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QUEEN SUPREMEbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:58 PM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:04 PM
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butterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:51 PM
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REMINDER 👑butterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:49 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:20 PM
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NAH, SISbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:40 PM
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LEVEL UPbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:15 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?butterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:50 AM
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BOOK REPORTbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:52 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 02:06 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨butterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:10 PM
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RANTbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:52 PM
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LIES MEN TELLbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:15 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:01 AM
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DISCUSSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:27 PM
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DISCUSSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:13 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTEbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:48 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:14 PM
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DISCUSSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:46 PM
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RANTbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:09 PM
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DATING THEORYbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:51 AM
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DISCUSSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:45 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:59 PM
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DISCUSSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:08 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:59 PM
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DISCUSSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 10:49 PM
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POP CULTURE PICKMEbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:42 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:21 PM
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REMINDER 👑butterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:26 AM
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DISCUSSIONbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:48 PM
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NAH, SISbutterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:54 PM
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butterflymeadowzz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:29 PM
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How to date at all right now is my question. Honestly, I can’t feel comfortable getting to know someone in these tense circumstances and environments. All other dates would be considered low-effort. It’d be nice to juggle if I could find guys to do that with lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:59 AM
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You’re welcome, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:23 AM
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If you had sex with him already, chances are God will not lead you to marry him. Sure, anything is possible, but you already started off on the wrong foot. Let him be and do not chase, he should be asking these questions. If you are serious about walking with the Lord, you will likely be with someone who you have a strong foundation with due to a spiritual connection. Having sex with men like that will only lead you into destruction as a Christian, believe me on this one. Edit: talking means not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:10 AM
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That is simply your opinion, and I hope you give it another chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:47 AM
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Lmfaoooo this is great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:32 AM
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Liberal feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:23 PM
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Hey, if they like to be the typical, low-bar libfem that’s on them. You could easily say your own comments to them about it..and mention how un-ladylike they may take it, at that! (not telling you to come out of character) I think you’re just becoming a walking mirror reflecting what they might like to have for themselves, but don’t. Most likely by choice. Don’t socialize with that type of person anymore, lead by example at a distance. They’ll either get it or won’t. The one girl in the group wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:57 PM
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Ya, ok, as if there are no cheapo, hot-in-the-pants, irresponsible white men they’re also notorious for using women as much as anyone else until they find “dream girl”. In fact, they’re the demographic most obsessed with it, but I will literally just leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:57 AM
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It sounds and appears glamorous at first glance, but many women lose themselves to this lifestyle, more often than not picking up drugs, prostitution and just an empty life. The quality of the body goes too, eventually, with all of those prior mentioned factored in. It is possible to get all that without stripping or hooking, and from a man too, js but that also has it’s pros and cons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:56 AM
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She can do what she sees fit. As long as she does not initiate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:58 AM
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Yes. I think you should ghost him at best, mirror his behavior at worst. Stop reaching out as of now. If you decide to respond to him, take days and/or long hours to reply. Remember, this is supposed to be the honeymoon stage. He should be showing you his best and most valuable side if he is worth keeping around. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:26 AM
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Oooh these assholes are a special type of breed. Were they fucking him with their given consent? Doubtful...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:08 AM
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I like the guys who won’t even put you in that position. Him having her do that is a red flag, IMO. Even if she offered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:49 PM
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This literally works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:38 PM
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Savage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:42 PM
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Solid answer. It can feel very loving, and he was protective. Which I low-key adored, lol. And he wasn’t threatened by me, despite my strong personality. I felt feminine around him. I do miss the companionship and the feelings may have grown stronger-if properly harvested. We both deleted our facebooks lol. I have his email, and random other social medias, like his youtube channel. I’m not sure he’d recognize me if I liked a comment or something and even then, I’d have to state who I am for him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:05 PM
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Lol how did I not see this flair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:11 PM
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It really is. Shit is real! lolol thanks doll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:41 PM
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Just saw this. To be honest, I miss the companionship. We weren’t physical but close in another way. I still haven’t texted him and think I will refrain from doing so. All this reminded me of the incident and it was hurtful. He never apologized. I stopped talking to him after that. I kinda liked him before that, we had a connection. I’m just gonna leave it alone though. Thank you for your response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:59 PM
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Wow, a human, feminine response. Thank you for this, hun. I’ll be listening to this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:29 PM
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You’re right, this is why I posted, to wake up a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:28 PM
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I will, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:56 PM
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Well, I haven’t. Hence the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:52 PM
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Did I not say I appreciated being told to stay away? Did I say I would hit him up? You cosigned on a comment that said I was being gaslit and chimed in with “cause...” like you were answering my question posted above about how I was being gaslit? I’m not making excuses at this point, I’m asking for advice. I never defended him, just questioned how I was being mindfucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:48 PM
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Gaslighting to me is trying to make someone doubt their own self and sense of reality when another person is causing something to go wrong or be questioned, in reality. I got gaslit because I said “but” a few times? As much as I appreciate you guys telling me to stay away, I don’t understand how your input is supposed to help. You might as well leave it as “No, don’t.” that’d be more helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:40 PM
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I don’t see how he gaslit me though..do you mean negging me? And did he call you a name too? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:34 PM
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Thanks but damn, all these answers are so cold. I don’t mind the honesty, just the lack of depth. I try to provide insightful content in my replies, I’d like to get it back. What sounds like “banging my head against the wall” again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:27 PM
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Good advice girl but I bet he is, he loved my ass lol. With that being said, ima leave it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:22 PM
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This is true. Why do I forget this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:44 PM
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Ugh, I know right? I hate that I’m asking, we just had the bomb connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:43 PM
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Like he insulted me. I’m not making excuses, I was infantilizing him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:40 PM
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He didn’t say that he didn’t, I just never talked to him after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:39 PM
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Yes! like I’ve realized that literally cutting off all the avenues that people have to me that lead to toxic situations has worked best as I don’t get provoked to begin with. This is coming from an admittedly sensitive person learning to master her emotions. I actually like these kinds of posts as a reminder, because a lot of women are sort of towing that line between healing, and deviating away from FDS principles. Especially, when they defend their replies so much, it’s like they still have a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:15 AM
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I hear you, I think much of it depends on context. Certain things may be appropriate to give backlash to, but it takes discernment and wisdom to know when and how to respond. Most of the time, I do believe it’s best to work up your confidence to the point where you recognize if your energy is being wasted or not. And no one gets it right allll the time. Lol. Learning is an ever-flowing thing, and if many women feel that they are in a position to stand up for themselves, I think they should. But …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:43 AM
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100% agree with this entire post. It reeks of “I’ve been waiting to say this to someone” energy and makes one appear bitter as opposed to clever or savage. If you’re truly unbothered, appear that way and don’t let your response supersede his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:29 PM
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Do what they do and act exactly the opposite of what they want. Get the money and if not, act way too high maintenance for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:37 PM
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Hahahaha I bet this is their relationship IRL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:36 PM
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Have you ever heard of Sheraseven1? If not, why not look her up on YT, she explains the psychology behind all of these things well, to the point that it’s drilled in your head. It’s helped me. I think it would benefit you to stop OLD right now and binge on her videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:10 AM
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Yeah, when I log onto “Tinder”, I like to think I’m logging onto “Fuckboy” that really should just be the name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:05 AM
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The people who seem to thrive on tinder LTR are the type that are in open relationships and marrying for green cards, that’s about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:00 AM
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I 100% believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:59 AM
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it’s ok boo just delete that bio, and anyone that does ask for nudes or comes at you sexually, unmatch immediately. one thing I’ve learned from FDS, is that even if you know you’re joking, cracking a joke with a sexual connotation or just being funny sexually is always going to be taken way too far by the male sex. save that for your girlfriends, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:58 AM
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right, like you could have the most innocent bio or nothing written at all, and scrotes will still automatically hit you up with some kind of sexual opening or one referencing your body (parts)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:51 AM
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Men don’t care about that lol they probably take it as a challenge or think way too much into it and think that you actually want sex but you’re just saying you don’t, like you’re “playing hard to get”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:49 AM
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Right. Like why are they so extreme?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:22 PM
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Lmaooooo, this HAS to be a joke. Lmaoooooooooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:58 PM
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Survival of the fittest is so relevant at this time. We are seeing the strong vs. the weak, even on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:44 AM
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No sexting. Incredibly low effort and literally you handing him everything he should be chasing after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:42 AM
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I’m sorry that you’re sick and I don’t wish it upon anyone right now, but it seems like you literally walked right into this one (pun intended). Part of being an HVW is not allowing your loneliness to dictate who you hang out with. Please know that we are all a little bit more lonely than we are used to, some more than others but we have to keep up our lifestyles and what makes us happy and not degrade ourselves by hanging out with people we wouldn’t have given the time of day to in the first pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:51 AM
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Yes we do??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:28 PM
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Thanks for explaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:47 PM
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If he was so great, why do you think it didn’t work out?(earnest question)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:20 PM
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I love this. Still not sure where to find them but a refreshing positivity amongst the cold, hard, truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:37 AM
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That’s your outlook and you seem to project your past onto people whom don’t allow their faith to oppress them. I’m not a Mormon, so not too sure about that. Btw, FDS doesn’t automatically mean we hate Christianity. We believe in letting people do what’s best for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:45 PM
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Girl, not all of them. Don’t cut yourself on all that edge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:40 PM
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that’s what I said, I doubt they’re actual Christians-Reddit is 90% atheist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:09 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with believing in God, though..I doubt these men are actual Christians, trying to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:30 PM
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Society has normalized perversion and want kids none the wiser. Kinda makes you think they realize how important this shit is now, with the way that the whole world is pretty much on lockdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:25 PM
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I’ve always believed social media platforms should have an age limit that isn’t 13-14 years old. It’s just incredibly distracting, even for adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:53 PM
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💯💯💯 Truth!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:25 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:01 PM
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That’s absolutely fine, but at least phrase it in a way that benefits me and not solely the man. I like your response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:41 PM
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This is fukkin goals 💪🏼 I love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:40 PM
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Yes, thank you, I appreciate that. Things are already miserable enough. Idk what it is lately but I’ve noticed some newbies are spreading their negative energy, almost giving off a femc*l vibe and it shows! Stop trying to be savage and edgy in every comment. It’s not impressing anyone that you’ve entertained nothing but LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:02 PM
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Did I write that? Your answer was bitter. I tried being nice about it..I want an answer from someone with experience with HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:57 PM
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If you entertain clowns, then I’d agree. I’d like answers from women who have HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:26 AM
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Thank you for an actual answer. As well as financially investing, I agree completely. Men value what they invest their money in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:23 AM
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So have you tried r/femalelevelupstrategy? i agree but I’m seeking a less cynical response cause that shit gets bleak after a while. Remember, we look at the realistic traits of men while not losing complete hope, hence HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:22 AM
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r/nofapchristians
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:21 PM
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And how do you feel now after you show him your boobs, that he feels he can just walk away and insult you after schooling you on your own breasts that you were willing to allow him to indulge in in the first place-that is entirely sad. Perfect example of how men act when they don’t have to earn anything. Ladies, don’t show your boobs. He feels that he can talk to you like that because you were willing, therefore desperate, in his eyes. Don’t allow yourself to be objectified. Stop trusting strang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:12 PM
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Cool, well have you talked about any of these things to God- and I’m not going to undermine therapy and all the physical remedies to this, but it’s spiritual just as much as it is anything else. If you do have a strong faith, I think talking to God the way that you’re talking to me about it-everything that you just mentioned could make a big difference, I’d also like to link you to my testimony because I too was addicted to pornography. Glory to God only, I haven’t watched in like 2 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:42 PM
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Porn has spiritual repercussions just as it has physical, mental and emotional repercussions. This is often overlooked. Are you spiritual at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:32 PM
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You’re welcomeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:16 PM
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Lurker messages on r/FDSsuperfans, hun. That’s where they can get their shoutout lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:49 PM
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Yasss queen, get itt 👑👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 09:41 PM
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It’s evil. I don’t know how they’re that convincing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:07 AM
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I can relate, especially to the narcissist part. They approach you whereas others are intimidated-we are a challenge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:43 PM
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Girl, how do you say these things so diplomatically? Apparently, whenever I tell the truth, I just sound like an a$$hole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:23 AM
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I’ll leave it to y’all then, I was told to report and address these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:10 AM
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They’re failing to see the truth behind it. All if this is facts, most of their biggest spenders are married. And so much more that goes right against FDS. Their stripper friends would take their man in two seconds if they saw dollar signs in him. Let them find out the hard way 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:23 AM
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There are posts on here everyday about this, it shouldn’t take myself alone to make you aware of it. It’s all over FDS in positive context that is liberating, educating, and real. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f6nu1o/liberal_feminists_really_convinced_an_entire/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:31 AM
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Right, like porn is porn. The sad thing is that what’s the club is considered “vanilla” so it’s normalized by men and lib fems alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:20 AM
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I’m talking about the other female users here, fuck the men, they can’t even post lol We don’t support it here, bottom line. We don’t need strippers giving us their account like it’s a big secret, because we already can read this kind of stuff in the handbook. I could argue, but I won’t. Sex work will not be overlooked or glamorized here. Maybe the sub isn’t for you right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:15 AM
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It’s not shaming. We have a space where we can openly express distaste for sex work and not be shamed/judged for that. Every other sub on reddit supports it, so go there for that and come here to level up from it. Sure, one user got a little personal, but her ruined marriage is one of many. Men are pigs but sex workers live off of the piggishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:57 AM
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Thank God this is the one sub that doesn’t glamorize sex work. Work that ANY woman could do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:46 AM
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I’m sorry you had to go through that, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:42 AM
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at the same time we don’t support or applaud sex work at FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:37 AM
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Sickening, vomit-inducing. He’s like biting her face. Perv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:00 PM
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It’s true. You’ll know an HVM’s compliment vs LVM, they’re much more authentic and not all horned up when they say it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:54 PM
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Everything you need to know about him is usually right in front of your face, if you look hard enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 06:40 PM
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Well, yeah, so did I, to an extent. That was when we were young. But we woke up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:35 AM
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Lmaooo they’re so ignorant and such a disgrace to womankind as a whole. If only they fucking knew how embarrassed they should be that they spout the same regurgitated shit that was started by MEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:25 AM
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Lmaooooooo that’s the one I was thinking of. I’m like “yeah, that makes sense if you’re a guy, lol” Idk, these women delude themselves more each day. What makes a woman really try anal? Why is their curiosity so self-destructive? I’d be happier if they just admitted that they did it for their man and learned from that, instead of normalizing like the cool girl bff who likes it up the ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:53 AM
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“I actually cum from anal sex. It’s the only way I can get off”.....! As for writing more content, please do. It’s wanted and needed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:36 AM
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Ughhh even on IG, it seems inescapable. FDS and Sheraseven seem to be the only ones with traces of radfem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 01:03 AM
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Libfems really think they’re being supported by this shit, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:42 PM
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lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:20 PM
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Right, probably exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:19 PM
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Yo, I just need to get the fuck off of tinder, there’s so many fucking scrotes on there-it is ridiculous. I don’t know if it’s my area or what but all these guys really ain’t shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:12 AM
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So, I figured not responding would infuriate him more than unmatching but I’d like to know from experience OLDaters. I’m so not used to it, forgive me for my ignorance lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:36 AM
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Sometimes you say something neutral to see where he’s gonna take it. “Thank you” isn’t “let’s swap numbers” but I see your point. Like you said, waste his time. Leave him hanging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:33 AM
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I was suspicious of that too...so I said thank you then got that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:00 AM
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Thanks, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:29 PM
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“eQuAl SpItZ, EqUaL hItZ”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:10 AM
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I’m a bit disturbed by her lack of discretion. How she can speak about these experiences of hers publicly, on LVM nation(Reddit) easily translates to how she handles herself and her low value piece of shit bf like this with a porn sick, limp dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:00 AM
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I’m training for a new job. The class consists of my female trainer, my fellow female trainee and myself. The training site is a shared building between my company and others. Trainer and I are in break room talking about our experience and just small talking. She is a really cool person. So, this guy from one of the other companies comes in the break room, no biggie. Proceeds to take over the conversation and make it all about him. I mean, just asks a few gauging, probing questions, and uses ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:16 AM
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Fucking disgusting. The self-loathing is pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:32 AM
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I’m guessing both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:54 PM
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Be the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:09 PM
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Paige was a bitch but pulled thru for other girls in serious crisis, when she got older. Probably from what happened with Dean. She always haaated Manny though. When she was younger, she took Spinner from Terry (why?) and spearheaded Ashley’s popularity decline. Terry. and. Rick. Sigh. Fucking Rick alone was such a weirdo and Terry was beautiful, so sad she dealt with that. Ew, when Rick tried kissing Emma before he went nuts?? Blehhr🤮 I literally could not stand Liberty for like the first 5 sea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:19 AM
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Lmaooooo I thought Craig was bangin back then but he was an unstable teenaged LVM who always ran away, trying to start a family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:01 AM
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Ahhhh, right? Let’s be honest..they all had their moments. Even Paige. Remember Spinner? Ew, and Mr. O? the TEA ☕️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:59 AM
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I did feel for Ellie’s background with her dad also being at war, but Manny kinda learned after Craig.. except for when she went back to him lol I liked Ellie when I was a teenager. Manny turned into a bit of a savage and she was always good to Emma as a best friend. Ellie was always hating on other girls and tried to use her smarts against them and make them look and feel stupid... she also wouldn’t back the fuck off when Craig was obviously with Manny and like putting herself through all that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:28 AM
6

Finally, someone who’s indulged lmao Girl, what about Craig? She was a huuuge Pickmeisha for Craig..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:11 AM
36

If you’re not getting what you want and deserve out if the relationship, consider why you are in it and reconsider actually being in it. Sounds like a trashy, sleazy dude, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:08 PM
111

This is so true. Men have an apparent neurosis in regards to admiring women-at all, unless it’s for our bodies. How women can make him feel, make him cum, make him angry, make him insecure, make him hurt. Women are overwhelmingly responsible for all those things-even if they’ve never spoken to the man. A woman’s personality, thoughts, traits, past (not sexual) are moot because women do not inspire admiration via these things, to men. Women will never be up there enough to understand. They’ll nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:53 PM
210

If you want to keep a man, you can’t like him much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:07 AM
0

Lol ok, get a regulation technique. Not arguing back-and-forth anymore. Cya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:20 PM
19

Ugh, that threesome shit is like Pickmeisha to the 5th power. I can’t help but feel like a woman must be a complete loser to suggest it, God forgive me but like really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:16 PM
0

....Right. Because I’m screaming..... Way to acknowledge what I wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:06 PM
0

Again, bigotry and a blanket statement due to your apparent unstable emotions, assuming I’m privileged? Why are you trying to compare me or anyone in this day and age to someone who does those things? What about the Christians who are persecuted every day? Should I make you personally responsible for that? I don’t think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:02 PM
0

I think you’re willfully bigoted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:47 PM
2

Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:41 PM
0

what Christian sends their elders to jump off of a rock after a certain age? lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:38 PM
3

They are also assisted in their suicide when they’re not successful. That cult is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:34 PM
2

Yes! This movie is excellent and I just recently saw it and was blown away because Ari Aster is a complete genius when it comes to filmmaking, especially compared to more modern productions. BUT, she was essentially lured to a remote island with other friends of hers that absolutely were LVM, selfish and fake, yet under the false pretense of doing some kind of anthropological study, I think. She wasn’t allowed to leave, even though she hadn’t tried but we saw what happened to the others.. She wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:29 PM
2

Completely agree about Ms. Toni Colette. Blew me away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:17 PM
106

If only women realized this. I don’t understand how they cannot connect these dots. And these are usually the women who are so proud of being nerds and “smart”. This is so unhealthy and toxic, not only for women, but the environment. The men get everything they want, while rapidly regressing into the feminine LVM fuckboy..The women still wonder why they’re not prized for their wit and personality while they give everything up for free. Men mocking them right to their face half the time. The bala…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:58 AM
3

Yes, now you realize it and are working it out. Many people get stuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:07 PM
8

I can agree with your stance on this. Why is toxicity appealing to even a HVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:57 PM
13

They really are!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:56 PM
99

I love it. These men are the standard. Watch and learn, male lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:52 PM
2

I definitely don’t think so either, just wondering if there was a backstory necessary to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:17 PM
2

Thats fine, i dont think there’s any harm in asking for context
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:03 PM
2

She was just asking for more info..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 09:52 PM
1

Yeah, jumping the gun, not reading cues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 09:52 PM
3

So this is how people really feel when they tell me “true.” lol In all seriousness though, you shouldn’t have to explain but it seems that this escalated quickly. Need more info, plz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:43 PM
1

Libfem brainwashing- mixing lies with the truth, it seems. Basically telling women to be a free-for-all. And of course, all of this is brought to you by a lesbian, who is not even on the market for men. She has a wife, and women are more understanding. Show my breasts for feminism? Ok, 1967. That’ll show the men..../s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:05 PM
31

A gay man at that, being the libfem’s ideological mentor (for whatever reason)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:47 AM
10

With all due respect, why is it fun as us women do not have a prostate thus, how would you even get off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:23 AM
17

lmfaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:20 AM
16

I am very skeptical of relationships with men in general if they’re not my husband or blood relative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:29 AM
17

Seems to be a typical Pickmeisha form of self-destruction. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:54 AM
13

Well, they can fuck right off and stay confused 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:44 AM
3

I agree. Just killing time..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:55 PM
6

Best combo ever, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:50 PM
8

Right, I’ve been going by the messages and I unmatched one today because it was so boring speaking to him.. Like how is that supposed to enthrall me or attract me in any way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:47 PM
7

Amen, baby girl, we all know Mary Magdalene was someone different before she met Him. ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:44 PM
7

I completely agree with this. i’ve seen it a lot on here, This sub since the fluctuate in its nature every couple of months then it resorts back to FDS that welcomed me, despite my Christian values. Thank you for sticking by my side too. I really appreciate that, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:44 PM
8

Dude, right? He needs to get the hell offa there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:42 PM
6

Honestly, Ms. Tilly, I was thinking about you most of the time, lmao. I love your tinder posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:41 PM
16

“Many LVM think that by involving themselves in "religion" they can find some pure Virgin Mary that will worship them and never leave. They complain about all the "two-faced whores" who party on Saturday night and then "have the gall" to show up Sunday morning. And then they get home from church and load up PornHub.” This is so true. On point!!! To be honest, so is the rest of your post, lol No, wait!! That’s your brainwashing!! No FDS for you!! lol great post (forreal) sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:39 PM
4

I agree, sometimes tough love is merited but there’s the obvious hint of contempt for others with faith or who just need to shift their mindset. If you are an HVW, you will live and let live. If you have to tell people to stop believing what they believe in, you do not appear as a happy person and I think that defeats the purpose of FDS. And we all have a trigger points so I don’t know why some people act like they have nothing on them that can get pressed... Cheers, princess ❤️👑🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:36 PM
7

Was asking myself that same question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:23 PM
7

Thank you baby. I do completely realize that pick- me’s just do need to be called out for their toxic sense of giving too much and not putting themselves first. But this is definitely akin to bullying, abuse, and borderline harassment. My faith has nothing to do with yielding to human men. Like you said, FDS sort of, in an incidental way, lines up with a lot of the values I have as a Christian, so to me it’s almost perfect, lol. I’m happy with who I am. I’m a spiritual being. Thank Our Lord for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:21 PM
1

But I don’t see it that way and I do take not take it so lightly to be thought of as brainwashed, just like some pseudo-Christian you’ve seen on TV.. I’ve been doing just fine on the last couple of months here on FDS. You seem to have a hard time with accepting that someone part of FDS is a Christian and there are other Christians on here.. it’s borderline abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:15 PM
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It absolutely doesn’t put me at a disadvantage, as I know I’d rather be single than to deal with any person who tries to portray being a Christian yet fails at it miserably. Or any man. Tell me, what is Pickmeisha about that? I am all set with that. If you hate Christianity and you don’t like Christians because you think God is like a human man and we are dumb to worship Him then that’s your perception, and keep it to yourself. My belief is that God is Divine and not of this world. I have been w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:10 PM
9

No. I’m sorry but I really disagree with you on this one. I believe Jesus came to save men and women alike, it’s ok if you don’t believe but... for you to call me a Pickmeisha just because of the fact that I have faith when I was going down a road where I’d probably be dead by now because I actually have a savior in my life is a little much..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:55 PM
8

And thank you, I felt like a fool for matching but I knew it was bs, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:50 PM
14

Folding his boxers!!!😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:49 PM
8

I hear you but would you say the same about me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:48 PM
24

Oooh nice one! I do have that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:47 PM
8

Thank you, lady! I am still wondering why I matched. I matched a few others that were obviously trolls so I could troll back but I don’t think they liked meee...lol It’s hard to take OLD seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:20 PM
44

Great idea, I’d love to help a sis but he wants my number and I don’t wanna give it to him lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:18 PM
11

Lmao, right? This is why I resent online dating, I give people chances I normally wouldn’t at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:15 PM
2

there’s a post on this already, lovey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:29 AM
106

I was literally just thinking this yesterday, it’s so fucking annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:45 PM
8

I blame the LVM and the pick-mes. Two wrongs can’t make a right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:39 PM
44

Right but fuck the men, what about the women that are now expected to gladly do this shit, solely because they happen to be a female?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:37 PM
4

That’s great to hear, we have lots of resources and recommended reading as you probably already saw. I’ve learned much myself on my short time here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:45 PM
10

I’m glad you seem to have support on this. This is very important. Stay strong, love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:36 PM
10

I’m so sorry for your loss and having to see your dad in that kind of light. We really need to remember what many of these men are capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:33 PM
27

dead eyes are so telling..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:47 PM
36

oh my gosh. Maybe I’m an asshole in my own right, but I would fucking leave my dad high and dry in his time of need if he did all that shit to my mom. I’m sorry to you and your mom and I’m very happy that she’s doing much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:29 PM
26

Go into the funeral business and see if you can coach some classes during the week on couth and appropriate conduct. Do a women’s only class that goes over the likelihood of this happening to prepare women, if you can incorporate it in anyway, within your funeral home biz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:26 PM
18

So glad you’re free and here on FDS, fuck all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:24 PM
14

What the...heading for that post right now. And this is great advice, so it was definitely Pickmeishas and scrotes united.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:57 PM
8

I’ve had so many women look at me like I was starting shit because I wasn’t taking any verbal or patriarchal abuse that is obviously expected by them. It’s so sick when you actually are part of a community that wants to uplift and empower other women but you can never seem to get that in return..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:54 PM
1

And right now we have too many men pretending to be women. Don’t come for me, I caught your ass, wannabe male escort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:23 AM
2

No, because it gives the wrong message, this is FDS, not r/trickin. No one’s bothered about you trying to play dudes, in fact we can date multiple men, but I don’t have sex with multiple men number 1.) because that’s fucking disgusting number 2.)I make my own choices in my life and they happen to line up with FDS, not r/escorts. lol you sound a little bit bothered that I’m not open to your way, so lay off the self respect I do show and don’t get an infection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:20 AM
2

Interesting perspective, but we don’t approach men here. I don’t care how savage it seems or if you think you’re the one bad bitch that changed the game.. men approach US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:04 AM
27

Great examples!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:58 PM
27

I want the contract that says you get paid 10 mil if your time is wasted...Oh hey, Mariah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:11 PM
1

I have this book, a former friend of mine picked it out for me to buy and I haven’t read it yet!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:11 PM
91

Nope, they’re blocked and deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:57 PM
93

Right. Being a hoe is bottom-of-the-barrel, survival shit. Been glamorized for way too long, now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:12 PM
7

I personally have done this many times against those “evil glares” and they’ve gotten all flustered, not smiling back. I know that men have pitted women against each other in this imaginary competition and I think a lot of it comes from that, but it’s a lie to say that women do not give evil glares to other women. I do believe in this case, it’s jealousy/feeling threatened, but it’s their problem, not mine. I wish it wasn’t the case and I wish those women were more mature than that but sometimes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:07 PM
1

Right like treating them as equals is not really in our best interest...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:45 PM
2

Welcomee :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:33 PM
4

I think so too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:31 PM
7

Maybe that’s what it is. If you happen to see it though, just report it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:46 AM
19

Have you read “Adult children of emotionally immature parents” ? I started reading it and it makes sense. I have yet to finish it but also seeking therapy has helped me. My faith as a Christian has probably helped me more than anything. It can be such a rough road but we have to remember that we are adults and responsible for loving ourselves first and only then will we be loved by others. Good luck to you on this journey. Also, check out r/raisedbynarcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:27 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f83a5t/reminder_we_dont_want_to_hear_about_your_kinks_or/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app This. This is an example of the kinds of posts mods have to put out when newbies don’t read the handbook. it’s one thing to learn as you go along but it’s another thing to seem like you’re down with FDS and then you want to come pop off about kinks and things that can be used against us as women. We don’t support openly being kinky on FDS because th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:10 AM
63

They’re cosigning each other, listening to each other’s horrible advice on various topics like BDSM, paying on dates/ going dutch, FWB’s, not to mention the influx of libfem propaganda. And all this shit is clearly written in the handbook-multiple women are joining FDS and then they come clapping back on the fundamental principles and values that FDS holds. Waste of your time, imo. Just look at your feed and you can see it as clear as day, do you come on the sub a lot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:58 AM
29

NEVER settle. Especially after your body tells you that you don’t like how a person treats you. You’re on the third date meaning you’re barely into the honeymoon phase and that should be lasting awhileee before he shows any sort of major character flaw. A man who wants something good for you and wants to be with you is going to show you his best side for a while until you guys get more comfortable..even then he should be good to you and YOUR version of what good is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:49 AM
58

100% this sub is different from when I joined and many of the newbies’ advice is borderline toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:41 AM
23

Loveddd this movie growing up. Kat was like an inspiration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:12 AM
15

Exactlyyyyy. How can we trust our supposed HVM to not start watching BDSM porn or rape porn after? It just doesn’t go hand-in-hand with the kind of man most of us are looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 08:17 PM
6

Hmmm, asked on here too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:19 PM
9

Over my former group of friends? Absolutely Over real, true, quality friends that add to my life in a very positive way? Nope. Y’all can co-exist. Or just not talk to eachother lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:47 PM
22

🤢🤢🤮🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:03 PM
2

Ew, fucker, I bet he smells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:54 PM
4

Anytime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:50 PM
34

I don’t think that’s pick me behavior. I think if he doesn’t respond and you’re still thinking about it too much, you’re heading towards pick me behavior. You have to let a guy know you’re interested in some way, but I honestly would leave it at eye contact and a warm smile. If he doesn’t act on that, he ain’t the one, sis. If he didn’t earn it-it doesn’t mean much to him. Always remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:45 PM
39

Yes, abusive, demonic men thrive off of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:35 PM
35

this post and your comment got me rollinnn lmfaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:44 PM
2

I think so too, it functions in numerous ways: The impressionable Pickmeishas here may think it’s ok to post things like that and to give attention to the trolls Trolls like seeing their usernames on FDS, it fulfills them or feeds them in someway The trolls like being insulted because they’re sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:40 PM
2

I hear you girl, it happens. But with the post still smack dab on FDS where he can see his user name in all it’s non-glory and you’re giving more energy in a response than he really needed. No texting paragraphs, remember? FDSsuperfans is where you can exploit these scrotes. You’re a newbie (welcome) so I understand, it would be hard to keep track where to post what but I think it’s best on the other sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:36 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f6kowp/projection_or_the_divided_lvm/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:03 PM
8

Always messaging people on here, don’t even give him attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:03 PM
1

SMTH?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:37 PM
20

I saw this on YT a couple weeks ago...was very interesting. He really gets a rise out of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:53 PM
26

Same here. We need those who can give and take or no one at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:39 PM
13

Yesss sis, it’s so frustrating. taking every word you say literally, purposely twisting your words to make you appear hateful, and playing the strawman, it’s all been said and done before. The problem is they really think that they’re original. I’ve blocked two since yesterday! They invent problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:23 PM
8

Exactlyyyyy lol love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:07 PM
26

There’s been a serious influx of libfems and women who just cannot handle the FDS lately. There should be a report reason for libfems. We clearly don’t see eye to eye anyway. Their advice confuses the newer users. Then, starts the standard shaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:01 PM
13

lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:58 PM
9

You should stop, and save your energy for yourself. It will only get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:03 AM
48

That emoji is perfect loll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:43 AM
0

Would you have rather me call you a derogatory term?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:48 AM
10

ooop be careful you’ll have a bunch of pickmeishas come for you for saying that. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:44 PM
-2

Lol did you get offended over hun? Because that’s all we call each other here on FDS. Sis, hun, queen. Get used to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:33 PM
-1

Hun, the developmental delay part comes from the inability to take in other peoples opinions. And that doesn’t mean you’re developmentally delayed either, it was a fucking example. I’m not saying that if you agree with sex workers, you are developmentally delayed. I mean the people who read clearly what you’re wrote but proceed as if they didn’t read what you wrote at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:54 PM
6

Lmaooo HE really tried it. Don’t try to come for me or FDS 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:06 PM
2

For real, I have so many theories, I could go on and on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:05 PM
1

Who is dehumanizing? Autism, or ASD, is CLASSICALLY characterized as a developmental disorder, with many symptoms, one of them being rigidity, and having narrow interests. You definitely tried to discredit my 7-year experience with your own hurt feelings. How many times have you been hit or kicked this week? Spat on? Shit thrown at you? For asking them to brush teeth? THAT is the ASD I’m talking about. I can tell you’ve just started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:04 PM
1

I think you should refer right back to OP’s post. Your experience was different from mine and you’re just going to have to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:54 PM
8

Absolutely, another thing is when they attack you under the guise of trying to relate to you. Edit: Actively trying to portray you as hateful, is another one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:43 PM
1

“My career these days is advising powerful and prestigious people on the spectrum and their companies, and I know from countless examples in my network that's not inherent to ASD, that's just from being raised wrong.” I never said it factually was inherent..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:41 PM
20

It’s like can’t even state your opinion against it openly. It’s a horrible choice imo, and horrible if it has to be chosen. i’ll openly call out the libfems that like to think they’re so smart that they can challenge me on my opinion. I honestly think people like this are just developmentally delayed. I used to work with individuals on the ASD spectrum and the reaction to challenging their rigid, narrow point of view is honestly very similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:13 PM
36

Aww, so cute! Congrats to your mom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:30 PM
1

If my dream is so concerning that I would write about it on Reddit, I usually like to take that to prayer. I know sometimes it’s hard to keep track but also writing down your dreams helps. Edit: I will say though that as a Christian, it’s no surprise to me that Mercury is in retrograde, because right now is a serious season of shaking. If you are spiritual and serious about it, I kindly yet strongly urge you to come to God thru Jesus in prayer about anything going on. If you want to PM me, you c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:12 PM
3

It could be, especially if you’re very focused on your academics. Do you pray?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:22 PM
14

I used to always read books about him and stuff and I would wonder why there was never more information divulged, it was there but it hadn’t been released. I don’t know if they do it for media purposes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:42 PM
49

I watched this over the weekend, it was a great docu-series. When I was a 17-year-old pickmeisha, it’s like I didn’t realize the severity of it. I was just obsessed with his case, who he was as a person but over 10 years later, it hits real hard. The stories about Ted should be about the women. These women are the definitions of a survivor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:34 PM
2

Lmfaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:31 AM
4

I love it! Unfortunately, I’ve never even made a meme before, so idk how but I’d like to find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:20 AM
11

Jake the Snake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:52 AM
1

Hey, I downloaded discord and am not sure what to do next as it won’t let me write anyone. I verified thru email but I don’t see how to submit the rest of the info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:09 PM
4

Excellent post and points made. We’re all unlearning our conditioning here, we are just at different places on our journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:03 PM
2

and they can’t even follow those basic directions..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:52 PM
4

Agreed. This is simply self-preservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:34 PM
1

There’s always one..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:23 PM
110

Yeah, let me bring my sick friend out so that she could get potential alcohol poisoning/molested/coerced/blamed for being too drunk. Ya, send an uber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:36 PM
35

This happened to me and if you don’t have a solid foundation of who you are, it could destroy you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:24 PM
3

I hate myself at times for allowing this to happen to me..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:59 AM
6

If only the guys that had done me the worst were actually my exes.. Let’s pretend just like they did: narcissist, lovebombing, evil, inhumane, devilish, drunk, psychopath, manipulator, liar, gaslighter, cheater, pig, philanderer, abusive, scary, lonely, pathetic, sad, sloppy, insecure, desperate, treatedmelikeadog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:12 AM
2

I think you’re good and that’s great, the way it should be. this is just a bunch of baloney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:38 PM
6

If you go into the FDS side bar, there’s a place where you could submit your suggestion, you should try submitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:50 PM
7

As a sidenote I’d like to add- I think it’s always important to make sure that we act mature when we do experience differing opinions and know when to respectfully bow down vs argue and name call, that never makes one look good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:18 PM
11

Will do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:48 PM
37

I’ve noticed a ton of reposts lately...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:44 PM
6

That was a riot- Where the manslators at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:27 PM
9

Thank you, doll. I know I’ve had my fair share of encounters with them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:20 PM
6

Very sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:14 PM
9

On FDS? She needs to hit the recommended reading herself and drop his ass-not necessarily in that order!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:33 PM
9

They’re only capable of dehumanization and lessening the value of everything they come across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:06 PM
4

Yes, queen! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:22 PM
13

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:05 PM
9

I did not once take this article seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:54 PM
7

It certainly isn’t the bullshit reason this article gives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:48 PM
15

Mine too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:32 PM
23

I do think so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:17 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:11 PM
47

It’s so obvious that it’s biased too. When pick-mes were reigning, the science THEN said that ovulation made your male partner more attractive in your eyes and vice versa-all the more reason for men to use science to get the women to be all over them. But now since women started to wise up and realize that men ain’t shit, science says we victimize men by seeing their faults. They act like low value men even read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:56 PM
2

how to do that again? I’m getting scroted as we speak..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:48 PM
2

It’s like geez I didn’t think I’d have to crack the whip in every social setting but I guess I do..! But I got a female
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:18 PM
82

Changes his tune based on what other people say Has to bring up any superficial gain that comes with dating/sleeping with him. Follows trends Keeps toxic individuals around for no apparent reason (has issues cutting ties/moving on) Projects any fears onto you. Cannot stand any declaration of self love or independence-has to follow up with negging Trying to make you jealous or getting jealous himself verrry easily dependence on drugs/alcohol-something he needs to work on first An Insecure man mig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:54 PM
3

I hear you, no worries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:53 AM
7

Love thiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:36 PM
2

and women they don’t find attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:12 PM
6

Someone had the audacity to try and give me this whole rundown of FDS and their opinion on it after I suggested they come take a look, and she told me she’s never been so happy to be a lesbian in her life.. it’s like why did you just write an entire fucking post about FDS then? Why would you even form a staunch opinion on it? Oh, it’s because most of them emulate men and use it as an excuse to abuse their more feminine girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:55 PM
3

The systemic male-oriented view is so engrained in them, they think we’re oppressive while they are not. Pick-mes set us back decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:49 PM
4

Abuser did this to me as well in 2015. Asked me to be Valentine and technically on the 15th, I stupidly reminded him, at like midnight.He texts back with “what are you doing now?” Trying to tell me he was on call and was busy. Then showed me how he put a tie on, I brt that shit was on the whole night. The rest of the night was horrible, but that’s a whole post of its’ own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:31 PM
12

Right. It appears noble at first but it really is unnecessary and you might even end up arguing with the poor girl when she’s really not even at fault. All when you could’ve just walked away. OP is a force to reckon with for this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:38 PM
1

You’re absolutely right about that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:14 PM
7

I know this is an old post but this is such great advice. i’m starting to read the books more now and it really can give your mind a literal makeover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:57 PM
4

Lmaooo he had to give us pt. 2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:39 PM
14

I bet he slept and ate well after he was done cumming in that other woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:37 PM
8

Meanwhile, they chat each other up to see if anyone of them can give them “a helping hand” in the parking lot. Some of them will be buying two dozen of flowers..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:34 PM
2

Are you spiritual at all? i’m a Christian and dream interpretation is not necessarily my thing, but it’s very interesting and I have more answers in the last couple years than I ever had from a dream book or anything. Dreams about death are actually about new beginnings and the end of old things. Are you seeing violent things or just dreaming of death as a theme? Ex-boyfriends or past jobs or things from your past usually represent setback or delay in your life or anti-progress. You verbally dec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:21 PM
10

Right?? I always thought about that. That would be a huge no-go especially since everyone in Hollywood has herpes. But I’m also all about the principle of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:04 PM
12

He’s a nasty, perverted little fucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:02 PM
44

yes, that was brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:59 PM
75

I don’t know, I have a thing about sticking around situations that are completely disrespectful to me. I think just leaving says more than enough and shows that you aren’t playing that placeholder shit. Guys also just say this so that you can get mad at the girl and now you want to meet her and get all territorial. Let him fuck up his chance with Laura on his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:58 PM
17

You totally did the right thing. I even made a post about “why do men make you jealous on purpose” if you want to check out because some of the other ladies gave great responses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:54 PM
2

Love this 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:43 PM
10

They truly are demons. and they literally do have the same script. I have that creepy déjà vu too and it’s fucking weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:26 PM
11

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:22 PM
3

Right and that’s not bad parenting, I know so many people who would look down on that kind of thing, and actually you’re teaching your children respect and structure and how to think and get things for themselves. The example in the comment above is an old-school mentality and I swear that women do it just so that they can feel worthy of something. fuck that shit, once it’s done, I’m gonna sit right on down and like you said once I’m down don’t ask me for anything. If I’m a boy mom, that’s all t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:52 PM
7

I don’t get it, sis like what was she thinking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:26 PM
3

I still don’t think it’s necessary for anyone to be friends with their ex. Civil? sure, Friends and regular communication? nah. Jen always gave me the impression she was like that but I don’t know. if you think it’s bitter or lacking forgiveness to be like this, then maybe try and check out the handbook one more time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:17 PM
2

Yes, I agree and I was able to get a female. So relieved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:47 AM
1

Thank you for your sweet words, hun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:46 AM
3

It’s something I’m still recovering from. all these ladies’ replies and your story really hits close to home. I was deeply affected by it because I had left initially and then went back-only for all this same bullshit to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:19 AM
3

I agree and would like to find more ways to pull this off smoothly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:58 AM
17

Exactly and the thing is-it’s not like we all wanted to be at this point either. We all had to be hurt to get to this level of our knowledge and strength to overcome and leave these behaviors behind. No one here is perfect, so I hope these girls know that many of us are still having to make a conscious effort to do this and it is a real struggle at times. This shit is challenging to what we’ve been used to all our lives. No doubt. But it’s struggle that’s worth it. It’s not the higher standards …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:38 PM
2

Thank you, love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:05 PM
42

Disgusting and horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:36 PM
1

No worries, girl! Thank you for clarifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:55 PM
2

Sorry, hun. Had a few possible pick-mes comin for me today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:34 PM
3

If this was to me, I didn’t call anyone a homewrecker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:28 PM
2

I know, I was being silly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:58 PM
10

In a sense, there is though. Because they fuck it up for the women who know and do better. it’s fine to love sex, how come you can’t hold out for the best one to have sex with? Why not have sex with yourself? There’s so much risk, like another user said, that is aside from hurt feelings. I probably really wouldn’t care so much if it literally didn’t send a message to most men that says “this is how women prefer their relationships and what they want”. I’m sick of being approached for FWB because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:42 PM
11

Even throughout the years, she’s been so chill to him and it’s like why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:11 PM
7

I actually really like Angelina. Many things I don’t agree with her on yet she’s very fascinating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:02 PM
34

Huh. I always thought that Jennifer Aniston was kind of a pickmeisha, doesn’t she still give Brad the time of day as a friend? I like her but Sheri Moon Zombie is cool girl Pickmeisha. J. Lo’s relationship choices are pick me, while she is HV. and apparently Nicki Minaj because oh no baby what is you doing?? HV women in my eyes -Vera Farmiga, Toni Collette, Paula Patton.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:00 PM
3

Priorities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:38 AM
4

This post is on point 👈🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:28 AM
8

Right, like it gets to a point where you get over it, grow up and don’t want to just do it with anyone anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:17 AM
14

While it may be true, women like this are in the minority. FWB’s are toxic and usually, so are the people who want them. It’s an immature relationship in my opinion. Women are too hot in the pants and fuck up this game for the rest of us..Defeats the purpose of what we’re trying to do here. If the pussy is power, well, no one really powerful ever gave it up so easily, is all I’m sayin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:13 AM
2

Ladies, I was busy throughout the day at work but I do want to say thank you so much for all of your input and your support. I really felt this and needed this, so thank you so much. I’m sorry for the bad gyno experiences many of you have had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:26 AM
1

No I don’t believe in as above so below, we can just leave it at that lol. I don’t do dualism but yes, spiritual freedom is important and beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:38 PM
1

The spiritual manifests in physical form and I don’t discount science at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:55 PM
2

Why are ppl offended? lol I’m a spiritual being, baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:12 PM
0

You are literally receiving a piece of them when they cum inside of you. You’re receiving a piece of his spirit and all the spirits that come along with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:24 AM
6

Yo, I laughed SO hard at the beginning of your first sentence 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:09 AM
8

I feel you on that one, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:06 AM
5

Ellie from Degrassi: Next Gen is a Pickmeisha and a half
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:00 AM
27

No, I don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:58 AM
6

I think I’m gorgeous, especially when I take care of myself. I’ve always had low self-esteem but I finally came to terms with the fact that I am very beautiful, without being arrogant. Many of my self esteem issues come from my past going off what people have told me. I’m not as fit as I’d like to be and that bothers me sometimes.. I feel my most attractive when I take care of myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:55 AM
1

Thank you for this insight, as it was really being pushed in South Africa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:42 PM
11

Yes, bbygirl, yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:25 PM
54

Why do we allow this to happen when these men really ain’t shit? Why did they get to do that and give nothing to us while we strive to be better people and are damaged inside because of his actions? Why is the man always defended?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:21 PM
2

Thank you this excellent response. Very thorough and I appreciate that. I do have one question. What about a man combining the signs of both?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:46 PM
3

That’s the thing they literally think that we’re less valuable but at the same time if it was only them that existed, they would fucking kill each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:14 PM
2

Not at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:10 PM
40

Oof. You read it right, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:25 PM
8

Welcome to FDS lol At least now, you’re seeing both sides of the coin and you’re here, so that’s awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:39 PM
9

Damn straight! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:43 PM
4

Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:31 PM
7

That’s ok baby, thank you. I’m doing so much better now that I got y’all ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:28 PM
370

Roman Polanski is also fucking honored at like every independent film awards show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:23 PM
32

Where?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:20 PM
20

I wouldn’t just take it as a sign of HVM only, my abuser was one to send paragraphs, novels. I think he just liked to read his own writing..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:19 PM
27

Accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:16 PM
10

Right, we’re just trying to take our protection and safety back at this point, in a male-dominated society that always points the finger at us, even when they are savage animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:14 PM
12

I think it’s more so you put it in ahead of time when you think you might be at high risk, unless you want to go walk around with it all the time..I don’t know much about the hygienics of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:12 PM
76

I love y’all’s imaginations, lets do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:25 PM
41

No shit! like no ladies, don’t subconsciously stick up for the men by saying this is a bad idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:24 PM
65

Lmao, right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:22 PM
41

That’s right and another remedy to that problem is that maybe they could actually get to know someone first before they put their dick in them! gasp wow, what an idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:22 PM
47

I literally responded to some of the comments with the fact that they didn’t even think about how so many women could be protected by it, but they were worried about their own fucking outcome if they were to do something fucked up. “But the booby trap laws..”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:19 PM
31

I mean you can definitely think of it that way, but that doesn’t stop crazy men from trying to do what they do. I wouldn’t be too crazy about walking around with it either, but the bottom line is: I’d much rather be in a position where I can get away from a guy much stronger than me. If a man is going to rape you in the first place, do you really think he cares about what your ideology is on it? THAT is part of the problem. So instead of knocking it, I support this completely. I support anybody …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:16 PM
15

Thanks! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:03 PM
8

Completely. And if men want to see this much shit out of me, I am not going to put it past them that they would be willing to see me dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:05 PM
10

Right. Yeah it does say that it’s a bit older, I think it came out in 2006.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:00 PM
75

That’s exactly what I thought too at first, but I guess the impact is severe enough that they have to be surgically removed and causes great pain. It sucks that it’s not available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:59 PM
12

Really? A hoax?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:51 PM
67

https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/rapex/ I don’t think it’s been released yet. I’m sure it’s gotten a lot of clapback.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:31 PM
53

Oh but “they’re biologically conditioned to be that way!” Then I’m biologically conditioned to leave your ass high and dry for the audacity, so that the best man can provide for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:11 PM
21

Seriously!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:08 PM
4

Great points made, It can be hard when you already have low self-esteem and you’re just trying to treat somebody normally with good intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:34 PM
9

To be honest, THIS is the answer I’m looking for. In-depth and explaining reasons why. Beautiful, u/modernmedusaa!! What the fuck is wrong with these dudes? My thing is you can talk great about your fucking ex all you want (I’ll be out the door) but I know damn well you dog her just like you’re trying to dog me. I don’t think these guys treat any woman right. Edit: it probably starts with perceived weakness in the woman, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:31 PM
8

Yes, there is no question it’s LVM behavior, I have no confusion on that one. I’m just trying to collect what signs come along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:23 AM
30

This is like the LVM slogan. They probably have it on a banner in their room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:20 AM
6

I agree but how do you know the difference?Between him consciously trying or just being an amazing HVM?? why would he do that? It’s a discussion so I’m looking for thorough answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:15 AM
5

So I’m not dating right now but I do have a particular person in mind from the past and it generally made me question the motives of this. I don’t want to dwell on the person so much as I just want to get you gals’ opinions and past experiences. I agree that it can definitely be a narcissistic behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:42 AM
1

Completely agree and just like you said: put them on the spot-where they belong. Great book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:35 AM
3

Exactly- all the more of a reason to treat a red flag like an emergency. It’s so easy to get sucked in if you keep denying what happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:34 AM
3

Yes! I spent some time on r/narcissisticabuse as well and that can be a real eye-opener. I also like r/raisedbynarcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:31 AM
2

Absolutely, they learn off of each other in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:25 AM
3

Very proud of you mods! Y’all so cute celebrating this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:05 AM
5

Tell it, lady ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:28 AM
2

I’m also quite expressive and outspoken so I’ve had to deal with that as well.. Basically don’t let that define you if you’re around people who you do not get along with and give you that bad vibe. They can learn real quick that you shut right down around that shit. Good luck, you’ll be just fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:09 AM
7

It’s great! I’m beginning to accept that most facts about men are sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:54 AM
3

What’s that again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:53 AM
5

Literally cut them off-gray rock them. You can remain professional in a professional setting and literally not talk to them. In fact, go out of your way so much to make it seem that if this person talks to you, it’sborderline harassment. If a boss or whoever questions your behavior, tell them that you’re just really trying to focus on XYZ and ALWAYS remain neutral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:36 AM
28

Just a suggestion for the desperate....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:31 AM
8

Yes, beautiful artwork. I either found it off of Pinterest or here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:37 PM
7

Yes it is, I love itt i’m 10 months sober from LVM because the last Pickmeisha moment I had was in April
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:09 PM
3

Awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:28 PM
10

This is right on time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:00 AM
12

I have experienced this too, that childish audacity and if you really care about the person, it can hurt to see how childish and neglectful they are with your feelings..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:35 PM
15

Excellent point, and I’m actually on that part right now in the book, so it’s funny you bring that part up. I agree that’s been so far the most sobering part and I look forward to more. It’s insane how so many people will cater to a man with mental illness, even myself up until I started to read this book. It makes total sense because these people usually are very much able to clean themselves up and compose when the time is right. Something that people with true mental illness really struggle w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:52 PM
13

Oooh the work wife...great topic! And I agree, an HVM has one wife in my eyes and one woman only, being her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:41 PM
5

With the mothers being the same way, it’s so sad to feel like everyone around you is only reinforcing you second guessing yourself while teaching you to ignore your first instinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:19 PM
9

Why is this even a status??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:12 PM
6

Great answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:58 PM
29

Your comment made perfect sense to me and I agree. Compliments that men give are often shallow and premeditated. I do not believe they even consider giving compliments to any woman they don’t find attractive. They don’t even look at women don’t find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:55 PM
20

Lol I think we can all relate 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:10 AM
28

And now apparently porn hub/porn in general is becoming way more mainstream... like publicly broadcasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:08 AM
7

Thank you! I finally found the Kindle version. I’m about to indulge, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:16 PM
5

Oww, scorched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:22 PM
16

Don’t take what anyone says as your own code if it screams red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:26 PM
5

I found an MJ Harris video on here and I’ve been watching him ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:25 PM
17

I found out about Shera before FDS and I just feel what you say, she’s impacted me as well. I just feel like she’s the wisest woman I’ve ever seen in my life and I feel like that’s kinda sad but at the same time it’s beautiful. I was able to find her and she’s really not that much older, so that kind of is also refreshing too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:55 PM
23

I cherry pick w Shera but I love that she’s putting all these dudes out there Like, some other commenters say, there’s some sketchy things about her that I choose to just not even tell delve into but she has some very serious gems in her videos..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:48 PM
1

Standard shaming is literally in the FDS handbook and if you want to call her a dumbass for pointing out a pornographic move of rubbing your labia that literally is used in pornography (something FDS is adamantly against) then I think you should reconsider where YOU should be. We all seem to be forgetting that a woman doing this decreases her value-J Lo is an entertainer, star-we know that- but if you, FDS user, were to do this, do you consider that to be a classy move yourself? Would you respec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:03 PM
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Yes, there are some users who perceive feminism as cutting off your innate nature as a woman. I think the majority of FDS knows that the motherhood is a choice they were happy to make. I made a post a few months back about something similar and I was downvoted to all hell because it didn’t line up with the modfem view of women feeling regretful for have having their children, but then again many of the users here are against modfem concepts as well as tradfem, so it’s kind of hard to see where p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:41 PM
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“I make sure he forever straight” I. AM. CRYING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:36 PM
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Meanwhile, he’s waiting for that lesbian hook up Way to spoil him after you took away the prize...one big step behind for womankind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:49 PM
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That is some good insight. I’m in my late 20s and still working on career stuff, however I feel like it would just be a very welcoming, warm place that I would love to just start anew in. I don’t really go for musicians because it seems like no matter where musicians are, they all tend to have the same LVM traits. I prefer a more mature man. Not necessarily significantly older than me, but just somebody who has the same level of maturity and insight and willing to grow. But I don’t think those o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:54 PM
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I’m just thinking of the abuser who fucking was a narcissist to me and married his dream girl, only for a green card. Good luck with that, buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:54 PM
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is Tennessee a good place for HVM? because my heart is set on TN for some reason (To live there, not just to look for anyone) and coming from a girl from the northeast, it’s a different temperament!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:48 PM
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Whoa, where have I been? I love this topic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:41 PM
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These men need US and they won’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:22 PM
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He got a woman’s experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:14 PM
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Yes, when my heart was finally obliterated, I decided that talking about it was only going to perpetuate my feelings. You talk about something too much in your life because you’re focused on it way too much, and I think this goes hand-in-hand with sending long paragraphs to him or writing about him in long paragraphs to other people. Either way it’s energy spent on him and that’s fucking useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:59 PM
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I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:30 PM
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Thank you for this insight. Men never fail to disappoint. I do enjoy the examples of the 1/10, though. It’s beautiful to see men there for their family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:25 PM
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She looks so healthy in the second picture, you can see her Latin features come out a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:17 PM
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Look up “smear campaign”, it’s a narcissistic trait. Edit: Intimidate him with the law, because I know how it is to be emotional and charged up and wanting to get at somebody with other things but he’s already set out to ruin your image by making you look crazy and you doing so would only further ruin your image and would even help prove him “right” about you even if he’s wrong. A narcissist’s goal. Ignore and try to conceal your emotions enough to put on the air that this sort of thing never ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:10 PM
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Pickmeisha if upon 1st interaction, that’s extra
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:50 AM
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Trying to use what you’re attracted to against you-to make himself more appealing. When I was 18, I was at this party with these college guys and my friends as well, and I got stuck in a room, probably to drink with one of the guys who owns the apartment. We got into this conversation about me loving the Doors and apparently he thought I was so drunk that he could compare himself and suggest that he looked like Jim Morrison, enough for me to go for it. Of course, I knew he wanted me to sleep wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:06 AM
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Anytime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:26 PM
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FDS certainly has its hard lines, but the beauty of it is that you could almost tailor the certain strategies to fit who you are as an individual, and the main point of FDS is that women are receiving optimal treatment from their partners,without being taken advantage of and loving their partner in a mutual dynamic. That the low value men know THEIR place. It’s fighting against the systemic disadvantage women have had in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:11 PM
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Well, then that’s great, I guess my last question to you would have to be what made you post this in the first place? or what made you think that you were doing any kind of wifey shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:00 PM
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Ok, cause you mentioned his mom and I’m like “does she live there? is she right next to you when these things are happening?” I would definitely say play it by ear, don’t get committed just yet, maybe see other guys, you don’t have to have sex, just have them court you. He sounds like a nice guy and you sound like you really like him so that’s always good if it’s a win-win in that way, thats a good sign. I’m just gonna be that girl who’s telling you the things that are possible, because I would’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:48 PM
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Does he live with his mom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:37 PM
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Do you mind if I ask you how old you are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:35 PM
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Just wanted to lovingly add that you’re single until you’re married!!❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:27 PM
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With all due respect as someone who is completely learning and doesn’t even date right now, he sounds like a nice guy but you sound like you’re trying to invest in him and I don’t know if you realize that you’re doing it. It also kind of seems like there’s a slight desire of his approval. It’s great that you like to cook, I love cooking myself. I really thrive off of seeing people enjoy great tasting food and that I made it for them. This is one of many things that FDS has taught me to not displ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:21 PM
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Is it even worth it? Knowing that we will age so well compared to them? Should we even bother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 02:00 PM
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she’s asking a question, she says it’s never happened before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 01:49 PM
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It’s like to the point where I hope it’s a fake post but I know damn well it isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:45 PM
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I even commented myself, I thought it was just too crazy to pass up. Most of the other comments are urging her away from it, but I just feel like there’s not enough urgency like she needs to know NOW that she should leave him, like today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:35 PM
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Yeah, another FDSer posted that, it’s ridiculous. To think that she’s even questioning it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:24 PM
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Where in the world are you located? This is a rare sight here. Edit: Where I live, it’s rare, deal with it. NE American men are trolls. Someone’s extra salty that men are apparently doing it right in the Netherlands 🙆🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:12 AM
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Why the fuck would he exploit her like that among their peers? Like, is she a hooker? Why is this expected of her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:06 AM
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Nice to see that he could maturely handle all that and take time before marrying his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:59 AM
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That’s awesome, putting your goals first never hurts. that’s the point of my post, testing your past discernment/judgment of LVM and potential HVM, and why he may have had potential, or not. identifying the traits so that it’s easier for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:55 AM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:49 AM
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100% The positive reinforcement by pick-mes is disgusting and backwards, meanwhile they’re getting it the worst. Not even a pick-me appreciates a pick-me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:46 AM
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I’m glad you’re a mod, you help many of us daily with your posts. A little healthy embarrassment is necessary for to look at what I could’ve done better, to protect myself from this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:40 AM
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I am currently reading “Why does he do that?” And it’s telling of the issues you mention in your post. You can find the PDF online. Or better yet https://www.docdroid.net/py03/why-does-he-do-that.pdf#page=182 (bad with linking) It describes the abusive man and I think one of the hardest pills to swallow about FDS is realizing that most men indeed are abusive by nature especially towards women, so this knowledge can be applied to almost any man. It doesn’t come from mental illness or low self est…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:34 AM
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I literally had this happen to me. Lots of empty promises, telling you they’ll marry you, take care of you, that he wants kids, all the while I completely shut off my instincts...Narcissists are some shit, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:15 PM
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Glad to hear you get through your issues from your past, I can relate and am addressing it presently. We all have these moments and it’s good you’re not as hard on yourself. These dudes are just part of growing pains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:00 PM
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🤢🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:02 PM
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I know people with IBS and it’s really life altering. Pretty fucked up that they would even joke about that, they probably think it’s funny sounding enough to just discard and use as an excuse. I’d hate to be a slave to the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:02 AM
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Oh hell no. I made a post on that and what the general opinion of FDS was on strip clubs and bachelor parties and the like..oh honey, it’s a no go here! No HVM in my eyes is gonna want to go to a strip club nor is he going to want to do so even in extracurricular scenarios, or special occasions. Otherwise, I just don’t see the point of going to a strip club if you’re not going to be a sleazeball about it. Especially if you’re in a serious relationship/married. I just can’t picture an HVM enjoyin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:49 AM
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110%. The right man will know what you’re not comfortable with and will not put you or himself in that situation in the first place, to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:36 AM
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Great job! You said everything that needed to be said. If you choose to keep dating, try to have multiple HVM courting you at once. No sex, just serious vetting and enjoying the time that is meant to be the honeymoon phase. I believe in adulthood, dating should always have a goal. So, if any guy’s acting up this early on when everything is supposed to be peaches and cream, then that is like an even bigger red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:14 AM
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Yes, he literally just wanted to use you for sex. Block and delete promptly, never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:04 AM
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I think what’s mostly terrifying about this is that we (society) regularly see men act like this and regularly dismiss it as nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:45 PM
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This is what has helped me and always remembering that I’m not really jealous of anybody. Just jealous for the dude and their attention for a bit. Then I wake up and realize if I’m not the priority, they can get to steppin anyway. I’ve allowed myself to be “not the priority“ multiple times and never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:16 PM
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You’re welcome here. I have not had many myself, so I understand. So glad you’re starting to feel free. As am I. Love you too sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:07 AM
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The Fortnite picture is bigger than the both of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:36 AM
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Doesn’t sound mean at all, I’m so glad I’m single these days. I didn’t feel like that before FDS (and admittedly, SheraSeven) for awhile so I think that says a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 10:14 PM
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Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 10:05 PM
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She very well may have that scarcity mindset. She should look it up. Have you showed her this sub? You can let her know there are a few other Christians on here if she has truly become a Christian. Rushing into any relationship is really no good. I know back in the day people used to know each other for a very short time and then marry but I just don’t see it happening successfully anymore, men have really devolved into something different..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:59 PM
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Well to be fair, most people have a problem with religion anyway and some kinda over exaggerate the dating aspects of it. However, I absolutely will not discount that many men will use religion as a guise to seem approachable to women, and this is one of the more dangerous types of men. In this situation, it sounds like Peaches and Carrot are both quite toxic. Carrot for rushing this way too fast and trying to make her a wife immediately and not recognizing that she’s literally becoming a Christ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:47 PM
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Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:14 PM
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yeaiight, they ass been gone. I believe relationships in dating not only start with your parents but how you are with your friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:10 PM
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and instead of thinking of it as taking the L and moving on, let’s take it as a gain in health. “oh, that was the day I gained in health”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:58 PM
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My friends fucking hated me because I used to always push them to do their best (despite our partying) and always call them out when I expected more of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:37 PM
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Also as someone who’s been in a domestic violence relationship myself, once you hit the guy back, it almost gives him a greenlight to hit you in his abusive mind. His mind justifies beating the shit out of you, so it not only can get you in legal trouble and fuck up your future but it could literally kill you if you fight back against somebody who is physically stronger than you without the protection you actually need. I’m all for tasers, I’m all for knives and pepper spray, boo. Just like if y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:25 PM
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Me neither, especially when spelt with a “C”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:46 PM
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Wouldn’t pass it up for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:20 PM
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She was speculating, as we all do with celebrities. Do any of us really know what happens between famous people? I see your point but I just think your approach was off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:17 PM
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It seemed that way because you’re saying that we can all have different opinions and she has a different opinion and you appeared to automatically discredit her with your tone in the first sentence, it’s just an observation and the way I perceived it. I just think that we should avoid getting offended where no offense was intended. You also seem to assume that people who don’t automatically align with Islam dismiss it ignorantly as bad, which I don’t think is right to assume. People can have the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:32 PM
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While cults are different from mainstream religion, ( as a Christian I can certainly say that I am not in a cult), it’s more of how people seem to act under the guise of religion itself, then it is the values. Many people like to deem themselves as a leader and that’s okay but when they start twisting the values of a certain beliefs and when they start corrupting peoples minds, having people pay for teaching meant to be free, or very adverse teachings that make someone completely reliant on the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:09 PM
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Never say never, but ultimately I think if somebody is a true believer in whatever they believe in and the person they’re with has staunch beliefs that are completely contrasting the other partner’s, I don’t think it will work in the long run. Eventually, they’ll be stepping on each other‘s toes and arguing over basic principles that they really shouldn’t even have to argue about. Or even worse, one of the partners feels weak and belittled and goes along with the other partner, in spite of how t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:50 PM
2

why so defensive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:45 PM
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I heard it’s fake but knowing Jen..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:32 PM
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Jim Carrey is a pig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:10 PM
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Very interesting topic! 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:01 PM
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I think our ranting and story times are okay. I agree moreso with limiting the posts involving a pre-occupation with men, calling them out emotionally, pictures of texts and the males that seem to bother us. The fact that we’re appearing BOTHERED is their ammunition. That gives an impression that we are out searching for these posts and not simply stumbling upon them. I am kinda disappointed that we cannot openly share our traumatic experiences, for therapeutic purposes, but I have to step back …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:08 AM
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Love it. Most of the time, no reply is all it takes to get the point across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:11 PM
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Only men think they have the green light to full on beat your ass after assaulting you first as you mind your own business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:54 AM
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No, like three different ones. Very weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:19 AM
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I have gotten that same message before on what I believe to be the same site... I usually report
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:17 AM
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Absolutely. while it’s definitely not my way and while I have my own thoughts and reservations, I as a human can understand the need and desire to stay up financially and explore artistically. That’s how we get to know ourselves. Hope your anticipated exit is safe and smooth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:18 PM
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I find the mentality behind this fascinating but it’s good to get some insight. If I were to do that, I’d have to be surrounded by other women. Like you said, I feel harassed at the grocery store, so why actually show the goods, even in a “contrived environment”? It’s all bs to me but good on you for having a career you fit into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:46 PM
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Do you ever feel so ogled? Like how often do you think men go to these art classes just to see a nude model? Pervs. It reminds me of this skit by the Kids in the Hall, early 90’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:29 PM
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“Show me your boobs” after sending me screenshots of him and ex sexting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:45 AM
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Good for you, hun. I’ve made the choice to be abstinent myself. Safety and peace of mind is the #1 priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:41 AM
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What?! I swear these posts are not real....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:19 PM
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I think it’s literally that they are able to hang with a girl they want to bang or “like”, who is generally nice and open to them, just not intimately/sexually/romantically, and there usually seems to be a hard boundary that never needs to be actually spoken of, so as to continue the ideation of her in his head. I think it’s just the chase that drives them crazy over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:49 AM
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Ew, what a little bitch. Men have seriously devolved into a pathetic, hollow shell of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:39 PM
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lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:36 PM
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I think you did well. You are showing him that if he plans too liberally without paying attention, that it can cost him. No one wants their time wasted, and hopefully, he can see that. I wouldn’t focus on how much you like him just yet although it sounds like you genuinely do. Keep vetting, it can only help you in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:33 PM
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Yes, I was actually agreeing with you, hun. The jersey girls are usually pick me’s, they pretty much had moms, dads, and brothers screaming at the tv year round. I refuse to date anyone up here, they all share the same personality and values, it’s scary. There’s a ton of enmeshment to be dealt with here. I’m not gonna completely shit on my home state, but the men up here are atrocious, and I believe there is very little left for me here, in general. The sports thing is really obnoxious, too. I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:13 AM
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From MA, and can confirm this. MA guys are apparently a whole other breed..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:35 AM
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oh they’re definitely not helpless, so long as there are Pickmeishas around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:27 AM
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Yes but please never forget that even an HVM is capable of taking advantage of a woman who is just merely available and there for him, if it appears to be more than he thinks is necessary. Who can trust the outlook of a man considering the heart of a woman? While of course women are capable of being toxic as well, this sub also promotes never underestimating the true nature of a man and the damage his will may cause, all in the name of “doing him”. I am not at a stage where I am tolerating men a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:35 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:39 PM
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Sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:37 PM
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Thank you. This is very true. Many people do not respect boundaries and in fact, get off on crossing them. They call you insecure for having them but why are they not insecure about their inability to respect them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:15 PM
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I love you beautiful ladies. All of your advice and support helps very much. Thank you ❤️😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:10 PM
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My optimism for men has run out lately. I’m looking at what I’ve seen and experienced, what is all around me...Cheaters. Incapable of love. Sure, men can love their mom and dad, or dog, but they sure as fucking hell don’t love us women, who aren’t related to them. However, I’ve mentioned on here before that I live in a kind if small town like city, (trying to get on the map, but in an assbackwards way) where everyone knows each other and has practically the same mentality. I think that’s why I s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:04 PM
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Lol they really do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:02 AM
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Thank you hun, so do all us girls. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 02:05 AM
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I’m not currently but have been thinking about it and think it’s a great idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 02:04 AM
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Me. Last year. Told him I loved him and would wait, after finding out he was married. He didn’t care. Please reprimand me, I deserve and need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:53 AM
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I want to disagree with you, but the facts and evidence won’t let me. I’d love to think a guy could love a woman so much, that he would stand strong and say no, as you wrote. But he won’t and if he did, it just wasn’t worth it enough. If he finds it worth it enough, he will cheat. I’m the kind of lady also who really loves their partner, so I wouldn’t cheat. Like even for my “dream man”. Not that I have one lol Why should I be with anyone who cannot have those same boundaries for me? Idk they si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:48 AM
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I like that, commodifying. I’m kind of speaking based off observation, it seems a lot of the women who are sex workers seem to also support more radical feminist points. Not that it correlates. I think the truer ones do realize that they are indeed commodifying themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:32 PM
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Honestly, this sub has made me embrace women more than ever before. With that being said, when are we going to start calling out this radfem backwards attitude of “I’m going to continue to give men what they want for zero effort, because I like it. Because it’s empowering.” I don’t get it. As a woman I can admit, I like attention. As a HVW, I admit that I like attention from the right people. I think it honestly weeds out the pick-me’s and LVW, who crave the attention and validation of anyone. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:12 AM
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He’s literally posting the most negative stereotypes of a Christian to attract. He’s just using it as a way to get laid apparently, I wouldn’t say he’s a true Christian at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 04:00 AM
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Everything written here relates to me closely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:55 AM
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I agree. While I understand he could completely be an LVM, many of his concerns are very human. I imagine how I’d handle such a decision. I’d very well may go to the wedding too, if it was a best friend, I dedicated lots of time and effort into playing the role of best man(lady’s case: maid of honor) Who knows how this REALLY went down? but going strictly based off of what he writes, he may have to just go with his gut on it. That is just a tough choice that really has to be hard to make for any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:15 PM
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Girl, you just sang the song of my soul. How much shit would I have not caught had I had self-esteem at those crucial moments? Probably more than half of those negative experiences. I had horrible self esteem as a child. I acted as if I didn’t matter or was even a person, who never required standard decent treatment from others. My caregivers were quite needy and easy to treat me as an adult when it came to their own personal issues, but not much as an adult who can take care of themselves. When…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:55 PM
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Thank you, lady!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:13 PM
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Facts. is there a link? I watch Shera7 sometimes too and would love a little cheat sheet like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:09 PM
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100%. Love this energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:03 PM
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Okay, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:59 PM
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Don’t believe him. Do your research. Like u/Winter_Inevitable said...if you want to keep him, try the hanging out with her thing. Lol become her friend, so long as it feels okay with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:58 PM
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Wow. But that is interesting. You have to be very calm and cool to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:57 PM
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When guys refer to women as best friends to your face, I’d consider it a power move. He is dangling her in front you, as if to say, “I’m invested here and good luck trying to grab the effort I’m constantly giving to her.” Whilst keeping you in the picture. Guys will take any situation involving women that they can and try to re-frame it so that they can be seem as “the Man”. Thank God for FDS, because it has helped me completely accept that I’m not the problem because he has best girl friends. K…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:55 PM
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Doll, you may think that because YOU are capable of seeing him as a lad, but that does not mean he sees you as a mere lassie. Men don’t entertain women they’re not interested in. Even if they are long-time high school friend for example, there will be some distance and most likely you wouldn’t have to question it. Because high school friends can stay friends yet move on, and set limits. Friendzoned dudes cannot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:51 PM
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Second that. When bestie turns into wifey..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:48 PM
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It’s sick. and you can’t always tell what kind of guy might be into that. They’re so deceptive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:42 PM
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Yes, I’ve totally considered moving. I made a post about it a little while back. I’m in MA and I truly believe it’s my time to go. I have nothing here anymore. Every relationship has fell apart with friends, fam, and men. I have nothing here for me, no stimuli. It’s so boring and everyone is so one-track minded. Others are aware of how toxic it is too. They leave then come back. Lol, if I come back after leaving, it’s to visit. I’m all set with cold weather and even colder people. I used to thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:06 PM
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Thank you, I love it here. It’s so powerful and eye opening and so nice to feel like women are on your side for once. Intelligent women at that, seeing your side of the story and supporting you, that’s something I really love as well. I don’t get that much in real life. So, it’s refreshing here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:01 PM
21

Lol, the guy is funny until you read the comments and it isn’t so funny anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:59 PM
3

This is real insight. I second this, every word. I love it. Perhaps that is my issue, discipline. I’m not hot in the pants but I feel like I’m still somewhat conditioned as a cool girl. When I used to be a bitch and got what I wanted. The abuser helped with that, but I also let him in. So, how to never let them in again? Ever. lol I’m so done with men in general at this point. I want HVM to exist but they are so rare where I am. Small state, everyone knows each other, not much that’s poppin or a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:06 AM
3

Absolutely and I agree 100%. I understand not sweating it but it can do a major disservice. Like you said, I’d rather find out immediately. My problem in the past is even after seeing evidence, I didn’t fully walk away. I must admit, I can register that knowledge so much better now, with FDS. I resent men very much these days. It’s in my interactions, it’s on my face. I don’t even understand how I could date tbh, it seems like EVERY man is so not worth it. Not even a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:57 AM
7

Is checking a man’s social media a must or at least highly recommended? I’ve gotten conflicting advice but I will say that checking my abuser’s FB opened up my eyes to his little world of plate spinning. So, sometimes it’s necessary. Other times, it’s like you don’t want to HAVE to bother. Like, wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:52 PM
2

Once you get into astrology, it’s not hard to figure out. However, I’ve had a few pisces play me...they really are more like twins because they ARE sweet, but they can really lead that double life shit. Ahhh, I just can’t! Too much work. Rihanna keeps me on my toes, I like how she successful outside of music and a businesswoman but she’s been so fucking bitchy the last couple years that I’m just like who’s going to smack her? She’s dating royalty, so IT IS WHAT IT IS. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:03 PM
1

Thank you love. I receive it and come into agreement in Jesus’ Name. I believe I was led here too. Everything works out for the greater good when that happens. Other Christians may not like this sub, but only God knows how badly I needed it. I think it is also helping me focus on Him instead of worldly matters so much. Like dating, sex, etc. FDS promotes having purpose before jumping into dating and I think that’s what happening to me right now Edit: Forgot to add that I too am working on healin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:04 PM
5

Honestly, I know many women will disagree but if everything else goes right in an FWB relationship, the one thing that obliterates the whole thing tends to be catching feelings. We are naturally predisposed to catch feelings. I personally can’t keep fucking with my nervous system like that. I’ve deluded myself before and have no one else to blame for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:22 PM
1

Sounds like a lot of effort for just sex. Honestly, would it be that good? Orgasm every time? Decent man and casual sex? Just invest in a toy briefcase, worst-case scenario. I feel like lots of women would just screw themselves over trying to maneuver this. There just aren’t really many men out there like that that will keep it light enough for us to enjoy, and if he IS so decent, why would he settle for casual sex more than a couple times? Just putting all this together and it seems complicated…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:18 PM
10

I wish there were interviews of men, like serial killers. Straight from the horse’s mouth. Giving their accounts of the deliberate pain and confusion they caused in their relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:06 PM
3

I agree. God has made me somebody to be cherished by and to cherish as well, to glorify Him. This is a nice post and makes me proud of the recent choices I’ve made regarding dating and sex. I’ve stayed away and it’s been so necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:24 AM
3

Sheraseven is a damn beast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:32 AM
5

Yes, the sexualization of the time of year we’re born in is absolutely charming, isn’t it? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:27 AM
2

Evolved pick-me vs. primitive pick-me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:14 AM
21

Yeahhh Pickmeisha-meadowzz was a travesty. I am regularly nauseated by my own past behavior. Yes, I know the men fucking suck, but I was also just a boundary-lacking dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:12 AM
9

Keep it. You’re already aware of yourself emotionally stated by your last sentence. And it’s okay. Why should someone capable of making you feel like this have your virginity? The choice is yours, ultimately. But just take care of yourself first, and know what you want. Examine yourself. Don’t let your guard down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:07 AM
7

Ahhh, this place sounds sick. Great analogy. It definitely applies. Free is free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:30 PM
12

All the “toxic” signs are traditionally more independent signs...this asshole is telling on himself. oh and fuck astrology, it only goes so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:58 PM
3

I hate men like never before, it’s intense. They used to have an ally in me but they sooo fucking lost one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:28 PM
3

I heard that he used to hire his actresses playing nude roles by the quality of their tits. Idk HOW true this is, but I’m not surprised. He’d have a casting call and one of the requirements for these actresses were to show their tits, so that he could pick the best actress for the role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:09 PM
1

Just knowing exactly what method Kubrick went by to hire his actresses is enough to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:00 PM
10

More proof that men know what they’re doing when they fuck with us, ladies. Never fall for this shit again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:51 AM
13

Sex is beautiful and has such depth if we have the patience to dig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:41 AM
1

Also under “Scorpio”...I don’t identify with it anymore, but I looove being a November baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:43 PM
5

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:39 PM
6

Yesss, this is so true. Unfortunately, it’s made me angry but when I’m with the right people, I really glow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:37 PM
1

You’re literally just stating your perception which is hardly speaking ill. No one should have to remain wit narc parents. I do see your original point though! You just seem to like her and hope she’s doing things becoming of her. Ultimately, it’s not our responsibility or burden and out of our hands. So why bother? I honestly hate getting wrapped up in celebrity stuff these days, you don’t know what to believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:17 PM
49

I’ve definitely been screamed at by men more than women overall. Over what I consider “very little”. It’s like chill out, babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:00 PM
15

Ugh. Will never give my all like this. I feel like I’ve done too much by giving some dudes a ride. I literally know girls who are walking ATM’s for some of the most vile LVM..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:18 AM
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Thank you. Sometimes I can get sucked into the whole idea of “not everyone’s perfect” “some days are going to be shitty” “he’s not in the mood” and trying to be fair, yada yada yada, into thinking it’s normal. It really doesn’t have to be like that. Sometimes I wonder if my expectations are too high, then too low at times lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:24 PM
5

Lmao right, what’s that about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:42 PM
11

That’s so sweet, i’d probably cry as well lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:41 PM
12

Lol the frog shit on the patio 😭..funny While it may be funny, ladies, let us remember to learn to laugh and walk away when we hear these types of jokes. When a man starts to develop this kind of sarcastic, cynical sense of humor, directed towards you in conversation, it is only a matter of time before he uses it to treat you like an idiot. Sense of humor is mandatory and sarcasm can be fun, just not when used as a weapon against your mate when she’s trying to share her accomplishments with you:…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:37 PM
1

I think I’ve seen a video of his in the past. Will have to check him out again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:29 PM
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I’m not even sure that he’s human. I don’t mean that in a good way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:17 PM
2

These men are evil, hun. I have my finest pickmeisha moments too, they are learning experiences. You will get seriously loved on here with the truth and standards will be raised ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:25 PM
2

Give him up now, do not allow the relationship to continue any longer, and take some time to focus on yourself without any distraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:59 AM
16

That’s the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:22 PM
5

Remember Nintendo Wii? the little avatars are called Miis 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:18 PM
7

I applaud this approach, needs to happen more often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:04 PM
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Absolutely sis. I’ve seen so many men seem to move through life making the same shitty moves and there is always a sweetly stupid woman there to take the blame. Men are not givers, they’re receivers. They can never give out of the love in their heart. Something ALWAYS has to benefit them for them to do it. Whether it’s an ego stroke or truing to manipulate someone. They never fail to disappoint. Like is there such a thing as a non-disappointing man? Do they exist? How can they fuck up so often?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:03 PM
2

🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:22 PM
8

Right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 01:37 PM
16

I agree. That level of selfishness is sociopathic. Complete disregard for the other person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 01:36 PM
4

Love it, babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:56 PM
4

Glad you liked it. Sometimes the nice gal in us is just the savage who’s been muted. Nothing wrong with being nice to the people will not take it for granted. But we already sometimes have a challenge finding that out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:47 PM
3

Thank you, glad you liked it. I found this necessary to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:44 PM
4

Exactly. I wish we took on that custom a bit more. It’s way more genuine when you actually do get a smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:43 PM
3

Thank you, I’m glad you liked it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:43 PM
3

Thank you, I am doing this too and seeing a difference, we have so much control over our lives. Edit: I also love FDS and my fellow FDSers, it’s helped me very much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:43 PM
1

Thank you, love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:42 PM
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Exactly. Reddit is scrote central. No man appears to be living their best life on here, no matter how hard they front, they easily fall into the categories you mentioned. Go brag about your imaginary cool girl wife who “checks girls out” with you. stfu, and go back to NSFW, limp dick. These posts have actual words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:10 PM
1

Thank her please for sharing this. Wisdom is crucial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:30 AM
16

Ooh girl, shit is real. What did you do to unlearn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:00 PM
22

Never, sis 🤢🤮 No fuckboy apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:17 PM
2

Greay advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:48 PM
8

So glad to be back on these excellent posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:48 PM
1

A Christian absolutely can use FDS, stop being discriminatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:46 PM
1

Some people hate God and have to spread that to others. It’s not a good sign, tbh. I don’t know what she’s trying to do with this message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:42 PM
1

Listen, you have your right to think what you do and it literally is between you and God. Don’t tell women God doesn’t love them. You’re not really helping. Let women love God as we know He loves us. Again, if you don’t feel that way, ok. But this post is ridiculous and shaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:42 PM
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Completely disagree. This is a sign of what happens when women do not receive love from the important figures in their life. They blame God. That is sad. Do not persecute others because you do not feel so loved. FDS is about feeling loved, by yourself and by God, while learning dating stuff. Other women choose other deities. Are you telling them not to love what they love? I get your point but please, kindly consider how this looks and sounds. You sound like you hate Christians, and that if they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:39 PM
2

This is great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:33 PM
5

I get not letting the piece of shit off the hook, he should have to deal with that in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:27 PM
4

I really can’t. that was another kind of strain, reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:26 PM
1

Well, you seem to have a plan which is good. This is a time to hone your craft. You’re not going to be a complete professional right away so don’t let that make you anxious. Easier said than done, I know. Now is a time to make the little mistake that will train you to be a pro. If you have that love for teaching, you are able to turn all of this around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:12 PM
1

Of course, anything that is detrimental to your health and well being would need attention first, without saying. However, if you have made it this far, why should you give up all that hard work to not complete it? You’re time is just as important as anyone else’s and I’m sure you didn’t spend the money to not stick it out. Do you have a bad professor? Why has it shattered you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:40 AM
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I’m sorry you’re in such a shaky spot right now. It may not feel like it, but this may be a chance to let go of all the toxic in your life and start anew. Whatever you’re going through. Accept what you can and leave what you cannot control. You are in control of yourself. No one else. If this is due to a shitty/abusive relationship, leave. Take this opportunity to escape, and consider it as such. You are breaking free. Cry if you need to, it’s very healthy but make sure these people you cry to h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:26 AM
1

Sometimes this kind of loneliness is a sign of boredom and lack of service to yourself. Every time I went through this sort of thing, I had some kind of break through waiting for me, I just had to make a move. But I had to take it and focus on myself. Either working on my personality, mindsets, feelings, or by finding a new hobby, rekindling old ones. Self care and beauty routines, exercising. That loneliness can drive you crazy if you don’t curb it and lead you to do some real stupid shit with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:16 AM
4

And they still think you want them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:28 PM
8

Telling him I love him and I would wait for him, even though he did the irreversible to me. Oh, and he wasn’t even an ex. Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:24 PM
5

Wow. This is speaks loudly to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:08 PM
4

I think I just had a flashback
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:03 PM
2

Agreed, tact isn’t a bad thing. Many of them have had validation denied therefore, anyone seeking a healthy way to express will be demeaned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:02 PM
6

Major bitch/don’t-approach-me vibes-hands down the #1 reason lol A little heavy, and not as glorious as the more proportionate curvy chicks. My flab looks like carelessness. Sarcastic, some cool girl tendencies, (smfh 🤦🏻‍♀️), not giving a shit at times when it’s completely in my best interest to give a shit, having no filter at times, speaking negatively about myself even if I think it’s funny (again, cool girl shit) Swearing, sometimes I laugh loud lol and can be the occasional party girl. Hasn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:18 AM
3

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:49 PM
1

No it isn’t. Men are fucked up all sorts of ways, I’ve personally seen real life cases of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:13 PM
1

Absolutely. FDS seemed to come at such a right time that it literally has solidified the growth I know I’ve received from the non stop trials and unpleasant interactions with men up until this point. I can never imagine not subscribing to FDS now, it’s just so mentally liberating and savage at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:18 PM
2

No worries love. I have my moments too, I’ve definitely spoken out of passion on here a few times! Glad to see FDS paying off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:18 PM
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I can’t even imagine. Fuck all that noise. I love hearing women do better. Things do take time, sometimes that’s a hard realization. Keep on top of yourself and well being, spoil yourself. So glad you found FDS. I’m single and it’s already helped so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:24 AM
3

The beauty of FDS is that it welcomes women from all walks and points of life- Some women: -May be through with men completely and never date again, having adverse, more extreme views on men -May never date again this week, focusing on themselves a bit -May keep someone on the side and use FDS as practice -May be having a FDS success this moment, (in bloom) -May be Pickmeisha’s, still chasing men and their self esteem all at once My point is we are all here due to our experiences with men. None …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:19 AM
13

At least the pick me on the date will know she’s taken care of, not that she could tell, being brought to Hooter’s and all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:49 AM
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“He was from a machismo culture. A charming gentleman who has had his choice of women for life. Many redeeming qualities: intelligent, handsome, thoughtful... Completely fucked in the head by porn, sick male society and narcissism. Trash.” Funny. Sounds exactly like my taste up until recently. Ugh, no doubt he was fetishizing her at the time as well. I’m sorry you had to deal with that, hun. He totally violated your and her privacy. Glad to see you out now. I find that I hear some of the worst h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:42 AM
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That is fucking ridiculous, what were the pics of? Just you and the doc? What was he trying to do? Convince you of some threeway that would never happen? I swear, I have a hard time with men in general now from these kinds of posts. Like, it’s difficult to look them in the eye and see how they could not be disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:30 AM
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I’m feeling that way as well. FDS has taken it’s toll, which I’m grateful for, but this is a real problem. Men literally are the monsters we thought they were as kids..you grow up thinking they’ll get it together and be human. And they don’t. They only learn to exploit you. We realize their existence strangely surrounds our exploitation. Morality is too foreign for them. As for always seeming to stumble on taken men..done with that too. I’ve had to shut myself off around here because all the hot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:43 PM
1

mama’s back ;) lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:21 PM
1

Ahh, haven’t actually been, but I liked their spring stuff when I checked it out. I swear I’m motivated to start making my own clothes. I do also love NY&C.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:53 PM
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Rape pill males-they’re covert and narcissistic in nature. Every post I’ve read on there was of some scrote patting himself on the back for misrepresenting himself or flat out emotionally abusing a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:02 PM
4

Maybe H&M or Lord+Taylor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:13 PM
5

😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:01 PM
2

goofy, smug smiles abound
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:25 PM
3

You can refuse to work in that area or to come in on his shifts. Keep your cool. Do whatever you can to document each encounter-record him if you have to, write down his mannerisms, things he says, the times and dates. how he acts when others are around (he ignores you) If he puts hands on you, flip out. Make a scene. Demand help and to call the cops. Unfortunately, sometimes the only end to workplace harassment, is leaving the job. I’ve personally seen sexual harassment done firsthand multiple …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:08 PM
5

For sure. I think it’s doing yourself a huge favor securing a career, possibly even before dating seriously. It is so nice to just know that if anything were to fuck up, it wouldn’t be your finances!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:48 PM
2

Out of all these things, let it be the first to go. take your time with the other shit. don’t hook up with an ex..or anyone...for anything..just don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:53 AM
4

FDS can honestly be tailored to how you specifically are and see fit, so long as the basic principles are not compromised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:48 AM
9

Lol, i’ve noticed this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:13 PM
6

Ugh. I hate that he just throws it in there, like almost trying to be charming. “Let me digress for a moment to make sure you know that I’m a pervert. Haha”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:11 PM
4

Damn, I can relate 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:04 AM
6

Mhm. Even a HVM will take a free sample.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:33 PM
4

Right. It’s so difficult with low self esteem. One part of you is like “fuck it, get out” and another hollow part of you just wants to prove itself, ugh. Bottom line, these dudes don’t deserve one fucking text character off your keyboard. Our shitty feelings now can never match the pain of letting someone abuse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:33 PM
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Great post. Men selfishly fill their needs. If their needs do not measure up to you or are out of pure convenience, he does not deserve you nor has your best interest at heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:31 PM
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Well, how is she thinking negatively? It’s something valuable to her that she does not want to give up so easily, sounds smart tbh. Let’s let our fellow girls be picky. It’s all we have left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 04:11 PM
6

I was with a woman I was hanging with for a short time earlier this year and her husband called her to ask if she would order Chinese food for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:03 PM
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Funny that you mention you’re from the south and live in the north now. I’m in the Northeast myself and I’m considering moving down south lol I’m so sick of the guys here. I’m not moving just for dating, there’s a lot going on that I just need to start over, but it’s a big part of it and it’s just getting to be an eyesore up here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:50 PM
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I agree. I live in a more liberal area, not too staunch, and I must say, there are slim pickins. Many are also married. On the other hand, I do see plenty of these men enjoying their wife/gf take on a majority of the errands and responsibility. They also tend to be subtly controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:46 PM
4

Great job, lady! Love to hear the success on here. I’m gettin there, definitely. 2020 ain’t ready lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:35 PM
44

Straight up! If even mom’s warning you, it’s time to cut it off. That’s supposed to be his ally, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:47 PM
12

Lies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:10 PM
36

Flawless victory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:57 PM
55

That’s sketchy. If you’re saying there was a noticeable difference in his demeanor when she came AND he did something contrary to the game plan as soon as she came out. He easily could’ve been trying to look like an actual good boyfriend but why when she came out? and then he talks about paying him back the money, absolutely not. He wanted to show off for her. He better hope she’s single cause his ass would be! I think its time to break up. I can’t live like that anyway, if I’m constantly parano…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:13 PM
3

This is so necessary rn, I love FDS lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:46 PM
1

I have low self-esteem. Confidence has gotten me far. How do I raise my self-esteem without faking it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:45 PM
3

Nope. I’m literally going through this right now and feel regularly nauseated after finally getting through some of the trauma. I’ll never speak to my abuser again. He’s not human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:20 PM
9

Same here. I learned to except that most people, especially men, are just selfish and are willing to take the easiest way out of anything, regardless of how anyone else feels. I realized this is a normal thing. That somehow, I’m the rare one for thinking that people would be open about these things and if we proceeded and did not know better, that they would walk away gracefully. Men like being stressed over and will deliberately push us to that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:42 AM
23

Ugh, he’s so content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:28 AM
1

That’d be great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:27 AM
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Exactly, you’re feeling disgusted and embarrassed, which is normal. Perhaps towards him and yourself. But the one who’s disgusting is him. As long as you realize it’s not you, but from here on out, take care to block and move on, guard your heart and mind. You will struggle to remember him. Btw, this happened to me and is one, big example of why I’m abstinent now, lol. It isn’t everyone’s way but having sex with these assholes never really helps us. Edit: Fds has actually made me purge some of m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:25 AM
1

If anyone has anything to offer, I’ll wait with ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:11 AM
1

Yes, not to say any other woman isn’t worth it. but this is exactly how I feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:07 AM
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Jeez. Well, I definitely think the younger you can recognize a LVM and have their red flags evade you, the better. I do my best to keep my friends and romance life separate. Like, I’m cool with them meeting and us all hanging out, but I tend to stay away from groups of friends that basically just date each other. 16 is very young even though it feels like you’ve been around forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:03 AM
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I hate this shit. But truth be told, sometimes you need to let the emotional side of this run it’s course. Keep him blocked, estranged, NC, and acknowledge your feelings. Much of processing rejection from a fuckboy is forgiving ourselves and letting us come to terms with what we found attractive in him in the first place and tweak it. Let your disgust pass, do your favorite things. Don’t get consumed by your feelings, but recognize them. Sometimes, if you’re not too deeply hurt, it may be ok to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:55 AM
8

Right. As much as I know I won’t accept anything less, I want to make sure I’m on top of myself, putting my best self forward. I guess I’m saying that cause I’m not completely doing that in this season of my life. Hence, le drought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:15 AM
14

So how do I assure that I’m worthy of this? This is so damn sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:36 AM
11

SheRaSeven1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 09:10 PM
67

I think many women themselves are open to hear the great advice FDS has to offer but I feel like the younger ones may have to go through with their own decisions in their own way and perhaps, they do need to hit rock bottom to have that perspective shattered. For some, it’s the only way for them to look at things more clearly, in a realistic view like this is actually how men view us women. I’ve heard this advice from a youtuber for younger gals: if you’re 18-24, have fun, fuck around (be smart …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 08:02 PM
14

Preachhh she gets mad that her fans are coming for him but really, she’s lucky they’re not coming for her for that lack of self-worth. What else is it? Is she just in a rush? I love Nicki but I was shocked. She’s honestly one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen, despite some surgical enhancements and it just don’t make any damn sense. I’d love to think that she’s just happy and in love but something is very amiss about this relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:53 PM
4

No prob, sis, there’s no one I currently want either. So, I am in the same boat completely. My body language has been pretty closed off and uninviting for a long time, a lot of it has to do with the choices I’ve made with dating. I don’t have guys approach me. I truly think that’s one of my problems as well. Some people may consider me quiet, others may consider me to be quite social and out there, it depends on who you ask. Perhaps you and I haven’t found environments where we can really thrive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:19 PM
10

Lmao, good point. You’re not alone, I’m just on the other side of the spectrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:09 PM
18

Lol see I don’t get these kinds of dm’s, I’m wondering if I’m doing something wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:03 PM
3

This amount of self-awareness is goals. I don’t think the intimidating idea holds much water and I always used to think that was my issue. Any man you want is not going to be so intimidated by you that he can’t approach you. (Unless you’re unbecoming of yourself, ie. being obnoxious, loud, craving attention-positive or negative, not putting your best self out there) Your second paragraph is on point. A genuine, sincere individual who is comfortable setting boundaries and comfortable in their own…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:51 PM
2

Yes, I read that as well. I looked up if pardons can be reversed, and while it’s under investigation, it was kind of difficult to get a clearcut answer. so I’m undecided but like you, I’m leaning towards no appeal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:06 PM
5

I literally got an “ahh that sucks” text after I told some guy who was supposedly crazy about me that I was in the ER. Then, he blocked me after I never responded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:49 PM
10

Hell no. To be honest, they wouldn’t try texting me either but all the better. I can so do without the distraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:33 PM
28

They never received it, or they think they’re too good. That they should be fawned over. Everyone needs a healthy dose of positive attention. I love attention from certain people, I honesty avoid it otherwise lol It’s only natural to want attention from your man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:12 AM
43

Some men use this to gaslight/guilt women over their tastes, as a negging thing. They may even be hoping the woman has enough low self-esteem to go for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:09 AM
9

There may be an appeal of some sort but I’m not sure if that’s even able to happen once a person is freed. I believe other senators are calling for an investigation now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:13 AM
9

I’m glad you found FDS. I myself was in a very toxic situationship that I allowed to turn me into somewhat of a Pickmeisha for a while. Sometimes, I still notice tendencies but FDS has really snapped me into shape already. It picks you up and dusts you off, where you left off and you can be at any stage of dating and find something helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:58 AM
9

Yeah, I don’t think they found a motive for any of that yet. Insane, makes you wonder how many other leaders would go out like that for whatever reason. Like, everyone he had freed went to jail under quite severe circumstances. I don’t think he even freed anyone for a more common felony or misdemeanor, it was mostly legit murderers and sex criminals that I read of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:49 AM
2

Well, there are other posts that have ultimately led me to feel like I’m being targeted, I kinda blew up here because there have been other responses I’ve made to certain users in agreement in other threads and sometimes some just come at me and I could just sense the overall disdain for my comments. and many people on here I’ve taken my well-intentioned comments the complete wrong way. if you can’t tell, I’m not surprised because you’re not me. For real, like I’m just being honest. I’m really n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 10:10 PM
2

I love Fds. I’m not even dating currently and I can tell it’s already helped me. Just in my day to day interactions, it’s very empowering, I’ve never seen anything like it. Such lucid, knowledgable women on men. I appreciate this and I think staying is not a bad thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 10:03 PM
1

I thought it’s expected to handle it in the form of being downvoted, some disagreement, that’s one thing. but to be targeted signals something a little bit more personal. I got backlash all the time, backlash is nothing. I don’t like being targeted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:44 PM
1

Maybe I can message you personally for some FDS. I’m sorry I didn’t think to message the mods. You were one of my favs tho and I loved your advice. So if I do message you, I hope you don’t mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:24 PM
1

and if I should know that no one sugarcoat their opinion how come it’s a problem that I don’t sugarcoat mine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:14 PM
1

honestly, I’m out. I feel like I got a lot of people targeting me on the sub. Ima a go in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:11 PM
1

I liked my flair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:10 PM
1

Well you know what, I don’t give a shit. Obviously most of the people reading my content or people that are adamantly against me and what I think. Why even pay attention to me? Other women on here obviously want to overlook all the other points that I had, just to focus on the leftist thing yes, I generalized wrote out leftist just like a lot of people generalize a lot of things when they’re being targeted and judged, I don’t really give a shit at this point I’m not ignorant, I do my research, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:09 PM
2

Thank you, u/NecessaryCook, I guess it’s just vocalist in me, but I appreciate the information and your additional comments. I think your content is of excellent quality as well, always. Regarding the thread, to be fair, I do think I was being a bit judged too, though, as well as the other FDS user I commented to. I don’t see the outcry for either of us. That’s ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:59 PM
1

But my stance on it is my stance whether anyone likes it or not and I shouldn’t have my flair changed based on that. I like the flair I had, see how we differ in that opinion, thats ok but I personally don’t think it’s just a flair. someone gave me that flair because they thought what I had to say was of quality, and I appreciate that. You sound biased to be honest even though I love your username. And the people who post regularly who may notice my posts know that I don’t go out of my way to ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:54 PM
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😂, we got recruiters to downvote us now, honey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:47 PM
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I mean, you can disagree all you want but I think it’s a bit of a broad statement to say that no woman says nah and then gets an abortion. I love to think it’s not common at all. Gives me a bit more hope. But even so, why does it need to be legalized up until birth or why can’t it just be a doctor-mandated thing that is recommended at the point when it becomes dangerous? It’s great to be in support of women, especially women who have traumatic circumstances, but to say no women are selfish enoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:39 PM
18

Lmaoo where’s “I like your company.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:23 AM
11

This sounds cute at first but this child is still a child, he shouldn’t even be worrying about giving away earnings to his mother, so she can feel like a good parent. So many other ways to teach him to respect women. He may even resent her for this later... I’m pretty sure he’s kinda busy trying not to shit his pants so why not just take the kid out and let him enjoy his childhood?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:56 PM
5

Yes??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:41 AM
3

“I guess you need some context.” Considering your background, I could say the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:16 AM
51

It is much more difficult to set boundaries with a man past the first impression/honeymoon stage. He has been practically greenlighted on every questionable move he’s made and that may not be reversible. If you feel like he has potential and room for growth, you could try setting those boundaries. But like another user mentioned, do not expect him to be whipped into shape. You’re splitting dates and things like that’s going to be very hard for him to let go of. Most likely he will not see you as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:47 PM
5

Exactly, and I agree, it’s about knowing who his friends are and what kind of overall man he is before you get serious with him. Your former example is disgusting yet typical of men and your latter example is endearing and refreshing, I would have no problem with any quirky, little silly things him and his friends do so long as it’s chill and everyone’s having a good time and being respectful of the significant others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:15 PM
2

Like I said, what is your general opinion? Answer the way you want to answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:11 PM
8

Yes, that’s one of my more prominent issues with it- they’ll hire private strippers when they never were the strip club type.. even just for one instance, they’ll make any kind of excuse. If you know your man well, and you know he’s not going to go to any sort of thing, that’s very good too. I just feel like, with men, you have to really KNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:19 PM
4

Aww, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:13 PM
5

Yes, knowing how his peers get down can tell much about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:12 PM
11

Bam ☄️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:08 PM
1

It seems that you have trust in him and even so, you seem to be confident enough to not let it affect you. Do you think that he would partake in something or enjoy watching and you just wouldn’t mind? or do you think if anything crazy would’ve happened (usually a stripper is hired for the groom) do you think he would just walk out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:07 PM
1

What is your opinion on bachelor parties as a wife or significant other of a man? Regarding his interest in going, (or lack thereof), being invited to one, the societal view, all of that, the question is very general. And I believe that FDS can be implemented even in/for marriage. A few wives seem to be on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:00 PM
7

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:25 PM
22

Right. So in essence, a HVM man is not going to break for one night for his bros and be a pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:19 PM
5

Where they at? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:17 PM
13

That is indeed sweet and wholesome. Something like that sounds nice. I don’t know what it is about the people around me where I live, but it makes it seem like degenerate bachelor parties are just the standard way to go. I see some of these gorgeous women with their husbands and I’m like “do they put up with this kind of shit?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:16 PM
13

This is perfect, More amazing, relevant, sound advice from u/NecessaryCook. I feel like I need reminders of the angle that FDS operates from. That ideally the man is supposed to know that you are the prize. Why would he go out with other men and strippers when he has a prize he could be spending time with? His life is meant to be better because I am in it and I thank you for that reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:14 PM
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Glad to see that there are some people with a more mature mindset. I pretty much feel the same way. I just have my sentiments about marriage and don’t think it should be corrupted the night before the actual ceremony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 05:09 PM
4

I thank God for His soft, still voice. I am just starting to listen. It has helped me tremendously. We possess intuition and it was meant to protect us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:24 PM
15

i’m a nurturer sure, but not to some shithead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:15 PM
25

Your post really intrigued me, particularly the experience with the man and woman on the train. I personally believe that there is no such thing as a coincidence and so you may be completely right that that person was being used to send you a message. “My coping mechanism became my default state where I was just reading EVERYBODY'S nonverbal signals in order to please them before they could hurt me.” I can relate to this so much. I believe my mom suffered from the same thing and I used this for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:59 PM
4

...my goal is to buy a Chanel suit 🔥💁🏻‍♀️💅🏼 I don’t think the high value men care as much as they see it as a trait of a high value woman. She has enough self love to spend a considerable amount of money on herself and she’s got it together. I think that’s mostly what they’re looking for in terms of fashion choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:33 PM
12

Right, I’ve been told “I love you” by somebody who later admitted that he was literally just lonely. I still kick myself time to time for putting up with that. They are pigs who will say anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:24 PM
8

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:16 PM
46

Yes, and this is why for a while, I was only attracted to older men but I found out the hard way, they are just as disappointing. Dealing with men requires a strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:15 PM
8

😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:12 PM
8

Same girl, so jaded these days but FDS gives me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:06 PM
7

Definitely can get creepy lol Thank you. Take care of yourself as well, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:19 PM
7

I think there’s an authentic way to identify with your faith. Some change for the better because of their faith. Then, there’s the culty ones.. Many people seem to think that means to shove it down people’s throats. Lately, I think people are bit more careful. I think it just solidifies my faith even more, but it makes me very skeptical of the knowledge people have. I like the live and let live approach. When I start seeking, I just seek a man who has both our best interest at heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:59 PM
6

Applied Behavior Analysis- Basically, it’s a very common model used to implement educational programs with individuals who are intellectually disabled or otherwise developmentally disabled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:21 PM
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Lol that excuse is bs, what if you are single and have not been in many relationships? Are you damaged goods then? Content singleness is actually considered a gift. I do agree. Personally, it’s too contrived. People are trying to focus too much on showing their best selves to a fake point. It’s not even just relationships either, a lot of people go to church and they don’t even realize that it hardly benefits them, it’s just repetition for them. Even as a Christian, I hardly go to church and I b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:19 PM
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Ladies, no matter what your religion or faith is, please know exactly who you’re marrying. I’m sure it’s real easy to get caught up with someone who seems perfect. Many women of faith have to deal with this pressure of marriage, but if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. If anyone is pressuring you to do something you don’t like, ladies I strongly urge you to get as far away from those people and that mindset as much as you can and if you can leave with your faith intact, that’s even b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:18 PM
8

I love the title, you literally have to use ABA with these men. I’m actually seeking advice on this as well so I’ll wait with you. I think a lot of it has to do with recognizing when you’re about to praise or compliment him in some way and delaying that until he does another good thing. What things impress you or make you think “Wow, this makes me feel so good”? Try to get real acquainted with those types of expressions of adoration. Imagine those things as things that are done for you all day, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:09 PM
3

That’s awesome. I’m glad you found a group of women who can help you feel like you’re not the only one having a good time. I honestly run into the same problem quite often, like the girls I grew up with. I don’t talk to many of them now but they never were up for a good time so long as it took effort. It was just like ok, do not want to do anything different or see anything new?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 02:25 PM
1

Yes, I would definitely have to get better acquainted with the area and where I can do things like my hobbies before ever dating. I’m just talking about once I do move to a completely new area whenever I do decide to date. How I should go about the whole support system thing, but like you said I think joining like a team or some kind of club would also be a good idea. I like the Y.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:39 PM
5

Ew, look at his face. His expression. Like “That’s the kind of woman I want voting. Let us take note, scrotes.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:27 PM
5

Yes, it would’ve been different because she would’ve looked like she had a little bit more respect for herself. No one’s starting a fight, I’m telling you the truth, I love how people on Reddit like to try and tell you what you’re doing. Why do you have to make it like we’re enemies? why are you fighting the first woman who has a different opinion from you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:20 PM
9

Stop giving this pick me leeway. it’s trashy because she’s wearing a shirt that says she’s willing to suck off any low value man because of the political stance she takes. I don’t care, that’s just ridiculous and no woman benefiting from FDS would agree that that shows her in a positive light. We are really cracking down on women who defend pick me tendencies and excessive male sympathizing. You can downvote me all you want, but it’s in the rules, and your required reading when you came on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:07 PM
0

100% babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:59 PM
2

Ugh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:58 PM
3

@getoverhimplease
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:56 PM
3

I hate that, they don’t even have enough energy to do something fun with you? They will have all that energy come back when it’s their dream girl. If I feel I am making all the plans and all the effort and care into planning a trip, I’ll just go by myself. Most likely, the person I’m going with doesn’t care, “Ok, it’s something to do” and will also probably blame me if anything happens to go wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:49 PM
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I have, and personally, I think it’s a place to pick and choose what you find valuable from it. Some stuff regarding getting in tune with your sensuality and femininity can be helpful for many women. Like another user says, it kinda directs women to rely on men almost to a toxic point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:09 PM
9

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:43 PM
11

Wow. I’m sorry. Who needs to even begin to deal with that? And with a newborn?! Does not matter, it’s inexcusable. How are you doing and may I asked how you responded? You may PM me if you are comfortable enough to talk about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:37 PM
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The outcry is real. Baby, what is you doin’? Realistically, how many boyfriends and husbands support women on Snapchat premium or Patreon? I’m sure the amount is vomit-inducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:39 PM
1

You’re welcome! I literally have been off the market, and not even trying. I’ve been healing. My stance on that is honestly quite undeclared...All the HVM around me are married or gay tbh lol it’s like the LVM’s don’t even try because they know I’m not having it, except for the occasional covert ones but overall there is a complete shortage of HVM here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:49 PM
14

Validation is great. I had this issue for a period of time. It was so frustrating, leaving me heartbroken, and now I know exactly how to keep it from starting again. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:25 PM
1

See, I would love that, lol he sounds cool. I’d keep seeing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:46 PM
3

Solid advice. I suppose a HVM wouldn’t fuss much about your support system if he has your best interest at heart. Not sure if it comes off as a red flag for myself, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:23 PM
2

Ooh, I haven’t but I’ll look it up. This may work, I have a cop uncle who works for the state, so I could use that. Just switch the states lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:16 PM
12

They are NOT like us, ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 08:29 PM
11

Right..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:04 PM
5

Right but I feel like that can only go so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:30 PM
3

I’m not talking about moving for a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:08 PM
3

I too am waiting on marriage to have sex again and I would say just kind of slip it in the conversation within the first couple of dates. Maybe not immediately on the first time, because I personally don’t like to talk about that on the first date. I want to get a good feel of him first. If for some reason I feel connected to him, I will definitely mention it early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:03 PM
0

right, some women love the kids some women obviously regret their kids I still think the severity of it is different between a man and a woman. at least you’re putting in your input instead of downvoting me to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:58 PM
0

right but that’s not OK, we’re trying to live like queens and that’s not queen shit Plus the point was that men and women in that same situation just handle it differently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:54 PM
3

No way, don’t do anything because your partner want you to and you don’t wanna do it yourself. that’s like 1+1 = 2 Women need to become harder in some ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:53 PM
2

Thank you! Why are we acting like single mother is the bar to be at? Raise that shit, pickmeisha! Edit: I love a thinking woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:49 PM
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Hey I love this group, support my fellow gal and all that, but for real, some of y’all need some basic training in comprehension, just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:47 PM
0

you don’t seem to want to completely give them up/regret though, to be honest. my post is just fine because it still marks the fundamental difference between men and women. even the women disagreeing here I think they’re showing more sympathy and more tact than a lot of the men who would feel the same way. do you disagree?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:45 PM
1

Maybe but I also think it’s not very typical of a woman, either. I’m just speaking of the average woman with average circumstances. Not many young women I know are reserved like that. The older generations are, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:43 PM
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That’s something that I could totally see you being a normal feeling and absolutely sad thing a lot of women have to realize. my fundamental point was that a woman doesn’t really handle these things the way man does. A woman would probably feel real pain even talking about this stuff, while a man can just be resentful of his entire family and after a while, murder them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:41 PM
0

I agree, but fuck that. people need to stop acting like they’re living because someone else told them to do something, and in this day and age no one is “supposed” to do anything like have kids just cause. it’s the pick me’s who fall victim to that shit. I don’t know about some of these women but I’m living in a free country where I can say “No”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:39 PM
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I don’t really consider it taboo, I just haven’t met a lot of women who actually regret their children because they seem to realize the children are not the problem, the man is. there are also women who love their children...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:34 PM
2

Same. That’s what I see all the time, single mothers going hard, doing it on their own, but completely resistant to dating, having kids, or meeting another man. It’s like you want to ask without seeming nosy because you know that you can probably relate in one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:33 PM
0

Right, but they’ve also had a horrible life experiences and that’s bound to bring out the worst in anybody. Who would want kids if you’re in a shelter and you can’t even support yourself first? Even then, I doubt she’s calling for their existence to be reversed. Adopting a child in need is a thing that many people would see as a blessing. I will not deviate from my original point in that men and women are fundamentally different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:30 PM
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Right, he sounds the kind of shitbag that scares women out of having kids. I’m sure many women could agree that they would regret their baby’s father. So many men are just so selfish, and were selfish in the moment they decided they wanted to have a kid, and they’re selfish 10-15 years later when the kid actually is a person. I’m glad you have the understanding to grasp the point of my post. Edit: Someone I kinda grew up with lost twins early in their pregnancy and was devastated by it. They are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:22 PM
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I don’t know, I mean I’ve never had someone be so honest with me in that sense, not saying it isn’t normal but I don’t know if you’re getting the sense of regret that I’m trying to convey. The guy in the post seems to have deep deep regret. Maybe your friend does too. I can’t judge. I just think that unless you had some very unpleasant life experience with kids, there’s no need for that. My point still stands. That men and women are completely different, men’s compassion does not rum as deep as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:18 PM
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For clarification, I’m not talking about women who do not want children. I’m talking about mothers regretting ever having their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:04 PM
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This sub maintains that there is a distinct difference between men and women, emotionally,mentally, physically, and I chose this to point that out. Most of the women I know or have had a conversation with, regarding kids absolutely have never regretted seriously having their children. Maybe a joke or two but it is completely telling that they’re not serious. Many of the women in the other subs are also pick me’s, sold out to being Bob the builder types. -not because they don’t want children but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:01 PM
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Tragic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:17 PM
2

PM’d you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 07:27 PM
4

The Stockholm syndrome part you mentioned rings true. We really don’t realize what we’re missing out on because we were used to trash. A change of environment can help out with that. However, this sub maintains the philosophy that if a man is interested in you he’s going to maintain regular contact with you and invite you to these things he seems to gain so much excitement from. Bottom line, he’s going to be in your life and he’s going to have you with him, so long as you accept. Imagine a succe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:53 PM
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I would say that you know yourself best, and if you know that you are a more laid-back type that may do some light traveling but is not always participating in some kind of spectacular endeavor, then I would say start looking elsewhere. Especially if it’s making you feel less than. Try to have a backup ready before you dump him using FDS, if you’d like. On the other hand, if you are feeling somewhat insecure or just questioning your own self because you find that your interests may not be as var…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:08 PM
3

it’s that, but that’s like one point on a much larger scale that I’m not going to get into on this sub, for relevancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:45 PM
1

Absolutely not, because I am a Christian. I live my life. I follow The Word, and make mistakes, because I’m only human. I also believe in accountability and believe that a high value man has a key component of accountability, respect, and honesty, and yearns earnest, full living. So for me, it goes pretty hand-in-hand. People seem to think that that means I have to shove my beliefs down their throat and automatically want to devalue me based off of that alone. I also will no longer be having sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:47 PM
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Hit the nail on the damn head with this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:36 PM
10

Get up, and walk out. Let him know immediately that’s not how you make love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:22 PM
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Will do. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:12 PM
4

Some of them, I sit on a little bit and wait and see more of their posts to tell if they really are trying to grasp the concepts of the sub, so that’s why I haven’t, for SOME. Trust me, I’ve blocked and reported quite a few already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:12 PM
3

Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:34 PM
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Lmao this post triggered me... I have another point. Maybe I’m just kind of off with my timing but in the time that I’ve been posting on this sub, I’ve noticed there seems to be an incredible amount of pick mes on here. More so than even like two or three weeks ago. We really should start cracking down on this community and make sure that we don’t have anybody with adverse values coming in here and contaminating the impressionable minds seeking real advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:07 PM
5

Robots are kinda cool but there’s no way that they would be less powerful than us. the people creating them couldn’t resist themselves plus they have an agenda behind this AI anyway. We finally have robots and the first fucking thing we’re doing is making sex bots?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 02:58 PM
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Best-selling novel “2034” comes out, predicting the epidemic. Ok lol not really. But just like you said, dear, it’s right around the corner. Literally, with the way things are in today’s society, I can absolutely see this coming into fruition in my lifetime. I pray that it doesn’t, and I will do my best to adjust my behavior and to inform the women in my life of the better route to take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 02:54 PM
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Excellent! This is very refreshing. Awesome job kicking his ass to the curb! That honestly makes me feel like it’s never too late to show that one person who disrespected you that you absolutely do not need them. And that they can realize that they lost YOU, that YOU got away. It’s not about being content with them loving you, it’s being content with saying no for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 02:40 PM
6

Thank you! I’ve noticed many of your posts, myself. They’re always so helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 10:35 PM
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Tell her to take her own advice and cut her off. Let’s see if she’s going to be with any guys sucking dick anytime soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:52 PM
3

Point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:48 PM
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-Talking about his exes in general. More than any necessary brief explaining of past experiences -Not listening to what you’re saying -Testing you in anyway negatively- It will start off small. He will say or do something and will seem like a joke and hardly anything to discuss. However, it continues and it seems to get more specific, seems to become more frequent, and before you know it, you’re in for all out criticism. -Not asking about you what you like, your interests, your goals-NOTHING -As…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:35 PM
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Right, that headgame shit does not need to be in there. Takes away from the rest of what she wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:12 PM
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Agreed. Men always act a little more correct while on ice. Let them wallow in your lack of need of their approval. Cool girls need to get it together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 04:51 PM
2

I wasn’t around for that, but I’ve read about it, it kinda gets real deep. Gen X, war on drugs, AIDS, all of those booming along with the whole bunch of channels to cover their stories. Oh, that rabbit hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:34 AM
7

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:26 PM
1

You’re on some pick me shit. i’m speaking clear as day. Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:54 PM
1

it’s how more about how society sees us and we have to sometimes be mindful of that. don’t worry, you’ll get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:32 PM
1

I’m not arguing either. I’ve had men not lose interest either. It’s just hardly anything to mention. Like, I’m not sure of your point, because it’s more common than it sounds. But it may not work out or move forward for a plethora of reasons. I personally will not put out until marriage. Some people find that too much. I don’t care. I have nothing to argue about ever again when it comes to people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:43 PM
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Right well, who hasn’t? Just because you had to turn some of them down doesn’t mean they were high quality men in the first place. I don’t know where you’re from but a lot of America is not like that especially where I am from in the Northeast. A lot of the guys are more than willing to exploit you. Sometimes, it’s just disgusting to me. why should I share a valuable part of my beautiful body with just anybody, just for a moment of whatever? I used to like it but it means nothing and I like mean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:56 PM
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no, I’m kinda more standoffish one and it’s me just putting my pride aside and saying alright let’s see what you’re about and they failed to show me anything qualified. So just like with men, I’ll stay alone and respect myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:48 PM
1

I completely hear you, I used to be that way and think why deprive yourself of something you want. However, when it comes to strategy, and this is my experience, it is the hot-in-the-pants women who are severely finding themselves behind in the race. Society is not ready to respect that type of woman. True story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:58 PM
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I have a hard time bonding with other women over this exact sentiment. sometimes it’s me but mostly even when I try to call it a truce and I want to be civil, it seems I can never get to that common ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:51 PM
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Right, thats the key. Stand out, but don’t say “pick me”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:49 PM
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I believe so, too. The women who put on the facade of enjoying that or being down for that are literally just like playing a role they think is going to please their man, when it just makes them all the more unattractive to him. she’s willing to do anything at that point and he’ll never respect her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 01:01 PM
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Yeah right, the person who put scarcity mindset I’m just asking if they can post, no big deal, but thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:57 PM
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“Strong enough to explore that part of us”....!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:49 PM
1

Have not seen anyone give a rundown quite yet. I love the posts explaining these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:43 PM
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stay in the meadow, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:03 AM
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No. All the hot ones are straight up married or gay. Attraction immediately diminishes. There are not many hot ones (IMO) either. I like the more rugged, northeastern type too, so something is just WRONG with these men. I live in New England, and am thinking about moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:39 PM
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Completely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:32 PM
1

Can you make a post about this, please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:29 PM
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A few years ago, I kinda took someone back (I say it like that because we weren’t in an official relationship) and he literally did me so dirty, he did everything he thought that I did to him, to me. As much as he could. Despite him fucking up the first time in the first place. After 15 days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:14 PM
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Yes!!! I love this! I cannot agree enough. I for one, am just absolutely not giving any time to anyone who is not benefiting me in some way or another. For me, that honestly meant spending much of the holidays alone away from toxic family, and that was perfectly fine. I am also completely disregarding any sort of civility that I thought would be ok or good to have with men whom I had feelings for. At this point, I don’t care. If you’ve done me wrong, you don’t deserve any sort of respect, you do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 09:53 PM
6

Yesss, queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:11 PM
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That’s great! Never heard of hinge before but gotta check it out sometime. Good luck with your new beau and enjoy your massage! 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 06:42 PM
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I am a bit slack-jawed myself, but in the most positive way. Where are the men that offer out of nowhere, a paid and booked massage? Like, where are they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 04:48 PM
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Thank you, there was one post that I was commenting on and my basic point was that it goes both ways- high value men and high value women should be compatible- because they display the same patterns and behaviors, and recognize high energy versus low energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:16 PM
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Good morning, I didn’t realize just how much I needed to see this until now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:54 PM
1

No problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:31 PM
5

Long distance relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:51 PM
2

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:28 PM
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Yes, mainstream media has a knack for this. imitating real life personalities almost to a T with enough differences to manipulate the viewer into thinking that’s what’s around them in reality, when it’s nothing like the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:24 PM
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I completely agree and many women do not even question this agenda. They see right through it oftentimes. Some women get mad at other women for being feminine as well and take personal offense to it, as if someone is forcing them to be a certain way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:13 PM
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Lmaoo, right. I personally am a little weary of LDR but I agree, nothing stops a man who wants you ultimately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:03 PM
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I think we all do that, we may not say necessarily high value or low value in our heads, but ideally, weigh a person’s strengths and weaknesses and we just move according to whether or not we feel that they’re good for us. Some behaviors are just signals of LVM, I mean this entire sub is based on differentiating between low-level and high-level individuals so it’s not like people are really assholes for doing that. If I like to stay at home and read a book at night while another person likes to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 05:49 PM
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I see what you’re saying. In my eyes, it looks like your comment was the one looking down on other comments/opinions. While I agree that we are the ones to do the picking, we’re not the only ones who have eyes and we know that a HVM is going to be picky about his partner just like a HVW and so she should present herself as such. And yes, while that definition can fluctuate a bit (HVW), cause no two people are exactly alike, it’s probably best that she doesn’t have the air of a completely ratchet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:53 PM
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Exactly, whenever I feel like I’m having a conversation with a pick me and I mention that I don’t have sex, it’s like they answer and look at me like completely shocked and almost disgusted like “why not?” I’ll say that I just don’t want to and they still make it seem like it’s an issue of want, like oh I MUST feel shameful about something or insecure, so I don’t wanna have sex. No, I’m just not a fucking cool girl who drops their panties at the first sign of apathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:54 PM
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Cut her off, she already decided where her loyalty lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:33 PM
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I think there is definitely something to this. Getting hung up on the clothes part is a waste of time and incidental. truth is, even men of value grade women the way that we grade men and I think that part of FDS we need to stand out as a high value woman without losing focus on what we actually like, so that they can identify us. It has nothing to do with pitting women against each other but more so exposing this information so that women can have it and decide what they want to do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:30 PM
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Who downvoted this? This genuinely seems like good advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:48 PM
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Low value at it’s worst. Positive side note: The boy is thriving and walking perfectly now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 09:16 PM
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right. I don’t know how many times I had this happen to me, but it was obviously required because time and time again I would just go after a guy. whether it be through text or calling him or approaching him in person when it just wasn’t my place to do it and had I known my place, I may have not wasted time and not been hurt ultimately. shy or busy is never an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:55 PM
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YES This guy is awesome, Derrick Jxn. lots of solid input from the male perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 10:10 PM
5

110%. everything you wrote here. it sounds extreme but moving is a completely viable and reasonable option, if like you said, everyone around you seems out to get you. when you know you’re sane. that feeling is a very telling sign that it’s time to build a foundation elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:21 AM
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it’s those people who are often the most unhappy and they laugh real loud for everyone around them to deceive, but trust there’s nothing positive going on inside her at all, if she is how you write her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:16 AM
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I’m glad this corresponded with your decision. I’m sure you made the right choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:14 AM
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True but when I read that, I think he just low-key wanted to date/bang you. some people have really solid connections with their school friends, male and female alike and it seems that they can just be really comfortable with one another, but in general that behavior tells me he was looking for something more. I just myself don’t really understand the psychology behind holding hands and doing all that while being just friends but again I think doing that now as an adult versus when you were in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 04:21 PM
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I think talking to yourself is a completely normal thing. I think the stigma of it is disappearing or at least I don’t notice it because I don’t give a shit if I end up talking myself in public. it’s usually something relevant to what I’m doing, and not incoherent babbling like a sign of psychosis. I too am part of the expressive persuasion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 03:27 PM
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I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 02:46 PM
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Whichever way you like to call it, it’s just about taking care of yourself and loving yourself at the end of the day. I personally believe that we all end up back at square 1 multiple times in life, we just need to take the reins where we can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 02:45 PM
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I like this, very practical observation. I will always maintain that yes, looks are given but personality is key. Doesn’t ever hurt to have a strategy either, does it? This should be solid proof that FDS does good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 02:22 PM
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she clearly said she wants a place where she can post without being bitched at. I think that when you post, you should expect some feedback. That feedback should be uplifting and positive at all times and truthful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 01:34 PM
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Great advice. So many people would make a girl feel crazy or extra for feeling this way but it’s completely valid and can reveal a lot if you stay true to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 03:08 AM
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If I was at the top percent of earners, I probably would go for other top earners, whom would be among my peers. i’m at the process of this making this happen myself, but even at this point where I am now, I would rather a man who makes more, And pretty much for the reasons the commenter above made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:01 PM
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I think that is often the case as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:12 AM
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Right, I guess it really is just depending on who the people are in question. I know many women who seem to have male friends, I just don’t know how they feel about how their male friends may view them, at the end of the day, considering they are men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:11 AM
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Yes, like it seems that spending extra time and talking very often for example would be taking it a step further on their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:47 PM
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I’d like to think that I’d be able to do this with the more mature men in my life. But usually, if we go distant, because of life or whatever, it’s as if we don’t know each other. I try to stay optimistic though, someone that makes me happy should probably be in my life. Some men are so resistant to all the dating strategies like this sub reddit has to offer, even with their female friends. Sometimes it’s hard to tell what they’re really thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:36 PM
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Exactly, they definitely seem to turn at that point, for better or for worse lol, usually worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:29 PM
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Very good point. Some men try to be diplomatic but I’ve seen many “men”completely dismiss any woman they didn’t find physically attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:04 PM
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Yes!! It’s horrible. I completely agree with the commenter who mentioned gatekeeping as well. i’ve noticed that that’s happened to me when a man seems to think that I have a more advanced level of intelligence than he was expecting in a certain area. but he still feels the need to demean me wherever I may lack knowledge. How helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 12:22 PM
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hahaha, thats hilarious, men are pigs overall. it’s true. if we’re opportunistic, then they’re piggish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:15 PM
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Girls today are being brainwashed by all angles, they think it’s cute/hot to be degraded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:12 PM
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All I can say is that it must be the one hallmark of her personality and same, i’m more unenthusiastic than ever about giving head these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:10 PM
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Lmao, I know right? Like how selfless lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:07 PM
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You’re right and I’m usually so careful..smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:07 PM
2

I want to go for a lil road trip to the state next door to get a taser. I love those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:05 PM
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Lol, keep the census takers on their toes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:44 AM
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I might try it but not while shes raggin, the different flavors crack me up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:31 AM
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I could never, personally. Nowadays, I let my period be and would rather wait til after. I just feel so icky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:33 AM
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Exactly, they speak so confidently about the female anatomy. For some women, it’s like you look at them and they just get preggo. Fertile Myrtles for real lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:21 AM
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Agreed. Why share that otherwise? Fishing for LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:14 AM
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Thank you, dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 02:07 AM
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Right, he wants to play so give him something to play with 😜💦 With that girl’s response though, I can’t help wondering, “what are you trying to prove?” Not judging, it just leaves an impression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:46 AM
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Hi there. Yes I know, they’re off to a bad start, being so young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:07 AM
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That is exactly what I was thinking. It makes sense. They all went to an upper class college on the outskirts of the city. I looked different. Probably assumed I was trash. Haha, sorostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 12:09 AM
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A lack of response to certain stimuli. for example, if something that’s almost universally funny or sad that a group of people are watching on TV and react as such to it, that one person isn’t reacting at all.. they could have a selective sense of humor or thick skin...or they could be monitoring other people’s reactions, so as to mirror them to suit their needs when the time comes. Confidence is transparent. There’s something about them that you can see right through, however they have an air o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 10:38 PM
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I can’t mess around with a married man. As if my queendom won’t allow it. It can tell that doing that is picking up on some serious pick me vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 01:23 PM
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Excited to join this sub and live my best lifee ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:10 PM
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110% Say it louder, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 01:34 PM
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