Hi,

For some reason, I’ve always been someone who people love to backbite on. I never do anything wrong I’m generally a very friendly happy person who enjoys people’s company and I usually say what I want for the most part. Some of my closest friends talk behind my back and think I don’t know about it and I’ve caught them several times but act dumb and play it out like I didn’t hear anything. It honestly pisses me off and bothers me and I don’t understand why they do it. If they didn’t wanna be friends they can just stop talking to me or just stop calling me out with them. It’s happened on several occasions and for some reason I always know when someone talks shit about my back, I don’t know if it’s some ability I have but I can figure it out every time.

Possible reasons for them talking shit could be because I can sometimes mess around with people as a joke, I’m usually better in some area in their life and this may cause some envy, just for the sake of scapegoating someone in the group who they think is “weak” since they see me as a friendly person.

I don’t know but it pisses me off and I can’t just confront them about it because they can just deny it and think I’m stupid for thinking that.