I’m about to be a sophomore in College. For the last couple of years, I’ve focused on chasing the “perfect” woman. I have dated 3 HB 8-9’s, but that’s about it. The reason for doing this was because I believed that i just needed to find one really hot woman to be with, so I developed oneitis for these girls. I’m still a virgin because I was waiting until marriage. The last relationship I had, the girl ghosted me, and I was devastated. Thankfully, I found this community and have been bettering myself—so i have her to thank. I’ve read “no more mr. nice guy” and “the rational male” as well. Now to my question: is it okay if I don’t pursue any women AT ALL for a couple of years, or would that be a “buffer” as Rollo Tommassi says in the Rational Male? Thanks to the redpill, I know that I’m not going to peak in SMV for another 15 years or so, so I don’t have to rush to settle down. Part of me wants to just focus on my character and education, but another part of me feels like I’m just trying to protect my ego from rejection and that I should game while simultaneously focusing on myself. Would I be a pussy by not trying? Thanks guys!