If you got the time, I'd appreciate if you'd read through this all.
I have a guy friend, he told me one of his friends needed help with something that was in my expertise and he linked us up. Next thing I know she's an 8 hottie. I've never met her at this point. So I proceed to help her with it and was done with it, didn't think twice about it. Helped her only because of my friend and I had not planned to be an orbiter. I texted her later as a follow up relating to the matter which I helped her with, to see how it went.
It was a very friendly conversation and when I was done and ready to say good bye, she started initiating another subject.
Long story short, I'm not really a texter but she and I stayed up until 6am texting. She was shit testing over text and teasing heavily, I believe I'd passed them. We had a very nice conversation and honestly I didn't mind staying up cause I had nothing better to do.
Some of the stuff she said by the end of that night:
"I usually don't have a creeper texting me left and right" she said playfully. "I sometimes like to creep on strangers online" I replied.
"Why don't you go creep on someone else" she said "Today is your turn" I replied.
Here comes the big one:
"You'd actually make a not so bad friend, but only if you promise not to hit on me" to which I replied "I will hit on you" very plainly and serious.
And after a while, she straight up asked me "Why are you so obsessed with me" Which I honestly didn't have a playful response so I just said something silly like "you're obsessed with me"
Overall there was heavy teases from me and her and very flirtatious, I'd like to believe we both had fun.
I thought she was cool so I wanted to ask her out. 2 days later I texted her to set logistics, She playfully said "She's not the meet and greet type". But she then started another conversation, something else that was also very teasing.
After a while I don't know if she was being serious or not, but she goes on about "you're really a rude person, with that vile attitude which isn't worth replying to btw, but since I'm nice I will reply, you see yourself above everyone else and that is only because you're really not shit in real life." (She said all this instantly after I texted her, she wasn't ignoring me or anything, I thought wHy dO yOu keEp TeXtnG mE? -Why do you keep replying)
I wasn't sure if she's really mad at me or just teasing, I took the straight-forward route:
I said, "Look I'm not looking for a penpal, If you seriously think I'm a horrible person, tell me so and this shall me the last text you'll ever receive from me. Otherwise I wanna meet you."
She said "You're not horrible, you're and awful person with horrible attitude. Why are you making things complicated?" I said "How's this complicated? I like you and would like to know you better in real life. If we're only gonna text, it would be a waste of time if it leads to nothing.
She seemed intrigued but we didn't really set a date. She said something tho, she said don't you ever talk about me when you're with your friend (the guy who set us up) I said why, she said non of your business, all I'm saying is that he says he doesn't care but he does and he's sensitive. Then when I looked through my friends Instagram profile he had picture with her, from 1.5 years ago. Seemed like they were dating before I met either of them but doesn't seem like they're dating now. Nothing on her page.
I was planning to ask her out one more time and if she wouldn't set a date I planned to just ghost her. But now it seems like I could be getting into a drama.
Thoughts?
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