Thanks to this sub, I watch everything men say when speaking to me and it's made me realize how shitty most are. The man I'm talking to right now showed how HVM he is yesterday.

A older guy (like late 60s) backed into my car and shattered my left headlight and bent my fender out of place. I'm pissed but uninjured. The old man tried to say he didn't do it even with it on video and refused to look at me or even apologize. But that's a different rant. I immediately called my HVM at work saying I was in an accident. I didn't ask him to show up but he dropped everything at work, grabbed some tools (mechanic) and rushed to me to make sure I was okay and if the car was able to be driven. He stayed there while I talked to the police. Made sure I was heard and if I was confused about something (never filed a claim before) KINDLY said he would walk me through it later. There was no talking down to me, no criticizing how I should of been able to avoid this dumbass hitting me etc. Then after he got off work, he took me out to eat to distract me from the stress of the day. He genuinely cared about me and was there for me.

I had to rant about this. It's not something I've experienced before. Rant over.