Watch his behavior closely when you get sick. Does he visit you, bring you chicken soup and pain killers? Or does he send you "oh, that sucks" texts?

Username3029 · 2019-12-20T18:46:54+00:00

This is funny to me because when i was with my ex i got a really nasty cold, so much so i missed work. He had offered to bring me medicine and stuff but i said no that i had some. We were texting later and he asked "what are you wearing?" Now in fairness to him, he hadn't seen just how bad a cold it was but like all colds are shit, you never feel in the mood for sex chat. I just responded "im gonna assume you're asking for my well being, hoping I'm wrapped up warm". It wasn't an issue at the time, was actually kind of funny that he was so off beam, but interesting in this context considering he was so shit generally in the end!

wowthispostissad · 2019-12-20T17:56:50+00:00

Wow reading the comments on that article is more depressing than the article itself.

Witchyko · 2019-12-20T23:03:15+00:00

When I was ill once, that friend of mine just told me "To bad. Call me when you got well", said it and hung up. I was flabbergasted.

downbeatsue · 2019-12-21T00:18:27+00:00

My ex used to take great care and bring me anything I needed. Six months later he ghosted me. Sigh. ... wat the fack

butterflymeadowzz · 2019-12-21T14:49:25+00:00

I literally got an “ahh that sucks” text after I told some guy who was supposedly crazy about me that I was in the ER.

Then, he blocked me after I never responded.

Noteatingforoneweek · 2019-12-21T07:04:11+00:00

That sucks texts 😂😂😂

Tishkaminx · 2019-12-21T15:09:29+00:00

What if they wong take no for an answer? What if they want to be there and care for you? Sounds good?

Not for me. When I'm sick i like to isolate myself. I don't want soup or tissues or anything. I dont want caring texts or phone calls - i just want to be left alone till I'm better.

I think guys who don't respect this are just as bad.

Plus- i won't be caring for them if they are sick either. I don't do that. (Ill maybe drop off supplies but I won't stay)

TokiMarvel · 2019-12-21T00:35:21+00:00

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