she has said that she is willing to commit to quit smoking and get eat healthier and exercise - but also said to not push this topic to her too much.
I know that smoking is a red flag and that she being over weight is also very alarming.
but , should I give her a chance? , should I look past the flaws and see the potential in her instead and help her get better?
we have a lot of common interests , we read the same books and etc... , she is an introverted person - living with her parents that spends most of her time consuming and producing arts.
will be glad to hear opinions , thanks.