Ex-Girlfriend Pregnant....

Rosace_89 · 2018-11-30T09:03:12+00:00

the efficiency of the pill is fucking high, even when you missuse it

she lied

HurricaneHugues · 2018-11-30T10:00:43+00:00

babynames.com

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-11-30T13:23:17+00:00

Help.

A. You are a moron.

B. Your girlfriend LIED about being on BC.

C. She wants to keep the baby, she gets to keep the baby.

D. Happy father's day.

Emerald__Faith · 2018-11-30T16:26:48+00:00

She was on birth control and I believe it

fucking lol

richi0003 · 2018-11-30T09:03:51+00:00

I really dont know what the point of your post is honestly, you got ur ex preggo and now she dont wanna leggo of the baby. All I can give you is advice for the future: don't fuck someone without a condom unless its your LTR.

BusterVadge · 2018-11-30T14:12:17+00:00

We've previously had an abortion. She doesn't want to get one now. I would like to get an abortion again.

This lands squarely on you being irresponsible.

Bruchibre · 2018-11-30T09:11:45+00:00

How old are you two? How does she see the future? Is she ready to be a single mum? Are you ready to move back to US?

I know à British guy who lives abroad. His ex got pregnant, he didn’t want to keep the baby, she did, she didn’t ask him for anything she’s dealing with the kid alone. He visits her like once a year I think.

astrogatorjones · 2018-11-30T10:15:39+00:00

Hey man, this is a fucked situation for sure. You will get trough it though.

I just wanna say, since you want the abortion and she doesn’t, be real careful and thoughtful about your words and actions right now. If she ends up having the baby she may end up using everything you said and done against you, either to get custody or to make your kid hate you.

I think in the end it will probably be her decision so think real hard about what you can control to make your life better.

trpppp123 · 2018-11-30T13:01:31+00:00

This is exactly why you don't trust women with birth control and you use condoms every single time.

Sucks to hear about your situation. I don't think there's much you can do if she doesn't want the abortion. Get a paternity test for sure, and hope it's not yours.

Grantevans1987 · 2018-11-30T13:27:11+00:00

Might seem like an odd question but why did you fly back too the U.s?

We’re you in touch with her before you went back?

jtzabor · 2018-11-30T13:32:26+00:00

try the Tom Lycus Hail Mary?

Peter_B_Long · 2018-12-01T00:22:35+00:00

If she does have the kid, make sure that you get a paternity test.

In fact, mention it now. Say that you are going to get a paternity test before you ever sign anything. If she agrees, then that means that she didn't get cream-pied by other dudes. If she fights it, that means she's unsure who the baby daddy is.

She might even confess that the baby might not even be yours.

Some girls will tell you they're pregnant so you'll think it's "ok" to have unprotected sex, and then get pregnant for reals, so be careful with that. If you fuck her again put a condom on and just say that your dick has been really sensitive or that it's less messy.

I would like to get an abortion again.

Have you told her this? A women going through an abortion is some fucked up shit. I can't imaging someone going through that shit twice.

Anti-biotics counteract birth control. There's a high chance that she knew about it but didn't tell you. That is how my LTR got pregnant. She claims that she "overthought" it.

You need to figure out soon what you want to do. Do you want to move in with her and try to make it work for the kids sake? Do you want to be in the kids life?

Whatever choice you decide to do, stick to it. If you want to be together as a family, commit 100% to it. This was a mistake that I made when I first found out my LTR was pregnant. I wanted to keep 1 foot on the exit door, but it's no possible. You're in or you're out.

If you decide that you don't want to cohabitate, talk to a lawyer and start setting up custody (if you want it) and start reviewing your finances.

If you are going to stay with your family, come introduce yourself on MarriedRP.

friendandadvisor · 2018-12-01T00:25:11+00:00

Since it's 'we've had an abortion', go ahead and say 'we're pregnant." You know that you want to, anyway.

Giga_Caligula · 2018-11-30T08:46:21+00:00

you sure its yours?

Title	Ex-Girlfriend Pregnant....
Author	laughing_irelia
Upvotes	1
Comments	45
Date	November 30, 2018 8:44 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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