This is what happens when you're straddled with a LVM and have his kids.

tellmesomething11 · 2020-05-03T18:21:28+00:00

Yeah, this was 2014 for me. Working ten hour days, going to grad school at night, raising twin babies with my ex husband. He cheated on me because I was “never around” and “made him clean and take care of the babies.” He wasn’t working and I paid all the bills, including his cc debt, so he could watch the children instead of putting them in day care. I was going to grad school so I could eventually make more money.

I stayed initially, but then left him in 2016. Divorced in 2017. I remember who tired and defeated I was back then, def feeling better now ☺️

2020-05-03T17:43:54+00:00

I hate that instead of divorcing him, she made this TikTok and is probably gonna live with his low value ass the rest of her days. Seriously, who even makes a TikTok showing that you’re willing to be degraded like this? Your hubby don’t give a fuck, you’re only embarrassing yourself, girl.

ThunderofHipHippos · 2020-05-03T18:07:29+00:00

And I bet so many women will commiserate. "My husband is the same way!"

It makes me sad.

2020-05-03T22:51:35+00:00

Just today as I was making some organic blueberry muffins to surprise my enthusiastic newly vegetarian teenager and looking forward to how happy she would be when she woke up the the yummy smell.... I had a flash of memory of the one time I thought the words “I should never have had kids.” The real thought being the words was “this man I chose to have kids with doesn’t care about any of us and I am going to spend the next 18 years a slave to everyone and the he’ll leave me used up and broken.” Turns out I get joy from being a mother, it was the person I was raising children with that had me feeling that way! She loved the muffins AND thanked me.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-05-04T04:41:30+00:00

This was so so SO sad.

Again - how is this any better than being single? If she was single, she'd have less laundry to do, less dishes in that sink, and one less mouth to cook for.

:(

A LOT of women act like being single is the worst. No, sis. Being stuck with a LVM or a Negative Value Male is the absolute worst and it's a lot harder to get out :(

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-05-04T16:04:47+00:00

If I were her I wouldn't clean up a damn thing and DARE him to say something about it. And how old are the kids? A 6 y/o is well old enough to pick up after themselves.

Title	This is what happens when you're straddled with a LVM and have his kids.
Author	n_AMALT
Upvotes	59
Comments	9
Date	May 3, 2020 3:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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