For you teens and 20's virgins tortured by "if I could only find the right girl (and have sex!)"

TaiYongMedical · 2019-12-08T23:15:17+00:00

She actually filed for divorce after 20 years together? What the fuck...

It's like there's no such thing a safe relationship anymore.

massy525 · 2019-12-09T01:05:27+00:00

I remember losing mine at 21 to some trailer park girl who tasted like cigarettes. Her vagina was loose as hell and I remember walking away thinking damn I fantasized about that???

Since then, I've enlarged my sample size and concluded that not all vaginas are created equal. Some are better than others, but none are worth the headache of legal trouble, games, or marriage.

toxicgreencapsules · 2019-12-09T00:10:22+00:00

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justiceavenger2 · 2019-12-09T00:13:14+00:00

As someone who did not get a girlfriend and lose his virginity until 21 I wish I had discovered escorts earlier because being a young horny virgin guy who cant get women to date you drives you insane. I finally discovered escorts last year and they are great. No games, no bullshit, no false rape accusations, no baby mama drama, good conversation skills, get STD checks, are clean, and make you feel special.

npcdestroyer · 2019-12-09T00:15:16+00:00

Prostitution is a bad idea though. I know how some of you think about it, but consider this. You are actually paying a girl for the only thing she really has to offer to begin with. Is that even worth the few bucks you lose. Personally i also believe its morally repugnant, but i do think its fair to debate that view.

DigitalScetis · 2019-12-09T08:21:21+00:00

The best cure for "male virginity" isn't to "pop a cherry" that does not exist.

The best cure for "male virginity" is to realize that men can't be virgins any more than men can contract PMS.

Virginity is, was, and always has been a woman's thing, and they have obsessed over it and what it means since the dawn of time. That men on this channel and outside of it have adopted this feminine mindfuck truly shows how gynocentrism has brainwashed them.

Stop thinking their language and concepts apply to you. With no hymen to rend, there's no virginity to lose or to keep.

You are not a virgin. You never were one. I hereby remove from ya'll the burden of having to deal with it.

/endlecture

Devourercoc · 2019-12-09T01:44:58+00:00

Ffs prostitution is illegal here

Siconyte · 2019-12-09T02:02:28+00:00

Take it from a guy that was in a relationship with a woman for 12 years. I was faithful to her, she might have been faithful to me, I don't know, I worked all the time. She gave me four beautiful children. One day, apparently she'd been doing meth, she called the cops, else rape charges against me, and got the kids taken away by our state's version of CPS.

Long story short, I beat the false allegations, I'm 1 month from getting my kids back in my custody permanently, and then I'm going to leave her in this state whenever I go back home.

I'd rather be gay then ever get with another woman. It's simply too risky, and I'm not going to go to prison for 35 years over some entitled bitch who want something for free.

spoderman616 · 2019-12-09T01:12:36+00:00

Appreciate the thought but hard pass. Got better things to do with my time and money.

DangZagnut · 2019-12-08T23:09:55+00:00

It really isn’t.

Seriously, the difference between masturbating and sex is nothing.

If you’ve masturbated, there you go, that’s sex.

Sex is just masturbating with some one else.

Cherry popped. But at least you have HPV now, a major source of cancer. But hey, at least you dealt with a pathetic psychological issue. Nutting in a woman. Yay.

Mmmmm. You nutted in a living fleshlight. Yay.

Timdeuces · 2019-12-09T03:38:50+00:00

Or get a doll

ggggggggee · 2019-12-09T07:06:33+00:00

Sex is overrated. Once you bust, it all hits you #postnutclarity

No pun intended...

KingofNarwhalss · 2019-12-09T08:15:55+00:00

Post-nut clarity is a fucking blessing.

MrBluePill · 2019-12-09T12:09:44+00:00

He's right. My marriage of 12 years is a mess. You're thinking there'll be sex and intimacy and understanding. Really, she's pretending to be into your shit to hook you into marriage like a fucking ambush predator. And the sex? That's the biggest fucking joke. I've now told my wife I don't want sex anymore because it fucks with the head only getting crumbs on her fucking terms because of the 28 day periods and fucking headaches or what the fuck ever.

I love my kids. I'm here for them. But her? I'm like a chalk cliff, worn away and one decent rainstorm from an avalanche. We're like friends. Not even best ones either. Basically you turn into one of those fucking couples.

So don't do it to yourself. I didn't have all these people on Reddit, but you do.

delocalelectron · 2019-12-09T07:05:27+00:00

I got my face busted (by a girl with a wooden sword!) when I was eleven. My sexual market value tanked before the stock could be launched. I was invisible to girls at high school and college. So, I went to a brothel. It helped get things into perspective. I had about a dozen relationships, looking for the one. And, she was the one, good-looking, intelligent, not one of those hypergamous college women, this was the least materialistic girl I'd ever met. I married her in 1980. She made me happy, we had two boys.

Twenty years later, just at the end of the millennium, I'd paid off the mortgage, and inherited my grandfather's old house, a place I loved. Can you guess what's going to happen...?

Well, I'm still here. And, when I get together with my two kids, my older boy calls us The Three Amigos.

when_its_too_late · 2019-12-09T17:30:58+00:00

Never had sex, 25. Honestly could care less, have healthy sex drive in just not interested in having sex with someone I don't give a fuck about.

ImstarIordman · 2019-12-08T23:32:13+00:00

And now you're having to pay lifetime alimony? It's a f*****-up world out there

tchower · 2019-12-09T03:55:33+00:00

Yeah that’s why I think it’s really tough for virgins to go their own way, if it’s tough for me to be on the path of Christianity because it’s such a conditioned thing for men to be out getting laid or getting girls it’s always going to be an insecurity for them that’ll inspire faithlessness in MGTOW.

I mean, now when someone on the internet calls our community incels it’s so easy to laugh at it that I wonder why any of these men even get offended by the label because to me Incels are the same blue pills that are out at the clubs tryin to get laid who think woman are the answer to life’s problems or men who can’t wait to merry a woman, but I think back to my blue pill days when I was a Buddhist Christian and really regretted giving into this girl from class sophomore year and even though she took me off the spiritual path and so did some other girls, at least I can comment knowing based off verifiable experience that hypergamy and going your own way based on hypergamy has nothing to do with not being able to get laid or find a girlfriend, in fact, getting laid has nothing to do with really any perspective you have on woman, woman do not fuck men because of their morals or ethics or good nature, it’s just if that particular girl wants to absorb you. I was actually most attractive to woman when I would see sexual immorality and feel sorry for them knowing their spirits are rotting and that they’re weak for the opposite sex, but I have control over my urges so I pity them and felt superior.

So not wanting to waste your time and money with woman based on hypergamy and focus on yourself is perfectly valid either way! The only thing the blue pills can still say to me is, “well if you were able to fuck a lot more girls and had a higher N-count you wouldn’t be going your own way and you’d find the one!” so in that case, the blue pill follows woman’s perspective on life, never be satisfied and never be happy with the amount of sexual partners you currently have as a man, so the blue pill keeps you trapped in the virgin incel mentality that “I have to get laid! I have to have a woman right now! Why am I not going around talking to random woman right now? Please fuck me girls! Please just kiss me!” MGTOW is the red pill that’s gonna take you out of that mindset and that incel neediness.

LotBuilder · 2019-12-09T05:05:58+00:00

Great advice. A hot Hooker is going to be a better experience than whatever else you would experience.

DMariusC · 2019-12-09T08:29:44+00:00

Word

greyman0425 · 2019-12-09T13:56:54+00:00

THIS.

Men, we need to stop virgin shaming other dudes. It just makes the problem worse.

massy525 · 2019-12-09T14:39:08+00:00

I disagree. Its the only time in your life you will have access to such high quality pussy with no financial ties. You also don't have other responsibility so who cares if you waste some time on them to see what its about.

I think waiting is how you end up with weirdo tech billionaires married to some 4/10 in her 30's.

MadLad2019 · 2019-12-09T18:31:38+00:00

Holy shit I wish someone had the kindness to tell me this. I made it to 30 before I resorted to messaging every woman within 50 miles and landing a land whale, with 2 kids with 2 different fathers. She wanted me to nut inside her, thankfully by the time I hit 30 I had ruined the sensitivity in my dick and couldn't. After I left I drove to a parking lot to smoke some weed and tried to listen to Lonely Island's Just had sex and found no enthusiasm for it. A couple months later I discovered Backpage and hired a lovely young, fit, enthusiastic whore, that was WAY more fun and I 100% wish I had just hired her to take the virginity. I fucking hate that prostitution is illegal in the US, it forces men to accept the BS of online dating and clubbing to find girls cheating on their boyfriends. It also drives up the cost, I really don't want to spend $200+ for an hour of her time when she should be asking half that.

HoldenBalzac · 2019-12-09T21:46:45+00:00

I agree with the idea, find out what you've been missing and find out it usually isn't that good. Too often it turns out to be the hot dog down a hall way. Classical Economics has a few ideas that are useful such as Marginal Rate of Substitution. Consider how a prostitute or escort is an economic substitute for sex provided by a wife. You'll get the service much more often and more reliably from a sex worker than from a housewife. You always have to pay for sex, whether it's cash to a sex worker or buying a house for a wife. Now take it one step further and a real doll or a fleshlight is a perfectly reasonable economic substitute for a sex worker or wife. The fleshlight has some advantages: it costs no more than one cheap date and there's no chance of an STD. And if the brand name fleshlight is too expensive for you, go to ebay and search. There are toys in the $10 to $20 range that work just as well. The plastic toys feel about the same as a pussy and there's no drama, no risk, no obligations.

king_of_mgtow · 2019-12-09T06:45:44+00:00

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Title	For you teens and 20's virgins tortured by "if I could only find the right girl (and have sex!)"
Author	yesthennotyes
Upvotes	306
Comments	79
Date	December 8, 2019 11:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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