You gals are awesome and I've learned so much since discovering this sub several days ago.

This is basic stuff for y'all, but it's a new epiphany for me. My last relationship involved me driving two hours for my date.

What was I thinking?! Sometimes he'd be sleeping or not even there (ended up running last minute errands). I was a FOOL.

Never again. If they want me, they know where I am.

Especially with winter now, what kind of scruff is going to have his woman drive in the cold and dark while he is cozy at home? Hell nah.

I'm wising up.