Girl came on strong in dating app. Said she was looking for fun and wanted to hangout. I say sure, come over. She comes over later that night. We talk and get to know each other then we have sex.
I’m not a Chad by any means, this has never happened to me before, ever. I was dumbfounded, nervous and anxious when it did.
But it went well. We hung out, she stayed the night, we cuddled, listened to music. All around just a good time.
I want to hangout with her again, but I just don’t know where she stands. Felt like it was a one time thing, like she just wanted a hookup that night.
I thought about reaching out but didn’t want to come across as needy. I feel like I could lose this girl easily because I like her. Should I wait a couple days? Wait til she reaches out? What do I do?
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I beg to differ lol but yeah I guess for someone without a lot of experience it's a good idea. Something I've noticed though is a ton of people coming here for advice, being told to act like someone they are not, and then being surprised when people see through that facade and they fail anyways.
If you're the kind of person that likes to text and talk to girls and have them spend the night once in a while, like me, then applying TRP concepts to that type of behavior works way better than never texting girls first because they are "all whores". Sounds like a pretty bitter way to be but that's just me. The older I get the more I see that TRP is not a strict rulebook and playing the Alpha Dog game all day long is not conducive to everyone's situation. I had way more success with women applying TRP to my own personal temperament rather than following every line of the sidebar like a religion.
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I'm not wrong, and I have hundreds of texts of evidence to prove it. I'm not telling him not to follow TRP principles but some of you take this texting nonsense way too seriously. I message girls that I fuck all the time to shoot the shit and I've never screwed myself as badly as some of you seem to think sending one extra little text will do. That advice is for autistic retards who screw themselves out of pussy with nearly every word they say. If you're a half decent human being you don't have "everything to lose" by texting a girl. If I wanna fuck one of my plates I ask them to fuck and they either say yes or no and I continue about my day accordingly. I text them dumb shit all the time, and they love it. They also hate when I stop--if you want to talk about getting a girls' hamster going try dosing her up with digital crack and taking it away suddenly.
What drives them away is reeking of neediness and acting like a little bitch when they don't respond the way you want them to. If an alpha guy messages a girl first she'll get tingles just from seeing the notification. Not saying I or OP am that amazing flawless person, but I am of the opinion that some of you hold way too fast and rigidly to the concepts of TRP without leaving room to be your own man or over-analyze every little interaction and play silly text games. Like I said, I have tons of field evidence backing this up. If I wanna text a girl I do it and I still manage to get laid man. Believe it or not people with game can do pretty much anything and still find a girl to lay up with.
Didn't any of you guys go to college? Straight up losers get laid left and right. I personally think that the people who spend all day surgically planning out what to text and not to text a girl get laid even less than some of the losers I went to college with that simply just went out and talked to women.
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