Must be nice

darkhorse8419 · 2020-02-15T14:42:14+00:00

I was generalizing for the sake of humor...

2020-02-15T15:31:37+00:00

I'm a bisexual (or pansexual) woman and I can confirm. Though dating women is harder, it is sooooo much easier to find someone respectable and kind.

I did have bad dates with women, though. I don't know if it's as easy as that, but some women seem to reproduce toxic, heteronormative structures to me. Where one person needs to be in charge, stuff like that. Communication is great, though and even those women don't deceive you but rather talk about how they're 'givers' or 'the dominant ones'. So at least you know what you're getting.

turquoiseblues · 2020-02-15T14:02:38+00:00

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v4g1n4ever · 2020-02-15T15:48:37+00:00

I dated a woman for the first time ever this year. I've had sexual experiences before, and the sex with her was amazing and it felt very natural, but I'm hard-wired to love and prefer penis more, and I'm not sure I'll date a woman again.

Aside from that, while our openness and honesty to each other was refreshing, her communication style was just as shitty as most guys, as I apparently gravitated towards the same unhealthy personality type in a woman as I do in men. She was self-destructive and I had to cut her loose, I can't have that sort of toxicity in my life.

jazzyjazcons · 2020-02-15T14:52:20+00:00

Lmao, petty!

Goddess422 · 2020-02-15T14:36:12+00:00

Unfortunately, women aren't perfect either, and those issues still abound in same sex relationships.

Title	Must be nice
Author	darkhorse8419
Upvotes	80
Comments	11
Date	February 15, 2020 1:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f49ny2/must_be_nice/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/must-be-nice.682462 https://theredarchive.com/post/682462

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