Someone replied to a comment that more men need to see this so I made a post just for that reason.

I have had a plethora of jobs and this is something that has happened before.

My very first job, when I was 16, I asked a coworker out, she said no, then complained to management and I had a discussion with the owner. Nothing happened other than that I was told I had made her feel uncomfortable.

I wouldnt recommend it.

In my early 20's, I was a personal trainer for a big box gym. I was good at it, and I enjoyed it. My clients loved me and had fantastic success. I had a decent friend group, too.

During this time I was dating a girl. That was it's own set of problems but not what this story is about. This story is about a coworker. She had a crush on me and told me numerous times that she wanted to bang, and would go into graphic detail. I told her I wasn't interested and would always leave. I would make sexual jokes when I was around my friends because that's what guys do. She didn't like this. She also didn't like being rejected.

After some time, I eventually told her to stay away from me and not talk to me, even for work purposes. Everyone knew the type of skank she was, and other guys I worked with did the same as me because of how she behaved.

After a while she ended up apologizing and came to work functions where I attended, and the same behaviour resumed. After this time, I simply ignored her. Knowing what I know, and that men don't get anywhere with these types of claims (my boss being a woman, and my direct supervisor a cuck) I knew going to management was useless. I just wanted to train my clients and go home, with the least amount of stress possible.

Again, after some time, she came to me at work when I was in the back office and apologized yet again. She told came clean on a lot of stuff, and told me that she really liked me and was sorry for causing all this drama, but the girl in was with wasn't good for me and all that. I shut it down and told her I didn't care, and to leave me alone.

Some time later, probably a month or so, she approached me and asked me if I could write programs for her because my clients were seeing better results than the trainers that were charging $160 an hour. She offered me cash for the workouts, so I accepted because I figured, why not, it's money. Big mistake.

My greed took over and I should have just said no. Her goals, like all women, bigger bum and tighter waist. Easy enough, so I sent her some programs and she sent me money. After a couple of weeks, she asked me what my thoughts were on her legs and bum, and if they were improving. I was very professional, and told her to stand facing me, to the side, and away from me, like I have done countless times with all my clients. Gave her my honest opinion, modified her program, thought I was good to go.

About 3 weeks after this incident, the girl I was dating, no longer at this time, took me for coffee because she had something important to tell me. Being friends with the manager, she knew what was up. The manager had went around and told every single female employee that I had sexually harassed my coworker, without even speaking to me about it.

The girl that asked me to train her went to management and told them I was sexually harassing her and asked to see her bum, as well as made up accusations that I had forced myself onto her, which wasn't true. In fact, she had been on the lap of every guy I've ever seen her work with, or look at. She had also spread rumors to other women at the gym about me sexually harassing her, which impacted my business and ability to make money and support myself financially.

With this information, I took each one of my clients out to coffee individually to explain what was going on, and give them the option to continue to train with me, or leave if they didn't feel comfortable with it, if they so chose to. I didn't lose any clients that day.

When I returned to work, I was pulled into a meeting with HR and "evidence" was brought forth proving that I was harassing her. None of it was true. I proved it, as well as had several letters from other employees, both male and female, who had witnessed many times, her interactions with me, and others, and the type of sexualized behaviour she conducted to everyone. I requested her to be moved to another gym or fired, which was not an option HR was going to entertain. The following day after my meeting, she immediately asked me for hugs and kept hanging around me while I was at work. She also told me that we were going to do a couples costume for Halloween the following year. That doesn't sound like someone who was sexually harassed does it.

None of my evidence was even reviewed. I was simply a man, and someone who was "guilty", in the eyes of HR.

At this point, I was placed on paid leave for a week. At the end of the week I told HR I was still not comfortable returning to work, as now my reputation had been damaged. HR told me I could return to work, or quit. I returned to work.

I stopped working out at the gym, I stopped taking on new clients, I stopped going to meetings. I hated working there, getting stared at by women and having them whisper knowing it is just getting worse with each day. I felt terrible, no because I had done anything wrong, but because I knew I could no longer work there and make a living. I knew my clients would not continue training, either, and that was not fair to them.

When I eventually left, each one of my clients did not renew their training, and cancelled their memberships. The ones that could not get out of the remaining sessions continued with another trainer and then quit.

The girl that ruined my reputation was happy I was gone, because she couldn't have me. She was also universally hated by everyone. I had also heard that she was fired not long after for workplace misconduct.

Now, I work a decent gig as a guard for the criminally insane. I bought a motorcycle, a challenger (picking it up hopefully this week, July 20), in far better shape physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. I have more happiness and joy now, with a better schedule, than I have ever had. In hindsight, I probably could have, and should have, sued the girl, the manager, and the company, but I doubt I would have won.

I wanted to share this with everyone so you can all see that women are FUBAR. Don't mess around with them, even in a professional setting. Don't associate with them, even in a professional setting. They are not worth anything, and bring no value to your life.

Oh, and the girl that I was dating, who told me all of this, she cheated on me with her ex so I dumped her for that.

And the manager of the gym also had a crush on me, too.

a AWALT, and stay safe. Record everything.