Tl;dr, I’ve been offered a great position selling medical devices in California, I need to take it, but my LTR is here with me in Texas, I need to break up with her but it’s making me feel like shit.

Hey guys,

This is probably the most beta I’ve felt since before swallowing the pill, I’m in a 10 month LTR with a girl I’ve known for three years.

Our relationship is okay, we fight sometimes, typically my fault because I see her do attention seeking shit that women do and get mad at her about it. Never a real sign of her cheating, and I’ve logged in to her social media occasionally to check. She is also semi famous on tiktok so I’ve checked that shit too. Overall, we love each other. She is submissive and I fuck her good.

I’ve spoke with some of you before about my history in sales, used car sales now on to medical sales. A California company offered me a GREAT position and I know I need to take it. I will be there for atleast a year before I transfer to a company out in Texas again.

This means her and I most likely have to break up. The thought of that makes me feel like shit. I’ve fucked 8 girls including her but she is my first real LTR. I’ll miss her and honestly, the idea of her being with other people pisses me off.

I’m too young (21) to even consider marrying her, she has too many red flags as well. (Body count of 10 at 21, depression, too much attention seeking on social media, etc.)

So this shit will probably have to end soon when I leave in about a month. What is the best way for me to not care about her and what she does after me?

Thank you for your help!