Hello Red pillers,

I wanted to quickly share my personal experience and a strategy that has worked well for me. While I have had limited success picking up girls at the bar, grocery store, gym, work, etc., by far the most successful way for me to get laid has been by getting introduced by my friends who are girls.

I have never been a stud or a complete ladies man, but I have done one thing right in my 26 years, and that is have a group of friends that are girls. It is a (mostly) platonic relationship with them and basically they are my buddies. Now I don't turn into a girl myself when we hangout, but it's actually somewhat nice to have girl - friends that I can just chat. My guy friends are all awesome, but it's easier for me to call one of the girls to bitch about stuff. So there is some additional value there.

Anyways, main point. I would say than 95% of the girls I have slept with have been through having friends who are girls. And it makes sense. When you meet a new girl through your girlfriends, you are instantly:

  • not creepy

  • have the appearance of a wanted man

  • it is obvious you know how to talk with a women

  • and best of all, you have a reason to hangout with the new girl all night long and spit some game.

So I'll keep this brief, and I know many of you already know this, but I just wanted to reiterate the importance of having friends who are girls. My group of friends who are girls constantly meet new girls - it is literally a revolving door of ladies. And for me, who has never been great at randomly picking up chicks - as I am not a 10 - but I've been living TRP life for a while am I'm financially secure and lift. So these new girls already know I'm a decent guy are way more likely to get with me.

So if I have convinced you to try and get a few platonic girl friends, to do it, just try and meet a few at work, school, etc. and don't hit on them. Or only flirt a little bit. Having a little sexual tension is okay, but you have to remember that this girl will be one who gets you to more girls.

The way I got my group of girl friends was that I met one out through one of my buddies out at a bar. She was very cute but not my type, so kind of by accident I just treated her like a friend and we became closer - getting coffee, inviting each other out to events. Soon, we would go out and she would invite 3,4,5 girls with her. It was incredible to see the quality of these girls and how much respect I got right off of the bat. Once the drinks started flowing, it was not hard to move in.

I think this principle holds true at all ages, and while my evidence and experiences are anecdotal, I think it can work well for you. So guys, think about the women in your life, pick one or two (that have social lives and other girl friends) and invest yourself to making a new friend - rathet than a plate. I think you will find that it pays dividends. Good luck out there brothas.