She stayed on the CC too long

iny_m · 2020-11-01T13:13:55+00:00

“Supporting my mother through her THIRD divorce..”

Wonder why she’s like that lmao

InevitableOwl1 · 2020-11-01T13:59:20+00:00

Cool wine aunt expectations: being the protagonist in movies like Trainwreck, not having to worry about stupid shit like relationships or the maintenance of one, and just being a total "Alpha female" and "having the world by the balls".

Cool wine aunt reality: This.

tosernameschescksout · 2020-11-01T14:30:30+00:00

This entire thing is her complaining because somebody else has something and she doesn't.
But you know what? She NEVER wanted it until someone else had it.

Female psychology.

Pimp87 · 2020-11-01T13:13:52+00:00

This is a textbook example of how the fkbois gey their best and after the wall, they cry about how they were in “toxic” relationships and wasted their time and now want babies and can’t have babies and partner while everyone else is having it. Speak about eating your cake and then wanting it. As an adult, I would like to ask her what she was doing with the past 20 years of her adult life? Responsibility? Accountability? Like hello?

Jake-Orion · 2020-11-01T14:02:08+00:00

Every relationship I had broke me a bit.

Classic example of pair-bonding degraded to the point of the physical, not emotional aspect of the relationship. What surprises me is she realized this, either from an epiphany or wisdom she received from life experience.

But this woman is also spiteful, by giving the impression her family (mostly her beautiful step-sister) are the reasons for her staying single. I read it that her boyfriends would bail on her to go after the step, which translated to me, Chads. Pump and dump her while using her as a liaison to get to the step.

OathOfRhino · 2020-11-01T13:54:33+00:00

There's no such thing as staying on the carousel just enough. If you ride it you're a whore. No forgiveness from me.

rahsoft · 2020-11-01T15:19:45+00:00

I've got to say. Only joined this reddit about a few days ago .. and I'm impressed by the comedy gold here. I always knew there were these kinds of people in the world, but I didn't realise how bad it was..

jihocech · 2020-11-01T15:53:03+00:00

I have ZERO sympathy.

Patrice O'Neill was right. Women want someone to tell that what to do, to take all the risks, to shoulder all the burden.

Treating women with the respect they demanded was wrong. I've done it for years and they just lie and lie and lie.

So have fun learning about solitude, cat health, and how to rationalize your bad decisions while you age and die.

Because I could not give less of a shit anymore.

I've got the sixes and more. I've produced feature films, I have a scholarship in my name. I'm a combat vet. A private pilot. And I treat people with respect.

Women are just bullshit and lies. I've got money, I can buy my happiness now at the least.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2020-11-01T13:55:18+00:00

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someevilwhitemen · 2020-11-01T16:37:52+00:00

i dont understand what"s her problem is ??? she is living the feminist dream she is all empowered

she even can get more empowerment everytime she needs with few swipe on tinder,

she has the freedom to make so many extra shifts for the faceless global company she is working for so she can buy as much shoes and booze as she wants

you are living the dream !! go girl !!

NickTesla2018 · 2020-11-01T14:11:33+00:00

You keep walking through the dong minefield, and... Boom! You hit The Wall on the other side. I'm sure there were some good guys back then. Not Chads, not millionaires, not six foot tall. But they were never good enough, were they? She dug her own grave.

PrestigiousAct2 · 2020-11-01T14:25:03+00:00

Forever the babysitting aunt. Oh we have a date night can you babysit the kids for us sis.

rahsoft · 2020-11-01T15:17:35+00:00

sorry, but you are not even in the right mindset to have kids.

either

a) accept that some things in life were not meant to be and that we all have little control over our lives.

or

b) accept that you didn't make an effort for yourself and seized opportunities( and citing your mother and her third divorce is not an excuse to the situation and NOT relevant).

There is a very great opportunity here to have some sort of parenting role with her sister child( and I think her sister is sensing that and trying to give her a role)

...and I wonder what happened to her relationship with her father. her parents situation wasn't exactly a great role model for her, although it doesn't seem to have affected her sister as badly..

there's an element of narcissism there as well.

Tsnacker77 · 2020-11-01T15:23:25+00:00

She admitted she looks like Danny Devito. Jus sayin.

Sinestro617 · 2020-11-01T16:48:16+00:00

Not gonna lie this is pretty sad. Ladies make better choices or this will be you.

Fact131 · 2020-11-01T15:24:39+00:00

"with her kind and decent partner"

You already know she will never date anyone she considers under her or even worse she considers even with her.

MrNeurotypical · 2020-11-01T17:07:09+00:00

When will someone have the guts to speak up about this kind of thing?

You can either be a parent or a career woman, but not both.

If a woman wants to become a parent, her prime fertility years are before the age of 30. Can't really climb the corporate ladder much if you're taking care of your kids the right way. If you have kids but are climbing the corporate ladder, then your kids aren't going to turn out the way you want them to be because someone else is actually raising them.

If you climb the corporate ladder and put off having kids, you'll turn out crying yourself to sleep with pregnancy envy like this woman.

Take your pick, ladies. If you want to be a mother, then find a good man who wants to be a dad, and be the best mother you can be. If you don't care for kids, then push through the corporate ladder and become the hotshot executive you know you'll be, queen.

Take your pick, ladies. You can't be both. I don't want to hear "But so-and-so raised three kids on her own and became X."--there are exceptions to every rule, but that does not invalidate the rule.

Pick your path in life, and don't wait too long because biology doesn't give a shit about your indecisiveness.

joozian_ · 2020-11-01T16:03:35+00:00

Feminism tries to convince women they don’t need traditional relationships to be happy. The evidence says otherwise, and all these 40 something career or cc women end up regretting it. But they continue to push the lie because somehow relationships with traditional gender roles are sexist.

My wife and I just had our first son 6 weeks ago. She has a career that she loves and looks forward to going back to, but she’s a mom first now and couldn’t be happier. If she could afford to stay home I’m sure she would.

tstedel · 2020-11-01T17:44:03+00:00

I don’t know, from her description, it doesn’t sound like she was even allowed on the ride at all

BluepillProfessor · 2020-11-01T17:43:48+00:00

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Lord_Hatertroll · 2020-11-01T18:09:13+00:00

yuck. female version of frank?

U_GotTriggered · 2020-11-01T19:16:07+00:00

Pathetic. Behind her lies a litany of men that tried, only to be denied and thrown away for meaningless sexual encounters.

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2020-11-01T20:01:16+00:00

Menopause at 40? Feminism really fucked this bitch over.

tux_pirata · 2020-11-01T21:37:24+00:00

if she's really a female danny devito then I doubt she was getting any bro, more like she got the very short end of the genetic lottery

peguy2000 · 2020-11-01T18:44:06+00:00

Feminism has promised her everything, now she got nothing.

E-roticWarrior · 2020-11-01T19:00:49+00:00

*sniff sniff* so sad.

Blogginginvicecity · 2020-11-01T19:31:21+00:00

Absolutely REKD emotionally

2020-11-01T19:37:11+00:00

Oof she really didn’t have any priorities huh? She could have been content (maybe) with a good paying job. Nor did she try to find a relationship and settle down. What a clown

LateralThinker13 · 2020-11-13T19:13:56+00:00

Menopause at 40 means her biology is SERIOUSLY screwed up. That ain't normal.

Ethreal_N · 2020-11-01T19:18:09+00:00

Idk about this one, She never really bashed men in this post and iset really blaming anyone but herself. She actually could be ugly like she says and just never found anyone. making fun of this one just seems a bit wrong. Unless theres more information somewhere Ima give her the benefit of the doubt.

NeoCzar · 2020-11-01T19:46:05+00:00

To be fair, she described herself as the female version of Danny DeVito, and no mention of any relationship history except a remark that a guy couldn’t wait to get away upon just meeting her at her sister’s. Me thinks incelette, no CC.

Title	She stayed on the CC too long
Author	Pimp87
Upvotes	233
Comments	127
Date	November 1, 2020 1:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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