Man tries to normalize the fact LVM are opportunistic by calling it "human nature".

SaltCupcake · 2020-01-02T00:05:01+00:00

“It’s not as common as you may think” well sir, field report says otherwise. Just look at relationship advice subreddits or the tales women say here and it proves otherwise. Men will say anything to sleep with you.

hilariouslystated · 2020-01-02T00:41:42+00:00

"It's not as common as you may think" yet so many different women have the same story about men.

PrettyCicada · 2020-01-02T01:05:18+00:00

It's not human nature, it's male nature. The only difference between an average man and an outright sociopath is that the average man occasionally feels the slightest twinge of remorse after he manipulates and screws over a woman.

Make_Woebegone · 2020-01-02T02:31:38+00:00

You know that when people will use "economy" and evopsych crap ("it's innate, it's unconscious!!!! ") that they will deresponsabilize men and downplay their abusive behavior.

Always.

I think it's also lowkey derailing, economics and "nature" don't change the fact that human are VERY aware of what they are doing. We are aware of rules, laws, we understand body language, and if we lie, it is also done with conscious free will.

And human nature is a wide concept, which includes the fact that we are both influenced by culture and have a relative autonomy. It's interesting that this dude left the free will part out of his answer... Even tho it is also part of human nature... Hmmm....

I never understood why people would suddenly mention the ideology behind economy or évolution, thinking it is a good argument.

Imagine you are criminal and the only defense you will have is "what I did is human nature"... Lmao. Derailling nonsense.

9penguin · 2020-01-02T10:02:35+00:00

Everything they do is 'nature' or 'biology' everything we do is proof we're evil or inferior. The gaslighting and narcissism and victim blame is too real.

YgirlYB · 2020-01-02T08:19:35+00:00

Is it just me, or does that part 'from a guy's perspective' always read as an excuse? As in, well, it's just my nature, you women take responsibility and I won't.

Now, change that to 'from a woman's perspective, I want the hottest, richest guy I can get' and watch them call us evil and manipulative and how we have to learn to change that.

BasieSkanks · 2020-01-02T14:33:55+00:00

Men love to point to blame evolution for their shitty behaviour towards women, but don’t expend that same energy when women prefer to date better looking, richer men. We’re called “shallow” and “materialistic” for wanting a guy we find attractive and who has resources.

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Title	Man tries to normalize the fact LVM are opportunistic by calling it "human nature".
Author	NecessaryCook
Upvotes	37
Comments	9
Date	January 1, 2020 11:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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