How do you deal with naturally lacking femininity?

jujuda12 · 2019-11-02T13:27:25+00:00

You'd be shocked to know how many women who fit your very description are married with children.

No. You don't have to look like this girl to find someone.

There are ways to look the best you can without having to compromise who you are.

But instead of focusing on women who look nothing like you, start looking at women who are very much like you and are rocking their stuff.

They are out there.

Google that stuff. Fashion for long torso. Etc.

alluringjustice · 2019-11-02T16:55:39+00:00

Pick the right clothing for your body type, the right hair for your head shape, learn some make-up skills to 'soften' your facial features. Red lipstick always makes me feel like a goddess. Femininity is 50% appearance, 50% how you act and that is something you have control over.

And a completely 'perfect' looking person isn't something to strive for. First because its usually impossible to achieve and you'll drive yourself crazy trying to get there. And second because weird little unique parts of your appearance give you character and make you much more appealing to the right people

Lucretia123 · 2019-11-04T07:55:48+00:00

The girl your talking about will suffer sexual harassment until she is dead.

She will never know if a guy actually likes her for who she is, because, guys just want her for her looks and body.

And she will be trapped by this shit.

Women won't employ her. People will make up rumours about her.

Don't envy this poor girl. She will be sexualized for ever.

Sangriasyra · 2019-11-05T11:37:13+00:00

Honestly, you can look like a swamp monster and find someone. Do what makes you confident. If that means not doing anything towards your appearance, then right on. And if that means dolling yourself to the nine's then that's cool too. What really matters is confidence. When I was bartending at a strip club the woman who made the most $ was over 200 LBS and wasn't "Mainstream attractive". Her attitude and confidence is a good chunk of how she got that $. If you are hustling with that attitude and confidence it is intoxicating and anyone would fall for you. Its been my experience that when I looked at leveling up myself than looking at others that I got more attention. So start walking like you know what you are packing and just do you.

MonkeyMoney21 · 2019-11-02T22:02:01+00:00

There's no such thing as an unattractive woman, only a lazy one. Figure out the tings that make you look better that you actually do not mind doing- I love how soft my face feels after I go over it with a razor, I love how my sheets feel against my legs when I am done shaving them, I love pretending I'm in a movie when I'm applying lip gloss. Focusing on how you personally feel when partaking in grooming- even letting it turn you on- will let you feel and thus act more feminine.

Men are shallow but they're not that thoughtful, I promise the way you flip your hair will be more noticed than the width of your shoulders.

2019-11-02T14:16:49+00:00

Femininity is as much about behavior and mannerisms as it is about appearance. A feminine appearance can attract a man, but if she acts masculine he will be repelled.

You may only have a certain amount of control over how you look, but you can completely change how you act. There are a number of books about being more feminine.

Title	How do you deal with naturally lacking femininity?
Author	twopeas3296
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	November 2, 2019 11:50 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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