Defining the Relationship

level_up_always · 2020-02-07T03:43:36+00:00

If you have to ask he's not that into you, so no never do it. Keep dating others until they try to lock you down

2020-02-07T03:59:23+00:00

Don't lock yourself down with a dude who isn't bothered about you dating other people.

2020-02-07T04:09:04+00:00

No. Sherry Argov wrote:

Your power gets lost the minute you start asking, ”Where do I stand?” Because what you’ve just told him is that the terms of the relationship are now his to dictate.

IIRC, her book is recommended in the FDS wiki.

CyanCayenne · 2020-02-07T07:02:28+00:00

I just have to say you ladies are a gold mine. It makes so much freaking sense once you hear this advice, but it's just not the way we were all socialized growing up.

bearded_dragonlady · 2020-02-07T06:15:20+00:00

No, you maintain a rotation of men and give potentials 2-3 months to ask for commitment. If they do not, cut them off.

AfraidofFollowers · 2020-02-07T03:05:40+00:00

Single until engaged or at least until you’ve thoroughly vetted him. Don’t clarify, keep the dating rotation until he brings it up.

These are my goals.

yumiia · 2020-02-07T04:12:54+00:00

Read the guidebook

Title	Defining the Relationship
Author	Pearl656
Upvotes	23
Comments	8
Date	February 7, 2020 2:08 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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