How do you deal when people takes ages to respond on the dating apps?

FinancialThanks1 · 2021-03-10T10:30:07+00:00

If you’ve matched with other girls that are replying faster then yes obviously choose one of them

uborka161 · 2021-03-10T10:57:44+00:00

I think she has other options, if she would be into you she would reply quite fast

ExcellentItem · 2021-03-10T11:00:26+00:00

Messaging on dating apps is so random, all females literally get hundreds of matches, think how easy it is for them to forget you.

Once the conversation goes smoothly on the dating app, take her number or whichever social handle you like the most (Snapchat, Instagram...) you'll be less likely to be flaked on.

TheStumblingWolf · 2021-03-10T11:34:04+00:00

There could be so many reasons, and yes - one of them could be she's not that intersted. And that's ok. Your job is to look out for you, so if you have other prospects you hit them up before anything else.

AuberyBitoni · 2021-03-10T13:57:23+00:00

Good, you're on for saturday. But it sounds like she'll flake so make sure you have other options lined up.

ErectileDistention · 2021-03-10T23:30:33+00:00

To sanely use dating apps you have to literally give them as much attention as you have time for while taking a shit.
You can't look at is a normal human interaction. I like to compare it to angling, the type were the rod is sitting unattended and once in a while you come back and have a look. If you are wondering why she hasn't responded then you are in the wrong frame. You don't care if the fish bites, it's just a background process, a supplement to your real life.

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2021-03-10T10:16:37+00:00

If you’re expecting to set times/dates w women in specific time slots like business meetings, you’re doing it wrong. Women go with their whims. Set looser arrangements and let them come to you closer to the time. If she misses out cuz you’re doing something else just say “ah shoulda hit me up sooner, I accepted other plans”.

Title	How do you deal when people takes ages to respond on the dating apps?
Author	EarlySpend3
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	March 10, 2021 9:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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