How do you correctly show abundance?

PurpleRespect · 2018-12-13T16:26:33+00:00

7 days is a year in woman-time.

Here's a little tip. I ignored a girl for 5 months. She would periodically text, call or email me. When you're attractive acting "too busy" will just make her work harder- but don't force it! Don't get in the habit of pushing them away like that if you force it. Just have a life.

DeatCoreBoy1 · 2018-12-13T18:40:51+00:00

Buddy... check RSDMax on youtube....

Also, don't set up dates 7 days in the future. Max would be 3 days and you have to create tension and expectative. Like telling her to wear something specific or bring something to the date, and when she asks why, tell "You'll see". Also, you can text her funny not-needy text to keep her noticing you.

Check RSDMax and you'll see bro.

vandaalen · 2018-12-13T16:11:37+00:00

Too little attraction. Keep working on yourself.

Seif55 · 2018-12-13T19:39:46+00:00

a date in 7 days ? bro thats too far.... Gotta hit the iron while its hot !

ramokaly · 2018-12-13T16:45:17+00:00

Ideally you need to HAVE abundance. But 99.999% of guys don’t really have the abundance they claim to have.

Remember you shouldn’t be TOO available. But you need to be available and reliable. Meaning if you take hours to reply all the time and text only for logistics like an autist, it won’t work for you. People will see through your bullshit and will just give up on you.

The trick here is to deny some of their requests and take long to return some of their texts every once in a while because you are “busy” at that point of time.

What you are essentially trying to do is to give them a taste of what you could offer them withdraw to create some space and let them fill it. If you act like you are permanently busy, people will just drop you.

helterskelter1988 · 2018-12-13T16:14:05+00:00

These things have to come naturally. You need to have real abundance to not care. You need to be busy in order to take hours to reply.

AshyLarry27 · 2018-12-13T19:35:37+00:00

Abundance doesn't just create attraction, it typically SUPPLEMENTS it. A lot of TRP success comes in waves, from momentum. It's easier to have abundance mentality when you . . . well . . . actually HAVE abundance. Hitting on girls and acquiring plates. If there was no real attraction in the first place, she probably just gave you a number, or somewhere things fizzled out with how you guys talked/texted. Text game also is a part of the equation. When setting up logistics, open up a text with an inside joke from the interaction. Play along with it, then set up logistics.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-12-13T16:13:21+00:00

Try striking quicker, seven days is forever, plenty of time for them to flake. Set the first date for 1-2 days in the future.

Ansec · 2018-12-14T16:47:32+00:00

Here's what you do. You actually fill your schedule with shit that helps you progress on your goals. Then when you get texts, respond when you can. Don't artificially wait hours to reply. That's stupid. Send something funny every couple days if your date is far away to keep her interest. If she texts and you can respond right away, then do it. She's on her phone and you can hold a conversation for a bit. Stay flirty and tease her.

Title	How do you correctly show abundance?
Author	boredathome19
Upvotes	9
Comments	20
Date	December 13, 2018 4:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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