Hi all! I’ve been dating this girl since pre quarantine (still relatively new) and the past week she’s been pretty aloof to me for some reason. Delayed texts, not as much effort put in, etc. This is usually a girl who texts with a lot of emojis and energy. She also called me out for losing interest in her this week. We booked a date for tonight but she took 3-4 hours to reply to each message which is frustrating and now I wish I soft nexted her instead of asking her out

I’d like to bring it up to her/call her out tonight, but I want to in a way that doesn’t sound needy. Is this possible? Is it possible to call a girl out on her games? Or is soft nexting the best action here?

Edit: she’s mentioned to me before that she has certain “expectations” for the future that I can’t just Snapchat her all the time and not Text her. (Which is what I mostly do) so now the one time I go and text her she makes me wait all this time? Seems like a bad reward to me lol

Any help is really appreciated