So I‘ve noticed that men as a group contradict what they say a lot. I thought we could come up with a list to spread awareness. There are four things that come to mind:

  1. men say that they are simple creatures and they all just want sex and food. then turn around and claim that women are conformists and have a hive mind. they dismiss typical feminine interests as silly and inferior.

  2. they claim that women are manipulative yet they have a ton of media dedicated to coercing and guilting women into sex. they use abusive tactics like negging, gaslighting and stalking.

  3. many men use their girlfriends for money. they keep a girlfriend for years without proposing. they drain her financially, physically and emotionally. these girlfriends come up with thoughtful expensive gifts while they get nothing in return.

  4. now regarding hypergamy, there have been studies that prove that most men message the top 20% of women (looks). they encourage other men to date above their league using money (they only hate gold diggers when they can’t afford them) and old creeps like to harass much younger women out of their league. when the watch porn, they choose women who are way more attractive than them. when you look at sex dolls they all look like a 10.

so how is it women who are hypergamous? despite the average man being ugly, women are willing to date him. the same okcupid study that the ugly manbaby community aka the manosphere uses explicitly states that. women are willing to date below in looks but men overestimate their looks and go for women who are too attractive then dare to complain.