Let’s discuss the friendzone

Puddles503 · 2018-12-18T03:57:07+00:00

If you are in the "friendzone" you are basically viewed as undatable or unfuckible unless desperation strikes.

If you get a crumb thrown your way after entering the friendzone you arn't getting out...she's wants some sort of attention.

And yes girls (particularly the lame kind) keep around a few or a lot of friend zoned men.

Talinor09 · 2018-12-18T03:59:19+00:00

It all depends on YOU.

Personally i’ve actually wanted to be in the friend-zone with certain girls/flings who I found really cool, were attractive but just didn’t quite do it for me.

It’s great having hot female friends. You get social proof, access to events/parties and their social circle.

Where it’s not great is if you have any form of attachment/jealousy or oneitis. If you have any of this then cut them.

You literally shouldn’t care if another dude fucks them and they shouldn’t be too invested in you as this just creates drama when you do vice versa.

bigflame123 · 2018-12-18T05:46:31+00:00

The friend zone is when you're not attractive enough for her to want to fuck you but offer a lot of comfort, so she keeps you around for that.

1- Do girls really string you along for validation...

Some do.

...even tho they would’ve fucked you if you didn’t allow yourself to enter the friendzone?

They weren't ever going to fuck you. You're not attractive enough to them.

2-A girl I was friends with tried to kiss me one time, did this mean I got out of the friendzone?

No, but being friends with a girl doesn't mean you're in the friend zone.

3-We all know the best way to deal with LJBF is to cut contact and focus on yourself but would you stick around for social proof or to get introduced to other girls who are friends with the girl who LJBF’ed you?

You shouldn't.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2018-12-18T05:32:15+00:00

Some will keep you around for validation, if they are crazy, self centered, insecure women...

Some will just cut you, cuz they think they're hot shit, or too busy chasing some dude...

The most important thing, is what YOU want. If you want to be friends for whatever reason...ok...if not, don't feed it and cut contact.

THEMIDLANDMAN · 2018-12-18T09:17:48+00:00

The only female friend you should have is your friends wives/girlfriends.

Unless these women are doing anything for you, inviting you to social events or introducing you to other women.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-12-18T10:55:23+00:00

Yes.

Yes, although if it was just a kiss and she was drunk then it might have just been an impulse. Full out makeout session is different.

Yes. Too many guys toss girls aside when they can be great for social proof and friends.

Title	Let’s discuss the friendzone
Author	bigflame123
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	December 18, 2018 3:40 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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