Current LTR is suicidal/depressed

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-12-02T11:15:32+00:00

If she's actually threatened suicide then call the police and have her hospitalized. They have to act and she will go to a hospital for 3 days, which is time you can take to set up support from her family and move on.

You need to get away from this toxic person and situation ASAP. She's only going to drag you down with her mental illness.

CharlesChadworth · 2018-12-02T09:50:43+00:00

Brah this is beyond you now. She needs help, and she needs it quick. Tell her parents/family that she needs to get checked in to see a psychiatrist. It shouldn't be on you to take care of someone in this condition.

MisplacedSanityP · 2018-12-02T08:18:42+00:00

Be a fucking man. This is so sad. Right now, all that's hurting your progression is yourself, don't put it off on her. It's because of your decisions. Ghost her and if she does kill herself, it's on her.

JinSantosAndria · 2018-12-02T11:19:50+00:00

You have two paths: One to be responsible for and fear any step she does and tries to harm herself. Another one to call authorities and her parents and do you best to prevent the worst from happening. Last one also requires you to leave this LTR because nothing good comes from the past and she was never your obligation.

Honestly, I would recommend the second path. It respects everyone and is pro-active. The other one will lead to nothing, not even a cure.

Velebit · 2018-12-02T14:29:13+00:00

People who are genuinely suicidal don't use that as an attention magnet. She is just bloodsucking you because you are soft.

4thAndLong · 2018-12-02T16:20:18+00:00

Call the police and have her hospitalized.

You need to get out. You have no obligation to be with her or be around the situation. You have your own mission in life. Find a partner who will help you achieve your mission and add positive things in your life.

TheBadGoy · 2018-12-02T21:08:35+00:00

If her man can't make her not depressed, then it's time to leave. It's on her now

CanYouEvenCount · 2018-12-02T09:56:35+00:00

Put her in the right direction I.e give her suicide preventions number and a counsellors number (I would send this over email or a text so you have a paper trail of the worst happens). But I would also end the relationship don’t let people drag you down.

YslJames · 2018-12-02T16:27:51+00:00

Just off the title next her

surrealmermaid · 2018-12-02T16:35:18+00:00

You’ve most definitely lost a lot for this relationship. You have to sit back and think.. “is it worth it?” This chick has only been with you for a few months. Did you know her before? Regardless, I don’t think anyone is worth losing yourself over. Yes, she needs help. Her living is important, but you obviously are struggling too. Your life is important too. We weren’t created to be a doormat to anyone. So make a decision and decide if you love yourself more than anyone else. And in this case, I hope the answer is yes. Bc you deserve to be happy too.

friendandadvisor · 2018-12-02T22:13:22+00:00

You'd better call her parents/family and advise them that you are going to break up with her and you fear for her safety.

You don't seriously think that things will get better, do you?

SlappaDaBayssMon · 2018-12-02T23:51:27+00:00

I don't see how everybody is so cold about this.

She's your LTR, not a plate or a ONS. You clearly care for her. Your life is clearly negatively affected by this, as well.

How much do you need to do in order to feel okay about leaving?

Or

What needs to happen for you to feel okay about staying?

_quote · 2018-12-02T16:18:40+00:00

Dump her ass. If you started whining about depression and suicide, do you think that she would stay with you? It's obvious that she's weaponizing her depression against you instead of doing something about it.

magx01 · 2018-12-02T12:00:27+00:00

No she's not. When are guys going to learn it's all manipulation with them?

Title	Current LTR is suicidal/depressed
Author	malekye
Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	December 2, 2018 7:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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