Hey, bisexual women or women who are experimenting with their own sexuality, I'm talking about YOUR past relationships. Your meaningful, important past relationships with women you have loved, respect or had feelings for. If you ever bring up your previous relationship with women and he sexualises you or your sexual preferences, especially when specifically makes remarks about injecting himself into his ideas of the "bisexual unicorn that will let me fuck her and her hot side girlfriend" fantasy, I can't stress this enough but DUMP HIM.
He is hoping you bring your sexuality into the relationship while he provides nothing to the table. You are NOT his sex puppet. Don't be ashamed to bring it up to see how he reacts. Men that respect women will treat it exactly the same as a woman/male relationship, non-sexists will place the value of two women being together and treat it seriously. Sexists will immediately fetishize your relationships because they don't see the value of female/female relationships unless it plays into his sexual fantasies.
You are NOT a sexual object, your former relationships arent a sexual object, you should never degrade yourself, or your past lovers over someone that disregards female relationships because it makes his "peepee hurd". You are all women that need respect, you are both people. Don't allow men to look at you as a sexual object. I understand it might be hot to imagine a woman you like making out with another woman if your head is in porno land, but trust me, a lot of women aren't getting lady boners over their boyfriends making out with another hot man or would want that to happen.
Another red flag is if men don't see you kissing, developing feelings or having sex with another woman as cheating. That means he isn't looking at you both as individuals, rather, he is placing you as an object. Try kissing or having sex with another man, let's see how hot he gets thinking of you going down a hot guys dick that isn't his. Yeah, not so happy now right?
TLDR: Dump him if he sexualises female/female relationships, it is the ultimate mark of a sexist, because he places women below men. You deserve better than that.
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