So I have this old plate that I’ve been fooling around with on and off for about a year now. After about 3 months of not seeing her because I was on deployment I hit her up to come over and chill.

Normally we would be fucking like rabbits when we hangout however, this last weekend (my first weekend back) and the last 2 times I’ve seen her prior to leaving the states she has been withholding sex but still willingly wanting to hang out and fool around just no sex.

I was thinking about hitting her up again this weekend to chill and try to escalate again however I’m not sure if that’s the best thing to do in this scenario. Would it be best to soft-next or maybe pursue one more time and if things don’t work out they don’t work out. This plate may very well be broken and that’s okay. Any advice on how to handle this is appreciated!