Has anyone here shed a massive amount of weight? I need to lose a lot, currently in the morbidly obese category. I'm ready. I want to be a higher value woman. My weight has been tied to almost every negative thing that's happened to me in my 28 years. While I do believe one can be fat and happy, that's not me.

The point I'm getting to is: has anyone done this and then dated? I'm curious about timings and things like that. Also how to tackle talking about it in the OLD world. Or even better, real life dating world, as I hate OLD.