First things first, first time posting here but a lurker who values the information, I’m a man seeking LTR advice.

I’ve been dating a sweet girl for the past 9 months and things have been going smoothly. There have been a few hiccups which I’ll mention later on in the post, but my questions will be directed towards LTR probability and marriage material.

Like I said, I’m a late 20’s male. I’ve had two LTR’s over the course of my life, both lasting a little over two years. First one I broke off due to her moving long distance and us not making it work, and the second one I caught cheating. I’ve never slept around, dislike the bar scene and hookup culture greatly and I’ve been looking for potential marriage material since HS, obviously I’ve failed heavily in that endeavour and I’m questioning if it’s still possible for me at this point.

Now my dilemma at hand. I’m currently dating a sweet girl, she’s had red flags since the beginning but I’ve been kicking with it to see where it goes. Now I’ve researched heavily into relationship dynamics and I’ve tried to orchestrate myself to be the best partner I could possibly be.

A little bit about my girlfriends past. She was assaulted in her teens, her last relationship was 3 years ago and apparently from what I’ve been told, he was abusive. She was a party girl in between the time we weren’t together. All her friends, save for one, are party girls. Her body count is over 10. She is still in contact with her past FwB who she was seeing before we got together. The list goes on at this point, and even typing it out has me conflicted.

The reason I come to you RPW, is some advice and probability on my relationship. She’s been talking to me about moving in together and eventually marriage, which is what I too desire, but from all the research and notes I’ve gathered over the years of being single and looking for a life partner, my gut instinct tells me this might be bad decision to make.

I’m open to answering any questions and seeking whatever advice you can give me. Thank you in advance.