When a woman gets involved with the best man she can get and gets left by him/leaves him( because he doesn’t want to commit to just her), what is she to do? Getting involved with any other man will inevitably feel like “settling”. This is if she’s even able to feel attraction to other men. If she’s able to garner he interest of a man of equal or higher value, 99% chance she’ll go through the same thing. There’s actually even MORE of a chance that he won’t commit this time because she has a higher n-count which lowers her value. It’s such a slippery slope that inevitably ends in a lose-lose situation. Does she have any hope?

Her hopeful options:

  1. Be able to feel attraction for a lower value man and be happy with his commitment.

  2. Be able to get the commitment of a man of equal or higher value to the alpha.

  3. Be able to find happiness in just being a plate.