If you've ever said the sentence: "Short guys can't get laid" as a short guy, or if you've inserted your own less than desirable trait, you're right, you probably can't with that shitty attitude.

Let's be clear, I'm not saying guys that are short guys can't get laid, I'm saying that a shitty attitude and repeating to yourself over and over again that: "short guys can't get laid" will be what stops you from having sex with more girls.

You're nit-picking one of your flaws, focusing on it and then identifying yourself by the negative trait you've assigned as your hill to die on. Why not flip it? Why not be the charming guy, the interesting guy, the masculine man?

This thinking is super fucking judgemental. You need to stop being a judgemental prick.

There's two scenarios:

A) You're going around judging everyone like you do yourself. You're thinking that guy is fat, he's probably super lazy and never has sex with his wife, that guy looks rich he must be an evil scumbag, that guy is bald, women must hate him.

B) You're only holding this standard of criticism to yourself. In which case you need to get over yourself. It's incredibly arrogant to think that you're so much better than everyone else that the standards you need to set for yourself are higher than anyone else.

I've done a YouTube video talking in way more depth here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0e0qwPftuCM

So for whatever reason, if you're telling yourself you cant get laid because you're short (or any other self limiting belief) stop it. All this will do is make you see less results, be less productive and more importantly set you up for a miserable life.

So to answer the more important question: How do I get laid as a short guy?

Hit on girls that are shorter than you, or stop giving a fuck. For anyone saying: "you're tall and white, what would you know?" I've done an interview with a guy who is 5"6.

He was a 31 yr old virgin with ED and in the last few years has slept with 10+ women. So for anyone saying that I'm not short so none of my advice counts, you can hear it from a guy who is. Here's the interview if you want to check it out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUcLtSztIgU

Ultimately, if you're a short guy that dwells on being short it's not the height that's the problem, it's the shame around your height that puts girls off. If you're a self pitying, wretched person, that's will be the most unattractive thing about you.

You don't really have a option, either let go of your shame, and work harder, talk to more women and do everything you can to get what you want out of life. The worse alternative is giving up on getting laid because it's harder for you, life isn't fair so "why bother?". You need to suck it up, put in the work and make up for any flaws you have, not give up. Maybe your flaws mean you have to work harder. So what? If that's the case then you're going to need to deal with it and get to work and go talk to more women.

No flaw, whether that's being short, bald, asian or ugly, will ever mean you definitively have zero chance of getting laid. I get it, I've had my own shit to deal with. I'm skinny, bald and I was seriously depressed and suicidal for years. I know it sucks but I've worked my ass of and found success. If it's the case for you that you need to work harder, go do that. Get over yourself and own your shit.

- Andy