Rather than go into the nitty gritty details, let me give a super basic bullet point of events.
-We got almost blackout drunk, both of us
-With my roomie as my witness, she was being extremely sexual with me and touchy, more than any girl I have ever been around with a friend
-When everyone went to their rooms and she was in mine, I made my move
-I cooked her food, and she said "you can cook well, I can fuck well, let's do this." 10 minutes later in bed: "hold on, I have lots of toys in my car." I just laughed and kept kissing her.
-We kissed but she didn't want it to go further, I was a bit touchy and she decided to leave
-She kissed me bye and smiled, I knew I had been rejected but I didn't think anything more of it at the time.
This morning, she's asking me questions like what did I slip her (nothing, she drank as much as me and weighs 70 lbs less), tell me what happened, why did you take advantage of me... I apologized, she asked me why, I said for being too touchy and spooking you I guess. At first she seemed to forgive me but as the day went on she got mad and was obviously more bothered by it all. Now late tonight, she took two screenshots of our chat.
I am worried about my reputation and my career right now. I know that my roommate saw quite a lot of things that would lead you to believe that we were going to sleep together. I definitely was a little touchy, were I not extremely drunk I would not have been like that and that is not an excuse, but that's how the night had been going and obviously I wanted to shoot my shot. I apologized a lot to her, but that's now turned into her trying to get me to admit that I did something wrong...
Any advice appreciated.
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