I went on a date with a girl that made the first move on me about 3 weeks ago. In her words, the date went really well. We kissed a few times, had some minor foreplay and she texted me after the date to say that she had a great time. This girl had recently stopped seeing this guy about 2 weeks before our date because he had basically used her for sex and then ghosted her.

We texted for a few days after the date and when I saw her at work she’d be really flirty around me; however, after those few days the texting got a bit more infrequent, sometimes she wouldn’t reply to messages and it felt like she was avoiding me at work. I thought that I may have been over texting, so pulled back for a week or two and continued seeing other girls and living my life.

Anyway, I asked her out again and she replied saying, “I’ve wanted to talk to you about this. You’re such a great and nice guy and I had an amazing time on our date, but the last person I was seeing has really messed me up and I’m not ready to go out again but in a few weeks time maybe I will be”.

Now this may not mean anything, but this girl is always the first to view any social media content that I put up, usually within a couple of minutes. Yesterday, I went on a date to a Chinese restaurant and posted a photo of the table of food and she replied, “oh so who have you gone here with?🤔”, I replied “with a friend of mine” and she didn’t say anything further.

I’m not sure how to proceed from here. Should I continue to talk to her or just move on and should I still be flirty with her when I see her at the office or should I treat her like a platonic friend? By the way, she is 23 F and I am 24 M.