Im 28 and I literally stumbled on this sub a few days ago and my life is changed! Reading a lot of the threads and side bar stuff I definitely have been an extreme pick me in the past , developed my queendom and allowed it to slowly be twisted back in to pick me by a LVM for 2 years. Now, Im back on my Queen behavior because I know better! Lots of unlearning to do but it feels so good to be back!