Are women mean to you? Its because you have low SMV

trp_dude · 2016-12-06T04:14:51+00:00

Can confirm. Women treat fat fucks like shit. I used to be one, and it was bad. Didn't know how bad until I got into shape. Damn, a world of difference.

Btw, men treat you a shitload better as well if you're buff and ripped.

TheLaughingRhino · 2016-12-06T15:50:12+00:00

If a woman is cruel to a low SMV guy and appears "nice" to a high SMV guy, she is not mean in one instance and nice in another. She is ALWAYS MEAN but wears a mask in public to specific people who she sees that has value to make her feel a certain way about herself.

If high SMV guy marries her and then gets hit by a car and is crippled, that same mean cruel bitch to the low SMV guy will eventually drop the mask on formerly high SMV guy and when she won't be socially punished for jettisoning him, will do so.

A "kind person" will assess how they treated by others and follow The Golden Rule. They will treat everyone with a certain degree of civility, manners and kindness. You can be kind and not be a doormat. You can be kind and be TRP. You can engage the world the world with kindness and still be IDGAF.

This is in part why celebrities and pro athletes like the friends they had in childhood. At least they know someone wanted to hang out with them and be friend with them before the massive status jump. Those not all of those orbiters are kind and decent people.

"Kind" people are kind to everyone, not just the people they find attractive or validate them or make them feel good about themselves.

If a girl is doing something because of the circumstance, and not because it's in line with her actual character, then No, I don't see it as she's treating a guy like a king, no matter what she's done for him. She could be washing his feet, and if she's just another cruel worthless whore, then, to me, she's still treating him like shit.

Being fundamentally good to you, IMHO means being around people who are fundamentally good. Fat, skinny, tall, short, young, old, girl, guy, white, black, yellow, Martian, who gives a fuck about all that other shit, people who will be fundamentally good to you come in all shapes and sizes and packages.

MattyAnon · 2016-12-06T16:38:27+00:00

top complaining about women being bitches and start focusing on yourself as chances are that if you are constantly receiving negative feedback, its your fault.

What you say is true, but it's not men's fault, because... If every man spent 720 hours a month in the gym and the rest of it taking IQ tests, women would still look down and condemn the bottom 80% of men.

99% of men alive today are fitter, healthier and more attractive than the men her great grandmothers fucked. But hypergamy never rests, and now only the top 10% of what's available today will do. The rest simply do not exist except as people to blame.

Entropy-7 · 2016-12-06T07:51:40+00:00

This weekend I spent with a wonderful woman who considers me high value. Every time I fucked up it was "cute" and she mothered me.

Since I am not Quasimodo I can't say what the downside is, but I suspect that my same fuckups - as a low value man - would not be so cute and not draw the same sort of mothering behavior.

Compeliminator · 2016-12-06T13:18:35+00:00

i dont care how low your perceived smv is there is no excuse for some cunt to treat you like shit . you dont have to want to fuck someone to treat them with basic decency . the problem is most men let women get away with it.

justaskingman7 · 2016-12-06T05:26:45+00:00

I can attest to the truth of the post, I see how I am treated vs my mates who are perhaps not as good looking/built or whatever else. It's a world of difference but it goes both ways as you say. You walking around hating the world for what it is, you'll only receive the like back - hate.

That being said, acceptance and action are the precursors to change. Know the game, accept it and act and you will climb out of your little self-pity hole in no time through self-improvement only. You, you and fucking you. That should be your new mantra.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-12-06T15:48:22+00:00

A History Lesson

In 1950 they introduce the Child Support Laws.

From then on things like Divorce Rape are added to the laws making sure that women have nearly unlimited access to resources without effort on their part.

What happened?

Women got spoiled... they can afford to be bitches today because the Family Court system creates the artificial conditions which permit it.

Just accept that the system is fucked.

Learn all the Red Pill skills of Game and that will help you survive these horrible times.

Fnaut3187 · 2016-12-06T10:37:22+00:00

Can confirm! I suppose this is a subtle way of describing rule number 1. "Be attractive. Don't be unattractive!"

-voteforPepe- · 2016-12-06T19:17:17+00:00

OP, I don't have a low SMV but I have noticed that women I'm around frequently, like the ones at my job, at school etc. Are very nice & giggly when I meet them. But it seems like they expect a return on their "investments." So at work when I am simply focused on doing my job and don't have time for gossip or whatever else they're trying to say/do to me, by the end of the shift they can be pretty rude. But how rude they get is directly proportionate to how much I have responded to their flirting & shit. I'm not sure how to better phrase this, but I figure that the surplus mindset works very well but they do eventually get frustrated and think they're being ignored or turned down. When the fact is, they are just usually pretty inappropriate about the timing of their advances and conversations and sexual remarks.

ShallITinder · 2016-12-07T01:43:14+00:00

I've seen enough buff and even handsome guys get treated like shit by women in public to the point where I doubt this thread. A lot of women will actually treat handsome guys like crap because they feel they can't have them so to protect their egos, they will shit-test them non-stop.

The truth is, some women are just bitches, plain and simple. Some women are bitches who are bitches to almost everyone they run into except for someone famous or very high status. I've seen it happen time, and time, and time again.

[deleted] · 2016-12-06T05:22:37+00:00

I'd say that women treat low SMV more bad. If necessary or helps her feelz, then they will be a bitch to anyone.

iamneptuno · 2016-12-06T08:53:54+00:00

You are talking about the halo effect, which has nothing to do with improvement. You have to be ridiculously good looking to have them pay for you out of the blue, -- this simply doesn't apply to the majority of males.

Yes, complaining in general is pointless, but don't blame others for not having exceptional genetics shielding them from occasional bullshit.

MiZiSTiK · 2016-12-06T11:13:08+00:00

Is there a list of acronyms? It's so damn hard to read this sub as someone who doesn't know all the acronyms....

fuxdpus · 2016-12-06T17:49:10+00:00

If a woman treats me badly, I just say fuck that bitch for life. I should really curse a 2-cent slut bitch out in public, though.

uniquevoid · 2016-12-06T18:01:35+00:00

Good post but don't forget that women will sometimes be mean just to shit test you.

There was a girl literally giving me the middle finger and telling me to shut the fuck up when I be cocky and funny with her. After seeing I had no emotional reaction she would be totally submissive

soyDonEladio · 2016-12-06T19:38:25+00:00

Women are absolutely fucking ruthless to betas.

circlhat · 2016-12-06T19:57:11+00:00

Stop complaining about women being bitches and start focusing on yourself as chances are that if you are constantly receiving negative feedback, its your fault.

This is awful advice, if someone is mean to you don't think, "I need to hit the gym", don't take their shit, I had a women call me ugly so I said if I'm so ugly why are you even bothering me, she quickly changed her stance after that.

If you place your self worth in what others think you are doom to failure, this is blue pill 101, and it seems you are quite blue, lets blame men for women's actions.

This is like saying if a women gets raped she shouldn't off been wearing a short skirt.

stfu, you need some serious improvement

[deleted] · 2016-12-06T22:37:46+00:00

How do you know it was because of your SMV?

[deleted] · 2016-12-07T20:25:06+00:00

if you are low smv, you disgust/ are invisible to women

they treat you like shit

but in the end, they are like shit

[deleted] · 2016-12-18T08:51:53+00:00

you can't somehow work around a super ugly face though. thank god im at LEAST 5/10 facially. and im slightly over 6 foot, short guys are also fucked.

Title	Are women mean to you? Its because you have low SMV
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Date	December 6, 2016 3:32 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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