I'm flexibile with my time and he is not, he's working a lot (great job). So I usually go with his time, for now. It's been over one month.

We almost had sex. But we didn't as I was on my period. He did not get bj as I won't do the work for nothing.

How to pump breaks? This sub says no sex until he commits. But also that I can't ask for commitement. Now how do I tell him I'm not ready to have sex yet until he commits? Should I just tell him? He might think we're already exclusive. I have to let him know but I feel like I'm in a strange situation. And my intentions aren't clear either.