I ( many of you as well, If I had to guess) am working towards making a good income, but there's one thought that's always at the back of my mind - would that even be a positive thing when it comes to women? Obviously, having money and the freedom that it gives you makes it worth it enough already, so I'm not gonna stop working towards becoming financially independent... but is it possibly detrimental when it comes to women?

In a way, anything other than your inner "game" to me feels like hamstering.

"I can't approach this girl because I don't have enough muscles"

"She probably wouldn't date me because I don't have clothes that fit me" and so on and on. They all just seem like excuses.

I am by no means saying that getting bigger, more sharply dressed etc doesn't increase your chances to score, but at what point is it part of your personality / game, and at what point is it just a tool? Buying things in the short term could potentially help you get a girl, but that's a stupid strategy if you want the girl to like you, and not your assets.

I have no doubts that the money or at least the illusion of money can "help" get women in the short term, but I wouldn't be getting them in the way I want them to. How would I know they are attracted to me, and not my money?

There could potentially be an upside as well if you are looking for just sex and don't care what the girl thinks of you, for example, acting all Beta, but with some twisty ultimatums in there like "I only seriously date girls who fuck me on the 1st/2nd date" or whatever. She could comply for the long term gain in her mind, and if she does - pump & dump her eventually when she understands that you won't actually commit and move on to the next ones.

Perception might not be reality, but it has real effects. I might be an "alpha chad" , but if I have a lot of money, the girl will almost undoubtly utilize a Beta Bux strategy even if I would have good game as well, thus - making me wait, have more resistance If I'd have to guess and so on. If a girl saw an attractive guy who has his life together and has a lot of money, why would she utilize Alpha fux game? She wouldn't want to be seen as a slut, and she would probably be hiding her true nature, it only makes sense.

So my solution would be not to reveal my cards (my income), because that would be giving her not only an invitation to use a Beta Bux strategy , but give her power in general. At the same time, I don't see how it's possible to "hide" how much you make either - If you are jacked, wear the freshest clothes, eat at the chillest restaurants, hang out with the hottest dudes and you have a nice ass fucking house or an apartment, how do you hide that? Do you like... not live at your fucking house at that point?

Would like to see your thoughts on the topic!

TL:DR Since women use a different strategy for guys with resources (Beta Bux) even if you have good game, how do you hide your assets to make the girl like YOU, and not your assets?

Edit : Search - "Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil." on the main sub. Might help to illustrate some of my points even better.