Just realized she’s BPD

Rkingpin · 2018-12-20T15:44:01+00:00

Be happy she hasn't filed false accusations, or is pregnant by you

scanfan2022 · 2018-12-20T17:28:27+00:00

Proceed cautiously my friend...

I got to experience a two month relationship with a woman who has a personality disorder (likely BPD or variant) recently. Same behavior as your post OP.

Hot and heavy in the beginning, she wanted me bad, wanted exclusively, and relationship status. I was hesitant, but slowly relented once she asked me for a relationship a few times.

Her entire demeanor and outward behavior changed rapidly after this. Once I brought her around my family and friends her mask came off. Mood swings, crying spells, passive aggressive behavior, avoidance, shit tests were off the charts, talking about marrying me/ then disinterest, etc.

I broke it off when she ghosted me for a weekend and lied about losing her phone (Snapchat story doesn't lie).

I learned alot, but the risk isn't worth it.

ShotgunTRP · 2018-12-20T15:44:41+00:00

If you want to bang her you have to ignore her and she will come back

Do not ltr

BuckNekkid18 · 2018-12-20T16:03:45+00:00

You're being way too needy. Soft next her for 2 weeks. If she doesn't contact you in that time period then hard next her and move on. Spin some plates and get some abundance please.

BPasFuck · 2018-12-20T19:11:41+00:00

Don't kid yourself about plating her.

I mean-- maybe you can. Maybe you're some kind of a wizard natural at this shit.

But I doubt it.

The fact you're here, quizzing about some obvious shit after sending her the text vomit you've already sent her.... yeah, not a wizard natural.

What's going to happen, is that you'll tell yourself you're just keeping her a plate, and you're just there for the sex, while all the while-- she's getting ready to fuck you up some more.

I'm talking 'accidental' pregnancy. False abuse charges. Getting the police on your ass. Getting you kicked out of university.

All kinds of crazy shit will be in the realm of possibility because right now you're playing with fire, and lying to yourself about your ability to handle it.

Little brother-- my advice to you is to just dump her. Cold, clean and righteous. Move on to some other girls. There's billions of 'em out there that fuck just as good, without the crazy.

You have no idea how vicious her jihad will be on you, if you try and play her out as a plate, after this episode.

light-----------dark · 2018-12-20T19:30:18+00:00

Never double text, yo

MartinVDK91 · 2018-12-20T20:32:12+00:00

Run for the hills my friend.

sonnydanger · 2018-12-21T05:06:16+00:00

I would honestly shoot myself in the leg than to be with a BPD girl. Its a living hell, get out of there as soon as you can or else you will end up in a situation you will 100% regret deeply.

Dreams_of_Conquest · 2018-12-21T13:44:22+00:00

TIL my ltr might be bpd

Title	Just realized she’s BPD
Author	jakethesnake5000
Upvotes	5
Comments	33
Date	December 20, 2018 3:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/a7z0va/just_realized_shes_bpd/
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