So basically, one of my coworkers has always shown some kind of interest towards me. She has been pretty obvious with flirting at times, but I always play it off respectfully and it isn't an issue. Then, last year she got married. At that point I figured the flirting would never be an issue again, as she has a husband now. I guess I was wrong, because in recent days she has been texting me about how she's worried about me and can "drive me home" if I need to. She has even texted me at the end of my shift to see if I need a ride. We are all worried about each other these days, since we are in an urban area in the US and shit has really hit the fan this past week. Intense violence everyday. But I'm the only one that she seems to want to give a ride to so badly. Also, this woman isn't such a nice person for this to be plausible. If she is pushing this so hard she definitely wants something. I feel that she is trying to get into my house and cheat on her husband (that she just got married to). I am pretty young and have never been in this situation before. How can I handle it so that she doesn't take offense (and potentially retaliate) but where she will stop attempting to cheat with me and hopefully move on to the next guy? Thanks
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