I’m trying to understand and make myself feel comfortable with my boyfriend but I need advice. My boyfriend isn’t big on giving affection. And I understand how he feels and I don’t want to push him. I just want to understand how I can handle the situation. Lately I’ve been trying to kiss and give him my affection but it just ends up making me feel shitty. He doesn’t kiss me and he will only show show affection when I’m upset with him about something. And even that he doesn’t kiss me. Is it so bad to want affection? What do I do ? I communicated with him about it and he says he’s not big on affection but we’ve dated in the past and there was a lot of affection then.