher ... so that the finale show will be a feast for us MGTOW to watch everything go to flames from afar while listening to Pink Floyd ... why the fuck not.

HappyManBeast · 2016-05-28T22:11:51+00:00

I'm off to drink a few beers and float around my hot tub

My man!

CaptainStardust · 2016-05-29T05:25:36+00:00

The last time I went to a bar was with some friends a year ago. I looked around, saw that literally every guy was a Chad, and realized there is simply no point to trying if you aren't at least an 8.

not_slater_yet · 2016-05-28T14:17:17+00:00

I have to concur. I'm not even looking to date or hook up but lately when I make the mistake of interacting with a woman at the bar I'm not even surprised anymore when they act entitled, rude and downright mean. Just remember that women can act like that in bars/clubs and there will be zero negative consequences. It's encouraged.

Title	Fuck Pickup
Author	leoberto
Upvotes	55
Comments	51
Date	May 27, 2016 10:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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