I fell for it again.

Krazyrobus · 2019-09-20T20:37:18+00:00

Well on the bright side, she didn't saddle you for life with a baby and marriage.

madriverdog · 2019-09-20T20:31:30+00:00

In high school chemistry class we learned to make simple glassware parts by heating glass over a bunsen burner.

After a short while, everyone had burned their fingers.

The teacher’s response: “Always remember that hot glass looks just like cold glass.”

Sometimes you have to get re-burned to keep the lesson fresh in your mind.

Dadeh · 2019-09-20T20:34:49+00:00

There's a difference between being redpill aware and actually using it in practice. I was listening to an interview with Rollo Tomassi yesterday and he exclaimed how hard dangerous it can be for a redpill man to try and find his dream girl solely because he has the awareness. This is dangerous because you're still chasing bluepill ideology under the redpill lens. It hurts more because you can't blame it on women now that you're aware. It hurts more because you know in your heart that you should've been more prepared and should've checked yourself multiple times before falling in love.

It's hard to practice what you preach at times..it's easy to come on here and see where other people make their mistakes but it takes a lot to put the practice into mastery. Just like any skill you're learning, you have to fail a few times before you start to get the basics down. You have to fail a few 100 times before you're confident in the craft.. and you have to fail thousands of times before you can master it. Unfortunately this isn't something I would advise failing thousands of times over.. but to put your awareness to the forefront, my friend. Any time you interact or you can feel yourself slipping back to the plantation..remember AWALT. Remember what you've been studying, practicing, and storing as knowledge to circumvent yourself from hitting this wall of despair.

We say it all the time but it's true that most men are one blowjob away from the plantation. I'm glad that you've come out of this practice test with a better perspective on your core values and will start to put yourself first in all situations. You won't forget this time when you were swayed from your beliefs with the last sparkle of bluepill still in your body. Just don't let yourself get back into the rage phase..go straight to indifference and let it go.

You got this brother, I'm sure some of us have fallen off the horse as well. You get back on it, master it, and ride off into the sunset. Never devalue yourself ever again because of a pair of pretty blue eyes full of deceit.

RespectFurries · 2019-09-20T20:25:47+00:00

Well regardless it’s a lesson well learned

2019-09-20T22:49:34+00:00

If you know you're one blowjob away, don't get that bj.

countinginsolitude · 2019-09-20T22:50:06+00:00

When you said "my girl" in your post....I have to correct you. She was never YOUR girl. No girl is ever YOURS. You may think she's your girlfriend, but at that particular snapshot in time, it's just your turn. She'll jump back on the CC whenever she wants. And in your case she did. I'm not trying to sound harsh but I'm 8 years older than you. I've been through it. I'd love to be of more help but the TLDR is that every woman will either cheat or leave you. They won't stay for life. This life isn't a Disney romance. These girls are brought up on Nicki Minaj shaking her naked ass and touching Tyrone whilst dating Chad. Forget women. They aren't worth the hassle.

2019-09-20T20:30:54+00:00

My dear brother you become a true MGTOW not when you are truly convinced of AWALT but when you are convinced of not caring regardless.

Arcturix · 2019-09-20T20:35:22+00:00

Throw yourself a pity party then get right back on track with your goals.

You don't need us for advice, you did the right thing once you realised and your logic kicked back in.

This should be a lesson to those just getting started on the path. Even the knowledgeable can fall. MGTOW is a constant battle as you're constantly under threat.

The "most men are only a blow job away from the plantation" is truth.

Rejoice7 · 2019-09-20T20:37:13+00:00

Hey no harm no foul at least you didnt marry her!

Sometimes it takes a couple (or 20) to really cement the lesson. We always want it to be different this time. We all feel it.

But you’re good man - mull it over, get through the suck and come out stronger on the other side. It isnt a race, you’re still young. Soon you’ll be on your way, crushing it and blasting these thots again. Cause they ALL hoes hoes hoes!

v4vern · 2019-09-20T20:56:11+00:00

This is literally like I'm reading a post from my younger self.

That horrible feeling of being away from someone you care for while you know anything might happen. Tell you what man, I swear this is water under the bridge in a few months. And I promise you, women cheating while on vacation has been the case for the majority of women. It's not you. It's not even her. It's just how things work. Young people trying to have fun and after a few drinks, anything is possible. I have been on both sides of that story. For the past 8 years tho I chose to be on the side of the story that gets laid. You should be too.

DangZagnut · 2019-09-20T20:58:31+00:00

At least you left instead of sticking around to "communicate and work through it", which is just cuck advice.

NotherThrowaway284 · 2019-09-20T23:03:06+00:00

You're 21. It would be strange indeed if this sort of stuff were not happening with you.

Don't forget your errors in this, but also don't beat yourself up about them.

quickGunShoot · 2019-09-21T09:01:23+00:00

GYOW brother.

HODL_FOR_DEAR_LIFE · 2019-09-21T10:10:20+00:00

Good on you ignoring her. Cut all contact. It's almost certain she'll come back for attention once you're giving her none. Then pump and dump no relationship.

th0ughtcr1me1984 · 2019-09-20T20:45:59+00:00

How long was your """relationship""" leading up to this inevitable point?

idonotknowme · 2019-09-21T00:55:29+00:00

If you fall for it again one more time, just hang yourself. Im not even trying to be rude

KorovievG · 2019-09-20T20:56:16+00:00

Down vote for your insulence.

Title	I fell for it again.
Author	KorovievG
Upvotes	19
Comments	26
Date	September 20, 2019 8:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/d70kvs/i_fell_for_it_again/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/i-fell-for-it-again.644770 https://theredarchive.com/post/644770

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