Help!! I really need some advice. I’ve been dating a man for a little over 2 months. At the very beginning he seemed really into me & would send cute messages & tell me how much he liked me. Just a month after we met he booked & paid for plane tickets for a week long holiday (coming up in January), we had the discussion about being exclusive - it was all very exciting. Since then, it’s all just kind of fallen flat. It’s becoming increasingly clear that I’m putting in way more effort in our “relationship”. We live 2.5 hours apart and I drive to him every time, usually weekly, plan to see him, fit in with his schedule etc. I seem to want way more from him sexually than he’s preparing to offer. I’m always initiating conversation. Honestly, I’m not sure I’d even hear from him if I didn’t message him. It doesn’t really feel like he cares about be at all & it’s making me feel like a bit of an idiot. Things feel really flat but our trip is coming up in 10 days. DO I GO?!! Do I bail? I don’t know what to do?! I’m terrified it’s going to be a disaster & I’ll be trapped but I would feel really guilty for not going & when he’s already paid? I’d love to hear any advice you might have.