Disproportionality: A curious observation of SJWs/radical feminists

DackJing · 2016-10-13T08:51:56+00:00

I'm going to go out on a limb and say it might be because they have formed a kind of self-identity around their victimhood. Early childhood experiences are incredibly important in one's development and personality, as any psychologist will tell you. In particular, the relationship between a child and their opposite-sex parent will have a large impact on their future romantic relationships. Those who have supportive, healthy relationships are lucky and ussually form healthy romantic relationships. Unfortunately, if someone experiences trauma with regard to their parents it may color their idea of love and their preferences. For example, a child with absentee or perpetually busy parents often become clingy and overly needy in relationships; whereas those with emotionally stressful or overbearing parents often are aloof and have a hard time connecting. In the case of abuse, what can happen is that they subconsciously believe that "love" is supposed to feel like what they had with their (abusive) father, since thats the first instance of love their experience and it becomes a template. In extreme cases you have the woman who keeps dating abusive man after abusive man. Not intentionally of course, but it's a subconscious thing. So there's that. Also if you form your self-identity around being a victim (as with all self-identities) you will seek to reinforce and validate that identity. Anyways just talking out of my ass. Maybe that has something to do with it?

changshuaidiao · 2016-10-13T02:47:52+00:00

I've had my dick, ass, chest etc grabbed without permission literally dozens of times in my life by men and women alike. I've had sex with people while drunk that I otherwise wouldn't have, been pressured into sex by women after saying no, emotionally manipulated into sex, and banged girls I didn't want to to spare their feelings or because a friend wanted me to, or to fulfill expectations as a man. To me all of these things are innocuous, and no big deal. If I were a sjw I'd be too traumatized to leave my house. A lot of the crisis they see is strictly down to their interpretation of reality and their desire to conform things that aren't that big a deal to fit their narrative. If you use the same flimsy parameters to define assault or harrassment of women and applied them to men things would look just as bad or worse for us, which is why men are always left out when they create a "shock" study.

Rebikhan · 2016-10-13T12:27:42+00:00

I'm willing to gamble it's mostly about lying. An unattractive women telling everyone that they've been sexually assaulted not once, but multiple times, is really telling everyone that they're so attractive that a man would risk jail-time just to be with them once. It's a humble brag.

whatsthisgarg · 2016-10-12T23:02:20+00:00

Oh shit; go to any of your favorite places on Reddit, and it's overwhelming. As a rape survivor... I've been sexually assaulted also... I suffer from PTSD... and my all-time favorite:

My rapist... LOL you can't own a rapist

It has to be a combination of things. 1, the victimhood identity it is so important to have. 2, the vast expansion of the definition of offenses. 3, the need to increase the numbers of offenses, no matter how untrue. 4, advanced slutty, ill-conceived, sex positivity lol that puts them in position for higher concentration of bad choices, later re-interpreted as assaults.

Most important is 5, they are idiots and think they can determine reality by using words.

[deleted] · 2016-10-12T22:14:40+00:00

Because they are retards. If you are passing out drunk at 2 am without a designated driver, then the chance of you having "unwanted sex" is pretty high. They just push all responsibility off themselves and onto the "perpretrators" when its half their own damn fault.

Oh. And they feel that when a guy "pressures" them to sex and they regret it later on its rape.

feminists_are_dumb · 2016-10-13T02:52:50+00:00

No. It's the fact that they know they are sexually UNattractive. They obsess over rape because they are fixating on the one thing they can never have: unbridled male sexual attention.

ReddittFeist · 2016-10-13T15:04:50+00:00

In many cases it's White Knight syndrome.

Many SJWs, male and female, want to "boost their self esteem"/"find meaning"/"get good feelz" by "defending victims" from the evil white people/corporations/alt-right/manosphere or whatever the "oppressor of the moment" is.

It's sort of similar to White Knight dorks who cockblock you at clubs or whatever, trying to feel like "defenders of righteousness," either to compensate for their inability to get laid or because of wigged-out anti-sex moralism.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-10-13T17:38:56+00:00

I think it's a form of Munchhausen's Syndrome, for seekers of attention, sympathy and drama.

A friend of mine shared a FB post of a different friend of this woman's sordid-tale-as-anti-Trump-diatribe, about her life-long victimization by white men, and about halfway through you realize that either she is the Unluckiest Woman Alive or she's quite excellent at creative writing.

They live for that shit. There was a rape trial in Canada recently where the judge quoted Sylvia Plath (or similar) at the sentencing and all the little SJW-wannabe chicks in the gallery fairly swooned. That's what this shit is about.

favours_of_the_moon · 2016-10-12T22:15:57+00:00

What is the deal with SJWs/radical feminists and sexual assault? They always seem to have disproportionately higher rates of some kind of sexual grievance. Maybe it's a rape, being folded by a step dad, or whatever, but it almost always begins with something that happened in childhood and they seem to keep experiencing similar things throughout their lives. Why is that? Could it really be as simple as a causal effect, that these repeated incidents are what drove them insane and thus became SJWs/radical feminists?

Incidence of actualrape has been declining consistently for decades. These people politicize rape by redefining it and using it as a political weapon. Look at college campuses nowadays. The accused HAVE no rights.

Want to get rid of someone who is making a difference or challenging the status quo? All they have to do is entrap you or make a false accusation.

exit_sandman · 2016-10-12T22:49:45+00:00

It's both.

On the one hand you have people who are unstable personalities by default and as such are more likely to adopt a narrative that enables them to engage in guilt- and blameless manipulation; adhering to feminism and interpreting every underwhelming sexual encounter as rape (or even making them up) meshes well with this.

On the other you have people with an actual history of victimization at the hands of men; these individuals are more likely to convert to an ideology that grants them unconditional support while simultaneously feeding their distrust of men.

sir_wankalot_here · 2016-10-13T00:30:58+00:00

90% of the time, woman got caught behaving like a slut or the guy she was fucking somehow embarrassed her. So she then screams rape. Most of the PUA shit in my opinion is asking for a potential rape accusation. It is inherently aggressive, there is a difference between aggressive and assertive.

As for the feminist, broadly speaking it can be divided into two camps. First one is some landwhale second is a smart chick who is taking the system for a ride. A few times I trickle truths the second category into admitting its a load of shit but it gets them $$$.

razormachine · 2016-10-13T07:43:15+00:00

Because victim-hood!

In feminist, SJW, socialist circles the biggest victims get the biggest positions in hierarchy.

So they will try to make themselves the biggest victim they can. Some simply super-inflate anything into rape, some flat out lie about sexual assaults, and some intentionally get themselves into dangerous situations over and over again.

stawek · 2016-10-13T08:47:00+00:00

They firmly believe they are much better than men and like to hurt them. This may cause them to behave in a very inviting way, only to "remove consent" at the very last moment and watch the man squirm. Only some men will be too far gone to stop. Some other will be upset enough to hurl verbal abuse at her.

"Sexual assault" is extemely easy to provoke if a woman wants it. Imagine you hit on a CrazyFeminist in a mall. She hates you, of course, just like she hates all men, so she tries to "punish" you for your harassment. All she has to do is touch you during the chat. Nice smile, touch your waist, get a bit closer. This is such an obvious green flag that any man will react and touch her back, something like arm around waist and hand on ass. This is the moment she calls security and police, starts screaming, then goes home and tweets "got my ass grabbed again in a Mall. All men are pigs"

FrgElder · 2016-10-13T15:52:24+00:00

There is some psychological backing to support the idea that there exists people that are perpetual victims. Just like people look for subtle cues to see if you're alpha/beta, they can also pick up if you're a victim or not. Predators who prey on the weakness of others pick up on these subtleties subconsciously and single out the weakest members. Actual rape survivors/victims are much more likely to be singled out and taken advantage of again than people who have never been subjected to that kind of attack.

That being said, I have the sneaking suspicion that the majority of these SJWs and 3rd-wave feminists have not experienced real sexual assaults or rapes. They either exaggerate or completely fabricate experiences so that they can use it as ammo for their cause. A guy talking to them at the bar becomes harassment, a guy touching their arm in public is sexual assault, and a drunken one night stand becomes a rape. They wear the stories of their abuse/rapes as badges of honor, like a credit that had to be earned so they could be part of the group. They treat it like a popularity contest, whoever has the most horrible story wins. This is very different from how victims of something as terrible as rape usually act, where they find it very difficult to talk about the experience. I've been a victim of abuse (not sexual) and I can say that the self-hating, silence, embarrassment, and shame aspects they describe of being a victim are definitely true. Because of this most genuine rapes do go unreported, in contrast to these SJWs who try to fill their blog posts with them.

Of course these same SJWs and feminists would attempt to shame anyone that differentiates between actual rapes and their exaggerated drunken one-night stand revoked consent 4 weeks after "rape". But I argue that they themselves do more damage than good when it comes to helping actual rape survivors. They fill the system with false reports and create an environment where authorities are more likely to question genuine rape reports than support them. While attempting to generate sympathy for themselves and their cause, they actually do the opposite by going too far and making any rational human being think of them as a joke not to be taken seriously.

blackedoutfast · 2016-10-13T18:21:23+00:00

it's mostly exaggeration and outright lying. some ugly loser chick who can't get attention in real life can make up a story and get 1000s of likes or retweets or whatever.

once you start looking at these stories skeptically, the made up ones are pretty obvious.

[deleted] · 2016-10-14T12:14:49+00:00

It's highly unlikely anyone will be sexually assaulted/raped in their lifetime, but these women seem to be magnets for it, if they're to be believed, and all their friends are the same? Hmm.

Sounds like selection bias? (too lazy too look up the actual term) Like AA is full of alcoholics?

Like a lot of people came across TRP/MRP because their SO burned them or are cunts and they get super misogynist in the anger phase so they are the loudest voices? When things have large numbers, im pretty sure probabilities of stuff happening starts looking the same across groups in a 80/20 fashion

edit: not that id put it past them to lie for attention

Usecod · 2016-10-12T22:41:08+00:00

SJWs and feminists are mentally demented people.They need help.

iLLprincipLeS · 2016-10-13T01:01:09+00:00

but these women seem to be magnets for it

Exactly.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

These females are FEELZ chasers, but since feminists and SJWs are too ugly to receive any-thing in the normal way, they put themselves in certain situations where they can exploit both

the western anti-male system, by playing the victim

& also

the women are wonderful effect, by getting some validation from thirsty wannabe orbiters,

all this - while generating their main FEELZ by finally being "assaulted" or "harassed" by an Alpha Male that in a normal situation would want nothing to do with their kind.

Video related: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5NLLy76TKU

Archange_ · 2016-10-12T23:34:21+00:00

I can't give you a direct answer but can narrate the story of a friend of mine who is a magnet for mishaps. A few examples so that you can gauge their impact:

During a holiday to South East Asia, her water heater started to make loud noises that prevented the neighbours from sleeping. She had to cancel half of her trip and come back in order to have it fixed.
She has 10'000 euros at home in cash for two days and a burglar breaks into and steals it. The only burglary in her life; she is 36.
She is often late. One day she has an important meeting to sign a new client for her business. She plans to arrive way ahead of the appointed time in order to avoid being late. She takes the tube but there is an incident and the train is blocked in a tunnel for a long time. She arrives late, the would-be client is furious and no deal is signed.
She travels to Jordan with a group of people. They buy a trip on camelback in the desert. When they arrive at the stables, the organisers are one camel short. So my friend is brought to a different stable where she does her ride. She was alone with a group of local arabic men. The possibility of being raped and killed frightened her during the whole trip.
She is quite slim. She usually weighs 52-53 kg. In the 2-3 weeks preceding a high society ball, she gained 5 kg. No dress would fit her any longer; she could not even button her trousers. She was aghast. She litterally stopped eating for a few days but she did not lose weight. She finally gave up and excused herself from the ball. She kept gaining weight until a doctor diagnosed a hormonal imbalance. Once treated her weight quickly went back to normal.

One or two such mishaps happen every month. She is a true magnet. I told her that she must be paired with a demon who rots her life; I am Christian and I believe in the existence demons so I was not mocking her.

The long lasting mischance has altered her mind: permanent disquiet; mood swings; pervasive sadness that she tries to trick herself out through bouts of hyperactivity; a longing for safety or certainty or tranquility. She alternatively blames her state on herself, on her entourage or a demon.

I can picture a woman like her for which the mishaps revolve around men and sex. She would gradually evolve into a SJW believing that men are the source of her continual misdventures.

YourRussianUncle · 2016-10-13T17:46:16+00:00

When you are walking around, afraid of something, usually one of two things will happen - either what ever you are afraid of will happen, or you will perceive that it happened. With that being said, I am sure, that cause and effect is partially responsible for what you are talking about, just not to this degree.

If you are afraid of being robbed, you will walk in such a way as to always bring attention to your wallet, always ACT scared, always act like prey. Guess what, predators smell prey.

Also, emotional need to belong is strong. TO the point of inventing or significantly inflating stories.

Title	Disproportionality: A curious observation of SJWs/radical feminists
Author	bsutansalt
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Date	October 12, 2016 9:51 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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