My Ex Ltr had a multitude of red flags that I so naively ignored because she made me feel good. I allowed too many things to happen and never addressed any of the issues that turned me into a beta during the relationship.

Small list of the red flags I ignored:

Cheated on me, Spoke to her ex often and even saw him behind my back, Lied, Fucked up family, No hobbies or interests, just personal vanity, and Threatened to stop taking the birth control.

That is just a small list of what I can think of. I finally woke up today and realized how gravely wrong I was about her when she tried to justify her bad behavior on myself. I texted her I don’t want to be together anymore and blocked her across everything. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have adrenaline, but it’s only up from here. I already went on a run right before this to get some endorphins pumping.

One thing I always ignored throughout the duration of the relationship was the gut feeling. Never ignore it. Always face the fear. You’ll find that the fear was mostly in your head.

Any advice for a healthy mindset moving forward?

Thanks.