Women have made "nice guys" the villain, and its hilarious to me.

CertainCrow1 · 2020-07-22T20:37:23+00:00

To be fair in theory at least nice guys are supposed to be the type that flip the switch from kissing their ass to oh you rejected me well you're an ugly white anyways. I find if you browse that Reddit you'll find some of those mixed in with genuine dudes that are maybe just laying it on a little thick and aren't the best looking. Some posts I've felt sorry for the dude cause he seemed really sincere

bieberblows · 2020-07-22T23:05:07+00:00

The nicer you are too women then the more they hate you. Nice guys are somewhat part of the blame. They put women on pedestals so women have no choice but to look down on them.

Notice how their druggie drunk boyfriend treats them like shit. Women will go on about how good looking he is and defend their man while their man punches their heads in. The nice guy gets dirty looks and has to hear from her about her Chad and how he is an asshole. Nice guys also hear about how she screwed everyone but him from other people.

I admit I'm cold to women. I don't help them or anyone unless it's an emergency. Why bother? Deep down they won't appreciate it and you will be dead to them once they get what they want from you. If you try to get in contact with them then they are "too busy". But yet they aren't too busy for social media or their phone apps. Take the hint. You are low priority to them.

Go your own way.

AncientMGTOWWISDOM · 2020-07-22T21:02:22+00:00

basically women are monsters

FeedMeMore22778534 · 2020-07-22T20:33:32+00:00

It’s kinda like how NFL/NBA players hate white people, like dude WE MADE YOU

MigPOW · 2020-07-23T00:09:18+00:00

Nice guys are the equivalent of an ugly woman who thinks that a good job makes her more attractive because, to a woman, a man with a good job is somewhat more attractive.

Women want a man that other women would want and they'll do just about anything to get one, including being abused by one. They mostly don't even know what other women really want, so they basically find a guy who looks good enough to them, then parade him around to their friends to get approval or disapproval and proceed accordingly

They quickly learn that nice guys are nice because no woman wants them. That's the opposite of a guy other woman would want and that makes him an instant turn off. When you are a nice guy, you are advertising your own worthlessness, not that most women can't see that you are ugly.

The problem is that for an ugly guy, all women are turned off by them, so being nice is the only thing that gets them any attention at all. They don't realize that the attention is from women who want to use them.

And some women tend to float around using guys in between Chads. As they get older, or develop problems, the Chads stop coming and so the woman just settles for a guy she can use and sticks around with him but doesn't really like him very much. They'll put on an act like they do and this is why men think she can turn her feelings off like a switch. No, she actually can't, but she can turn the act off like a switch.

BetelgeuseDeux · 2020-07-23T00:20:53+00:00

They shit on nice guys in their twenties. Then they go "where are all the good men?" in their thirties. Women are a meme gender.

2020-07-23T02:13:58+00:00

I’ve always said this but, women ruin “good” men. Whether it takes them 1 year, 10 years, at the age of 16 or 46. Eventually a good man will crack and crumble, and either end up here or a similar variation.

It’s unfortunate, I’m sure a lot of us here had visions of grandeur, whether it was a forever companion or a family. Eventually one has to wake up from the dream, and taste reality. Hopefully without losing too much, mostly themselves. It’s a cruel world.

PrestigiousGreen3 · 2020-07-22T21:30:48+00:00

It's called hybristophelia. And awalt.

idcawom · 2020-07-22T23:42:08+00:00

It's the same with how women screech about PUAs all the day, being angry and calling them misogynist, while never addressing Chads and do you know why?

They fear, that the not so attractive, dorky, beta men could employ some manipulation tactics, Chads use all the time. They fear that they are stuck with betas, playing the part of alphas and once they fuck, some beta characteristics show again.

PUAs are literally failed, unattractive wannabe-Chads, while Chads attain their dominance and naturally and women don't want to fuck them and feel disgusted about that.

You're a Chad and fuck a girl and never call?

She is bawling her eyes out and chasing that high.

You're a PUA, self-proclaimed alpha, fuck a girl and never call?

Once the girl finds out, you're a PUA, she will feel disgusted about fucking you and call you a misogynist pig, smear you and more.

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-07-23T01:31:40+00:00

Women dont want to be asked....they want to be taken!

e7IDestiny · 2020-07-23T06:08:45+00:00

This is why you cant take women seriously,these days they are way too delusional and dangerous to other men.

Freefromcrazy · 2020-07-23T05:36:15+00:00

They get what they deserve. I have seen them all dump the nice guy and go chasing after someone who treats them like shit. If you want a woman just treat them for what they really are.

SmamelessMe · 2020-07-23T11:49:03+00:00

Frankly, we've done it to our selves. With Robert Glover taking the lead.

Most of us were taught that only assholes and bad people try to seduce women for sex. That true love develops over time from friendship and getting to know the other person.

Two decades later, doing that gets you labeled a creepy false friend "nice guy" who's trying to trick women who are not attracted to him into sexual relationship at their moment of weakness. And all the men, MGTOW, TRPs and MRAs included, cheers on how creepy those "nice guys" are.

No. Women did not make "nice guys" the villains. They never cared about "nice guys". It's us men who did that to ourselves.

GoingCrazy55 · 2020-07-23T01:16:20+00:00

This is truth,they do believe they are their pics

Batman_MGTOW · 2020-07-23T08:34:26+00:00

No. The reason why nice guys are undesirable is because they are feminine. Even a masculine woman prefers masculine men, no woman wants to have sex with a feminine man, maybe they will date or marry him but most of the time, they will cuck him. Feminine men are the result of a family dynamic where there is a masculine dominant overbearing mother who is a control freak and a feminine submissive father who does whatever she says. This is also how masculine women are made so the cycle continues unless the girls marry dominant men. If you look at most bad boys or bullies and compare them to most nice guys you will see what I am talking about. Usually, bad boys come from abusive fathers and submissive mothers, while normal charming men come from masculine non abusive fathers and normal mothers. In my case, I was raised by a masculine father and a masculine mother, the result is that I was very shy around people because my father wasnt always the one leading and was often dominated by my mother because she was more dominant than he was even though he wasnt completely feminine either. On the other hand, I knew a guy who was very charismatic and good with girls from a very young age and he was raised by a healthy normal family dynamic with a masculine father and a feminine mother. My cousin was raised by a single mother and he was very good with women in his 20s even though he was not super good looking and he is short. I am much taller than him but not nearly as good naturally because of how I was raised.

Our parents make us into who we are, nice guys are the result of dominant mothers and weak fathers. I was never a nice guy but never good with women either because I was always kind of in between, I wasnt too nice but I was always too shy. At least in my case, I am not doomed. I managed to change a lot over the years. But for many nice guys, its probably not reversible.

edgysecularist · 2020-07-23T16:25:00+00:00

The smartest move is not to play with these brain dead creatures STDs and COVID are all doing us a favor

MeagoDK · 2020-07-23T16:26:49+00:00

I think you define nice guys in a way that it's not normally defined as. Nice guys are simps and pathetic. They kiss their ass and growel on the floor to get a little attention in the hopes of getting pussy. When they don't they will turn 180 degrees and insult the women. They don't mean anything they say.

That is a horrible personality that nobody should promote. It's ugly.

TigPlaze · 2020-07-23T19:12:30+00:00

Exactly. When I was growing up, my dad taught me that it's important to be a kind and compassionate person, someone who cares about others and tries to help them. It's just plain bizarre that feminists have tried to turn that kind of goal into something sinister. It just shows what miserable and pathetic human beings feminists are. I still try to be kind and compassionate toward other human beings, just not to feminists any more. They've demanded that, so I'm granting it. If at all possible, I just don't have anything at all to do with any feminist.

Me2Brah · 2020-07-23T02:37:51+00:00

Isn’t nice guy syndrome just basically the reverse of the psychological halo effect?

The_Whorror_Show · 2020-07-23T12:21:15+00:00

Bruh they take advantage of nice guys when they're old and used up.

greyman0425 · 2020-07-23T13:27:24+00:00

The problem with Nice guys is the hidden agenda, one-itis and not having a clue about body language. In reality they have nothing in common but his attraction to her and her using that to extract resources from him. Then said nice guy gets mad when she doesn't want him. Then she will paint the nice guy in the worst possible light.

This situation is easy to fix:

Unless she is attracted to you don't wast your time being friends with her if you have nothing else in common. If you are friends with someone (male or female) it's because you have common interests, values, hobbies etc... to base it on. So only be "friends" if you have in common with her. In effect its a mutual friendzoning.
or go your own way

So being in the friendzone is not the issue. It's idiots buying into the RomCom fantasies sold to men over the years and getting mad when it doesn't work out.

kevin32 · 2020-07-23T16:26:43+00:00

Hey there u/Dunkman83, you should check out r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen. A lot of what your say is in the sidebar.

rayedward363 · 2020-07-23T20:24:39+00:00

Nice guys are very attractive! As long as they have a full bank account. Mostly women prefer nice guys because of how easy they are to manipulate. You've all seen the posts and heard how women will do what they can to "change" a bad boy. It's not to make him marriage material, it's to keep him from straying. However, they get bored of the newly "nice guy" and move on.

forseti_ · 2020-07-23T05:08:59+00:00

Nice guys are great manipulators. It's right to reject them. But the term "nice guy" is pretty bad because people think their fault id's to be genuinely nice. They arn't they are the sneaky dudes who think the woman needs to have sex with them because they helped her move. That's not how it works.

Nice guys deserve to be treated badly by women. That's the only way they will reflect on their problem and change.

A mentally healthy woman is your friend by pointing out your weakness. She will reject you and you are forced to make a change.

The problem of a nice guy is that he had bad parents that would only care about him if he made her mother happy. As a child your life depends on the good will of your parents. If your parents reject you while you are too young to care for yourself you are death. At least that's how your million years old brain think.

So you become a great manipulator and you find ways to please you mother so she gives you her affection. And that learned behavior is screwing you over with other girls later in life. You try to make them love you. You are trying to please them. But it doesn't work because they awe not your mom. They are disgusted by you.

The good thing is, it's just learned behavior. It's not you as a human being who is wrong. You can stop behaving like that. It's in your power.

Also there is a time to be a victim but then there is also a time to move on, man up and solve you god damn problems! Being a victim is for weak bitches.

So yes the "nice guy" is a villain towards women. They are fully right in this.

BTW it's right to be genuinely nice to women. You should treat all people nice. But that won't cause attraction. She is not getting wet because you treat her nice. Also you need to stand your ground. If she walks all over you and disrespects you - as your mom might have done uncountable times - it's not okay to wave this away by being nice to her. You need to set her borders. And surprisingly standing up for yourself will make her a little wet because it shows her you are able to protect yourself and her from other people.

EDIT: got a perma ban from a triggered virgin moderator - I see you are weak ass baby girls 😂

Title	Women have made "nice guys" the villain, and its hilarious to me.
Author	Dunkman83
Upvotes	240
Comments	51
Date	July 22, 2020 8:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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